its been over one n a half month hes not bothered to get back in touch :(
hes my very good friend n i really like him alot.
i miss him n his stupid lil conversations....
he was my best bud..
i mailed him n tried my best.... nothing is wrong.... but WHY dint he reply???
i cant forget him
nor i can think of moving on cause hes ALWAYS on my mind,,,,
i dont think i deserve this....................... :(
i want him back :( :( :(
its his birthday next week... hes in london studying ... n im in mumbai... SHOULD I CALL HIM TO WISH HIM??? and just clear out the matter tht y has he acted like this?? i mean if he din wanna talk he couldve at least told me be4 he went.... but NO WE WERE ALWAYS on msgs be4 he left...
if i call him in london ( i want an opinion yes or no) yeah if i call him atleast i can end it off or whtever it is properly without hanging in the middle and see whats actually happening....
GIMME A REASON HOW CAN HE MOVE ON WHEN THER WERE NO FIGHTS NO NOTHING ....
2006-10-27 01:03:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What do YOU really want ?
I'll take a wild guess here and bet that the kind of guy that you truly want isn't the kind of guy who would act how this guy is acting. As in, the kind of guy who would be very friendly (or have S++) with a woman and then act distant with her just because she wants to talk about how she's feeling. So, sorry for asking but... What the hell are you doing!? You're wasting your energy trying to get the love and approval of someone who acts like a person you don't even want to be with!?
You need a lesson on who a man really is. There are FASCINATING biological reasons for why men act the way they do. But the reasons that are the most important for you to understand right now aren't the
"scientific" ones.
The feminine energy grows with fullness, praise, connection and love, to allow a kind of "surrender" in all kinds of joyful experiences. Women surrender to the experience with a man through love and connection, which can make the man and woman as one. But the masculine energy doesn't work this
way. At least not in the "darker" part of a man.
The masculine energy is VERY different. The masculine energy seeks to break through challenges all alone and arrive at its desire - "emptiness" and "freedom". Have you ever heard a man talk about how he wanted his "freedom"... and you wondered what the hell he was talking about? And you could tell that he didn't even really know what he meant by his "freedom".
This "freedom" or emptiness is actually the masculine means of surrender and fulfillment. Just as the feminine means is connection and loving. Ever noticed or are u aware that lots of men fall right to sleep or act like they're off somewhere else after s++ ? There are tons of pop-culture references to men doing this in TV, movies, books, etc. People know that men often behave this way.
It's "conventional wisdom". But most people don't really know WHY men act this way.
Explanition - Have you ever thought about why so many men have a strong addiction to watching sports events. Well, each game is setup in a specific way that draws a man's emotions into the experience. At the center of each game is a person or a team that rises up to overcome. It's a kind of trial where a man will break through hardship, competition and challenge. And when a team or player scores a goal celebrates, something fascinating takes place. The man "breaks through" the challenge into "freedom" and the final emptiness of victory. Then the men will celebrate as though their greatest desires have been fulfilled and cry out as they never have before.
How does this relate to dating and love?
Notice that in physical experiences with women, or in life for that matter, most men don't have the same strong drive to be deeply
and unwaveringly CONNECTED to the people around them like most healthy women do. Often times, they're driven by something that has nothing to do with love, intimacy and connection.
Having giving you the insite of men actually think, I do hope that your man is just busy settling down in the new place and will get in touch with you soon, but do keep the advise handy.
Good Luck>rr
2006-10-27 02:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by Rahul 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel my brother has the same problem... what really makes a difference in what choice you should make is the game console he has. Xbox 360 -under the options menu there are family preferences where you can set up a timer with a code you set that will allow you to control how much time is allowed each day. If you are very confident he will not become explosive with anger this is the recomended choice -You can always sabotage the xbox how you can do this without arousing suspicion im not sure -Xbox is infamous for disk drive problems if you can knock it from vertical position to horizontal or vice versa while he is playing the disk will be "laser-burned" and will not work although he could always just buy a new one Playstation 3 -while im not as experienced with this console as i only recently purchased one, in the game menu there will be a choice that says "game data utility" you can access that option, highlight the call of duty game save, press triangle and choose the option to delete the file which will remove anything pertaining to call of duty -make sure you delete anything with call of duty on it though- You can also try intervention, maybe if you sit down and have a serious talk with him he might realize what he's been doing hasn't been normal.
2016-05-22 00:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that if he is new in london, he should be learning and experiencing new things and new friends, and his studies. Just wish him happy birthday by phone, and send him a card. Just bare with him. But if he keeps ignoring your call, you might have to ask him if you ever did anything wrong. Maybe he's really busy with school and all. But remember (4 the future) that even if you guys are mad never forget to wish happy Bday. Good Luck.
2006-10-27 01:13:26 · answer #3 · answered by chinaz777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must be exploring things out himself and must be unsure of his feelings regarding you. You seem to be infatuated by him and is not being a friend anymore and he might be not ready for a relationship or just does not want to have this one with you. He must be unsure himself what to do and may not even want to break off with you yet. Of course any rejections can be hurtful and for boys, it is even more difficult to handle a sentimental bout and difficult conversations! I will suggest that you wish him through e-mail or mail and that too casually. Don't try to contact him again and again. He might be just very busy and have more worries about preparing his next meal and preparing for his next tests. Boys' minds generally can process only one thing at once. Sorry guys! Let him get back to you in his own time and decide for once and for all. Pressurizing him may only lead to hurried decisions that were not actually meant to be. Get off the 'friendship' hook for a while and engage in more useful activities. As the saying goes, if he comes back, he is yours.
2006-10-27 01:33:15 · answer #4 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes wish him a happy birthday and clear the air ---- if he is not interested any more move on
2006-10-27 01:19:59 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you didn't forget him and distanced from him on your own nothing wrong in wishing him happy returns on an auspicious day.
try once. you can know the depth of his heart.
2006-10-27 01:35:21 · answer #6 · answered by R Purushotham Rao 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So conf,
end this confusion by taking initiative & wishing him on this occasion. You will see good response.
2006-10-27 01:09:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him find out what the deal is and if he doesnt want anything with you let it go there are too many men out there to be hung up on one dummy
2006-10-27 01:11:45 · answer #8 · answered by Avis S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should wish him or call him or send email ok
2006-10-27 01:22:18 · answer #9 · answered by PICK - INDIA - PORTUGAL LISBON 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must ask your conscience, as to what you should do, in the circumstances mentioned by you.
2006-10-27 02:20:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋