Her name is shiza and she is like 6 months older than me.
Please tell me.
I LOVE her Very much.
I also worte poems for her.
2006-10-27 00:55:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love her then tell her but you might want to wait until you know how she feels. Don't say anything to her unless you have at least started dating her. If she wont go on a date with you then give it up. You have to take it slowly and if she decides she likes/loves you then maybe you'll tell her then. These things take time don't scare her off by moving too fast. Her loving you will be her decision you cannot make her have feelings for you. In the meantime keep writing your poems but keep them to yourself(this might scare her off too). I wish you luck! Hope it works out.
2006-10-27 01:07:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, what you are feeling is not love. You may think it is, but it isnt. My guess is that you are pretty young, and you most likely have no idea what love really feels like, even though you probably have huge feelings for her right now.
TAKE YOUR TIME and treat her with respect. You cant MAKE her like you, however if you treat her like a lady and you dont push your feelings on her, she may grow to like you. The worst thing you can do is tell her you love her right now. That should be reserved for the time when you know that BOTH of you feel the same way. In the meantime, have fun! Dont make it so serious. Drop the poems for now unless she asks for them. Dont work so hard to win her heart, but be a good friend, respect her, but let her be her own person. Your friendship will shine more than your attempts to gain her love. Early on, it's way more important to invite her out for a Coke at the McDonalds than to make her uncomfortable by writing poems and professing your love for her. Dont lose sight that relationships are supposed to be fun--it will not be fun for HER if all you do is things to try and win her heart.
Ultimately, remember that you MAY not be the one for her, and you have no decision over the matter. There are millions of other girls out there if she decides that you arent the one. And that may hurt, but we have all been there and we survived. Best of luck to you.
2006-10-27 08:04:55 · answer #2 · answered by Freak Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Showing her the poems may tell her how you feel, but remember you can never and should never want to get someone to love or like you. Just be yourself and see what happens. If you force her, it will not be true and will change for the worse over the years.
2006-10-27 07:57:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enough of that, If she can't tell by now that you like her I guess you will have to stuff a sock down your pants. It never fails. Good luck. The bigger the sock the better.
2006-10-27 08:00:27 · answer #4 · answered by CURIOUS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant make her love u it has to grow on her! have u told her how u feel? i would even if u scared to! but maybe she needs some time to grow on the idea that u loving her is still going to be there and maybe she give u a chance! u sound sweet!
2006-10-27 08:29:22 · answer #5 · answered by *KiAnA* =] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You or I - can't make anyone like or hate you. If you love her... TELL HER! If she has any interest in you, you will already know it. People have great difficulty in expressing feelings. Sometimes you can just feel it.
2006-10-27 08:00:51 · answer #6 · answered by ••Mott•• 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant "MAKE" anyone like you if they have feelings for you then thats fine but dont force them to try to like you go up and ask her out
2006-10-27 07:58:33 · answer #7 · answered by lita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she does not like the person you are there is not a lot you can do --- the age is not an issue
2006-10-27 07:59:17 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mail her your poem.
I am sure she will like it and propose her.
2006-10-27 07:58:13 · answer #9 · answered by bangla answer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋