my best frnd and his girl frndis r in love frm past 5&half yrs. Frm past 6 months she is neglecting him & now she is sayin she wants freedom 2 njoy her college life even though he lets her go 2njoy within certain limits. ma frnd loves her so much but she is not responding that much as earlier.
Now wht shud i do 4 him as he is ma best frnd?
2006-10-25 04:55:45 · 31 answers · asked by bublu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your friend can't set boundaries for her. He probably should pull away from her, and not to see her. She could be playing with his emotions, and that can cause serious harm to him. Your friend has to think without allowing his heart getting in the way. I wouldn't get too involved in this, you could get caught in the middle of a fight. When I was at college a girl named Bobbie(short for Roberta) did something similar to me. After a brief "vacation" I realized she was playing with my emotions, I told her I wouldn't tolerate it that ended the relationship. It hurt a little bit, but not as much as if I had pursue her.
2006-10-25 05:04:40 · answer #1 · answered by tigranvp2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both at the instantaneous are not perfect for a mariage. sure, you're perfect for have a platonic love relationship, yet not any more effective. us of a isn't the best of all needs. In India itself, you are able to improve your self and stand tall on your ft. us of a is now bankrupt completely and the existence is going to get tricky daily. individuals are seeking jobs in India and China. He needs a glorified abode-maid, not any more effective. he will dominate you a lot that you'll repent. in basic terms position self assurance in your self, your God and if accessible your father and mom and your siblings and go ahead. Please do not believe everyone else yet your own blood. all the suitable.
2016-12-05 05:24:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for him when she eventually dumps him because that's what it sounds like is going to happen. You have show him that life will go on without her and there are other girls out there. He had his time with this girl, now it's time to find the person he will spend the rest of his life with. I'm sure he learned from experiences with this girl that will help him in future relationships.
2006-10-25 04:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sit him down and ask him if they have problems and tell him they need to work it out if they do. It seems like collage life is taking charge of your best friends girl. She prob just wants to be like all the other girls. She pro misses being single. Ma bey you need to sit and talk to her and ask her whats going on?! Well its her that's causing the problem, just get her to open up and for him to open up too. Its nice that you wanna help your boy. Hope things work out.
2006-10-25 05:03:10 · answer #4 · answered by I love you! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AS a friend you can do nothing other than to be supportive.
May at the risk of loosing a friend you will hve to advice to him to let go and find someone else who he can have agood relationship with.
He may even need to have professional help if he is getting depressed.
This wouldnt happen to be you would it?
2006-10-25 04:59:22 · answer #5 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.............
Young man, try talking to his gf and try to find out the cause for her behavior( only if u know her well ).
U shud try to consoul ur friend and cheer him up if he is really depressed abt this matter. And the only thing u can do to bring them togather is to make ur frnds gf realize how much he loves her. If u want to know how, contact me..........
Good luck!
2006-10-25 05:05:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for him and just lesten to him. You can give people advise but when your listening to them they are giving themselves advice. Since they're talking about a personal situation in their life they usually have the best answer. Through conversation they can summon this from their subconcience
2006-10-25 04:59:21
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Well u just have to let him let her go and then take him out and get him drunk and laid...must be still young cause tehy are in college time for him to just let her go and enjoy his youth...play the field a little buit...tell him that if it was ment to be then they will get back together...she's young and wants to play the field too we all like to see what's out there and everyone needds to
2006-10-25 05:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he needs to let her go. If he doesn't then she is going to end up cheating on him. Maybe once she gets out there and on her own, she will realize how much he means to her. If not, then he shouldn't be with her anyways.
2006-10-25 04:59:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for him as a friend.
If she's being that way towards him, then it's best the go their seperate ways. He doesn't deserve that, no person does.
All you can do is be there. Be there if it goes well and be there for him especially if it doesn't. That's it.
2006-10-25 05:01:21 · answer #10 · answered by PrettyProblem 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋