Family & Relationships - 25 October 2006

2006-10-25 05:06:26 · 1 answers · asked by Mermaid 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

If a husband is addicted to being online all the time even though he knows it bothers you how long do you give him to change the behavior before you walk away from the relationship. You feel he is using the computer for sex to avoid being intimate with you and to have anonymous communications with other women after he has cheated on you before. Is this a hopeless situation?

2006-10-25 05:05:43 · 37 answers · asked by loqueen 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She is beginning to question our relationship and second guess everything she has been able to accomplish. She has two teenage children who are playing both sides and a very vindictive ex husband. The ex refuses to enforce any "punishment" ie grounding and is blaming my friend for the breakup. He also does not want to be a parent but a good pal to the kids. What can I do if anything? Seeing my friend get worn down by this very hard.

2006-10-25 05:04:50 · 7 answers · asked by Tom 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I thought I really liked him but he is the biggest jerk ever! I can't be with him anymore!!!!!!

2006-10-25 05:03:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For whomever reads these things, I need some advise:

A good friend of mine's wife talked to me last weekend and told me that she is infatuated with me and thinks about "being" with me all the time. I told her that I don't feel weird about it, but I felt like I was lying everytime my buddy and I hang out. I seriously want to tell him, cause there is no way in hell that I would mess around with a married woman, regardless of who they are married to. And for those who care....yes, she is hot.

The questions are this: Am I in the wrong for not saying anything? Should I tell him?

This is serious, so if you want to leave some dumb assed reply, don't waste your time.

Thanks.

2006-10-25 05:03:29 · 72 answers · asked by clipsegsxwidsm 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my fiance promised he would never hit me again, he did anyway. Now he wants another chance to make it up to me. I want to leave when I get paid do you think I will be safe until then?I dont get paid until them middle of next month.

2006-10-25 05:02:47 · 27 answers · asked by worried 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok i babysit for this couple and well they always stay home on the wknds i know that cuz thats what they tell me and well we live in the same apartment complex and i always see there cars home! anyways im young 21 to be exact and i go out alot on the wknds i went to a bar this wknd and saw the ladys husband there with another women he said it was his cousin but then they left right away! should i tell his wife or keep it to myself?

2006-10-25 05:02:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He knows my e-mail adress

2006-10-25 05:02:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My long time friend has been with her husband for a total of 2 years (I don't really know him). I never hang out with them because they have a rocky marriage and they drink A LOT. I haven't seen them in about 1 year.

Her husband is average looking, I don't find him that attractive and he is not my type at all. In fact if he was walking down the street I wouldn't even look at him.

I never talk to him, but I talk to my friend a lot via email and she talks to me about their marriage problems and shows me pictures of them on trips and I don't think he is hot like she says. LOL

My question: I had a sexual dream about him last night and I woke up feeling guilty like I betrayed my friend and husband!

Why did I dream about him? Was it just a dream or do I have some attraction to him that I am not aware of?

P.S. I am happily married!

2006-10-25 05:02:13 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he doesnt even last a min when we r in bed? does anyone know anything that i can do to make last longer.

2006-10-25 05:01:13 · 45 answers · asked by lil duce 1 in Singles & Dating

love & sex are two needs of human one is physical need while other one is emotional need. is there any co relation between them?

2006-10-25 05:00:41 · 16 answers · asked by satyen 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It seems that frequently, when there is a case of a female victim of domestic violence, or even an allegation of domestic violence, especially a well known woman, such as a star, it makes the TV news, but never when it is a male victim. It is reported that Professor Stephen Hawking has been a victim for most of the time period of his marriage. Some newspapers have picked up the story, but I haven't seen anything on the TV news. Have you seen anything? If not, perhaps we should be calling them to ask why not?

Story:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/articles/news/news.html?in_article_id=411781&in_page_id=1770

Hawking Web Page
http://www.hawking.org.uk/home/hindex.html

"Men Don't Tell" about domestic violence
http://www.abs-comptech.com/~aewhale/men_dont.html

2006-10-25 05:00:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hi my name is misty and i am looking for my uncle his name is steve or steven johnson if anyone could help please do its very important that i find him.. thanks

2006-10-25 05:00:01 · 4 answers · asked by mshg24 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What are the best character traits about your mate? If they could be remembered for only one trait which is the most important?

2006-10-25 04:59:21 · 20 answers · asked by elamjjjj 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-25 04:59:18 · 7 answers · asked by dizzy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-25 04:58:18 · 10 answers · asked by chris l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years our anniversary is on nov 11 anyway a month ago he told me that he just wants to be friends well the problem with that is that we live together. our lease isnt going to be up for another 11 months. i told him that since we are just friends he should start sleeping in the other room he refuses to sleep in the other room and we still have sex. since he has started talking to this girl and he says that they are just friends but at the same time he says we are trying to work things out. originally i havent left because we got into this lease together and i dont want to leave him with all those bills to pay. but yesterday he was talking to the girl and he had said that the lease was up in september which makes me feel like he his already working on another relationship i love this man with all my heart he is my first love and i dont know whether to keep trying or just give up someone please help me im torn

2006-10-25 04:58:04 · 8 answers · asked by kindra1988 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife likes to hurl accusations at me and labels. She lives to call me a label anytime I do anything she doesnt like. If I want peace and quiet cause I am angry and need time to recoup, I am passive aggressive. If I ask a question about what she may have done, I am a jealous control freak. If I make a comment about one of her friends, I hate all her friends. etc...
The problem is she is extremely neurotic. Manipulative mostly but also controlling. How do I deal with this type of behaviour? I dont want to resort to calling her out with a tit for tat strategy.
Everything is fine in our marriage as long as I am doing the things she wants when she wants, other then that I have to listen to her badger me in order to motivate me or to knock me down a peg.

2006-10-25 04:57:37 · 24 answers · asked by lightlytread 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I were talking about our sex life the other day and I had asked her about certain things that she used to do and would do with me that she no longer does. Exp: giving me a BJ and also some mild bondage and letting me play with toys with her. I had asked her why this has all stopped and she starting to laugh and said that she was only doing these things to reel me in so I would want to marry her. She made me think that whaty she did was everything that I always wanted ina woman, and it was true. I think that is so wrong because she deceived me and I'm not happy about it and I'm not sure what I should do?

2006-10-25 04:56:09 · 20 answers · asked by Duece 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been in a relationship with this girl for 8 years.. we don't live together since we're both still kinda young and not married (21). Anyway we have a 4 year old together, and I just recently got a job offer about 6 hours away.. I am not sure if I am ok with the fact that I would be leaving them however of course I need to work. Sometimes she says she will be supportive and go with me, other times she says she wants to finish her school here and all and wants me to get "adjusted" before she moves up with me. It's a new place and she says she will be scared at first. Just wondering, do I not take the job for the sake of family and look closer around here, or do I take the job and she'll eventually come with me? Been applying for this job for over a year however as things get closer I am unsure what to do?

2006-10-25 04:55:56 · 7 answers · asked by mike 1 in Singles & Dating

my best frnd and his girl frndis r in love frm past 5&half yrs. Frm past 6 months she is neglecting him & now she is sayin she wants freedom 2 njoy her college life even though he lets her go 2njoy within certain limits. ma frnd loves her so much but she is not responding that much as earlier.
Now wht shud i do 4 him as he is ma best frnd?

2006-10-25 04:55:45 · 31 answers · asked by bublu 2 in Singles & Dating

when we started goin out 2 years beck..he was just perfect..but now lately he has a change in attitude... he stilll loves me but has oblivious to the fact that certain things bug me a lott

2006-10-25 04:55:20 · 13 answers · asked by ss 1 in Singles & Dating

I used to work in Kimbe and have a wife (Maria) and three kids, Jason, Karen & Jobet. I've been wanting to communicate with them but I could not find a way. The phone nos. it seems have been changed. I miss them so much. If you happen to know Maria Kondi, please tell her Kimberly is fine and wants to see her. She just finished High School and would like to work with Walindi. Two of her uncles (Patrick & Anton) are working there.

2006-10-25 04:54:51 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The other day she asked "Are you gay?" and I answered "Yes." but then she says she's not comfortable with that because she was in love with me. I want us to be friends, but every time we're seen together, everybody thinks we're couple, and that makes her even more upset.
She's in love with me, and everyone thinks I'm in love with her, but I'm gay, and I'd hate to lose a friend like this, specially because she'd be OK with that, if only she wasn't in love with me.
The other day I suggested "Get a boyfriend." and she told me she did, but maybe that's just something she made up just to make me believe she's over me.
Now, she doesn't want to spend time with me because people bother her about us, and all she wants is to be with me, if I was straight.
By the way:
Me -- Male / Gay / 14 years old
Her -- Female / Straight / 14 years old

Thank you for reading.
Please help me.
Bye!
festappallion

2006-10-25 04:54:33 · 26 answers · asked by festappallion 1 in Friends

My neice is 4 years old and everytime she comes to my house she turns up the tempurature in my fridge to the coldest setting and it freezes everything. I ususally dont find out until I go in fridge to get something and it is frozen. Also, she plays with the thermostat and we ran out of oil to heat our house because it was set to a higher temperature and we did not know. When my sister brings her over she does not watch her and I guess she relies on me to watch her, but usually there is a lot going on so I cant always watch her. How can I tell my sister that this is going on? I cant have my electric bill sky rocket everytime she comes over and I dont want to have to remember to check everything, that is just annusance (sp) to me. Please help!

2006-10-25 04:54:30 · 25 answers · asked by Virginia Gal 3 in Family

i want to be with him still. but he has another girl.. what should to do.......

2006-10-25 04:54:25 · 6 answers · asked by deborah_25_2005 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been together for 4 years and have a wondrerful marriage. We are both in our 30's and planning to have kids in the future.
But sometimes he gets jelous and it drives me crazy, even with my female friends . I've never given him any reason to doubt me. Why? He also has to know where I am at all times.
Does it get better with time? Do you really have to earn trust?
Why can he trust me like I trust him? How do I deal with it?

2006-10-25 04:54:07 · 9 answers · asked by tanyasiv 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean beyond friendship, would she drop any hints, behaviour, body language?

Anything obvious to notice?

2006-10-25 04:53:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need a perticular site where everybody share thought on any subject & which is easy to handle

2006-10-25 04:52:56 · 7 answers · asked by satyen 2 in Friends

im scared of going back to how i use to be drinking.smoking weed.swear being naughty in school and stuff
but i cant be godo anymore
its too hard
im too tired and stuff
i dunno
i cant be bothered with an education
i need something to motivate me??!!!
how can i keep off teh drugs??!!
MY MUM WILL KILL ME
helpppppppppppppppppp!!!!111

2006-10-25 04:52:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships