why can't i find a bf is it me is it cause i'm ugly or something i went out with someone and he treated me lyk crap so i dumped him. did i do the right thing.
2006-10-27 00:54:13 · 12 answers · asked by pinky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I doubt it's because you ugly. I was in a really serious relationship for a long time and we broke up over a year ago and I haven't dated anyone seriously since then but I don't think it's a problem I just haven't met the right guy & I don't want to settle for just anyone and you shouldn't do that either.
2006-10-27 00:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by Leah * 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you did the right thing! Did you try everything possible to get a bf? If so why not lower your standars a little. If you are not Jessica Alba then do not go for Brad Pitt. If you think you have not tried all. Here are some pointers.
Change your look to something that makes you feel more sexy, you have to feel confident and have to feel like a goddess. Try not to be desperate and do play hard to get.Guys like chalenges and do not want a cheap girl by their side.Not that I say you are desperate, only you can judge that. Good luck and happy hunting!
2006-10-27 01:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by alwyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder and that there is someone for everyone.
I heard somewhere (don't remember where) that you have EXACTLY the kind love life you want. If you let a guy treat you like crap, sister, he will.
You can get any guy, anywhere( Hitch!), just believe it. Put yourself out there & meet people. If you're scared of rejection think about this- you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. so just do it!
2006-10-27 01:03:46 · answer #3 · answered by barbarita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STEP 1: Know what type of guy you're looking for. Make a list of traits that appeal to you, such as intelligence, looks, ambition, sense of humor, or respect for other people's feelings.
STEP 2: Resolve old hurts and disappointments. Make sure you're ready for a new relationship by setting aside any grievances about old boyfriends.
STEP 3: Attract the type of guy you're looking for by emphasizing your best features and downplaying undesirable traits. Make the most of what you have, both physically and mentally.
STEP 4: Learn how to make a guy feel good about himself by taking an interest in his life and his aspirations.
STEP 5: Consider any unattached guys at your school or work. Do any of them match the qualities that you want in a boyfriend?
STEP 6: Get involved in activities that you enjoy to give yourself the chance to meet new guys. Expand your horizons and your circle of friends.
STEP 7: If you have your eye on a certain guy, let mutual friends know about your interest in him. Ask someone you trust to discreetly tell him about your interest.
STEP 8: If you don't have the nerve to directly approach a guy who has caught your eye, consider being his secret admirer for a while. Send him sweet, anonymous messages or notes (with a few subtle clues about your identity) to let him know about your interest in him.
2006-10-27 00:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Im a fat ugly skater chick WHO CARES!!!!!! you and i will find love when were ment to im working on love i dont have boy friend yet but i do like this guy and im going to ask him out today
2006-10-27 00:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by kkamdog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FATE. And you did the right thing. Nobody deserves to be treated like cr*p.
2006-10-27 00:57:25 · answer #6 · answered by CURIOUS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking for one and he'll find you. Sometimes...what you're looking for is right under your nose... people look so hard for things and just don't realize that what they want is what they already have.
2006-10-27 00:58:20 · answer #7 · answered by ••Mott•• 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're young, so just relax and enjoy life without worrying about boyfriends.
2006-10-27 01:03:09 · answer #8 · answered by Bentele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Juts decorate your face and body
2006-10-27 01:00:31 · answer #9 · answered by Chucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look in the right places n dont b desperate...everything happens in its right time
2006-10-27 00:57:03 · answer #10 · answered by mery b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋