he doesnt even last a min when we r in bed? does anyone know anything that i can do to make last longer.
2006-10-25 05:01:13 · 45 answers · asked by lil duce 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Apparently, you turn him on too much, so he goes before you get yours. He should do foreplay, maybe oral on you that way you both get yours. I don't know how to make him last longer....but i have heard that guys that masturbate tend to last longer, because they can build their stamina up. Tell him that, and he should do it at least twice a day.
2006-10-25 05:04:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There can be a lot of factors that lead to his "short comings":
1. Too Built Up - Are you guys fooling around a lot before hand? Has it been a while between the last time you guys fooled around? There is a chance he just has too much built up and he just lets it go.
2. Inexperienced - Usually the younger guys have trouble controlling their stuff; maybe he just needs some more practice and needs to slow things down.
I recommend trying to get him off first and then trying again after a few minutes or try using a numbing agent/special condoms.
2006-10-25 05:06:26 · answer #2 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never had that problem. Between my wife and I, a quicky is when we finish in anything less than an hour. My first time was almost half an hour.
They have some creams that will desensitize him a little, and help him last longer. Also, try delaying penetration... don't let him in right away. Kiss for a while first, touch each other. That might help get you on the same playing field.
2006-10-25 05:08:59 · answer #3 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most guys get too excited too quickly. They are used to rushing and finishing quickly when they masterbate. Since that's what their bodies are used to, that's what they bring to bed w/a woman.
Slow him down while you're doing it. Make him stop. And most importantly talk to him about it before hand. If he doesn't know you have a problem with it, then he'll just continue to finish quickly.
Good luck!
2006-10-25 05:05:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl maybe he needs some more action from you try something new. Change your hair, clothes, or things you do in bed if that fails do not get upset just ask him (in a nice way but straight forward unless he doesnt like straight forward). Hopefully he does not find that out of pocket. Communication is always the best thing.
2006-10-25 05:08:09 · answer #5 · answered by Lexie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he may just be inexperienced, he probably feels bad about it. He should stop when he is getting to the point of orgasms, then start again slowly holding off the orgasm as long as he can. He will eventually last longer. He should be satisfying you in other ways if intercourse is not pleasing to you because of this, otherwise it will strain your relationship.
2006-10-25 05:21:39 · answer #6 · answered by Sunspot Baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's getting too excited and he needs to learn to control himself. Tell him to go slower when he's penetrating you and if he feels like he's about to come, to stop for a few seconds and then start again and repeat. If he keeps doing this he'll eventually learn to control it.
2006-10-25 05:04:48 · answer #7 · answered by JIVE TURKEY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he was lasting hours, it would mean he is not very turned on by you at all. But since he busts very quickly it could only mean that you turn him on a great deal and finds you to be very exciting. One thing you can try though is to have him jerk off before having sex. Once he gets it back up go to town.
2006-10-25 05:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by Dan d 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all get a new friekin' boyfriend jeeze: or you just got to tell him that if he doesnt last longer and give you some time he is goanna have to finish the ride alone
2006-10-25 05:05:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You poor thing. I hope that he as well see that there is a problem. If not then find someone else cause that just is not fair.
You can have sex more. They say premature guys can slow down when they do not have a big load to shoot. Ha
2006-10-25 05:05:57 · answer #10 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋