Family & Relationships - 25 October 2006

At my workplace I have colleague who will get married next year. She is arranging it ONE year in advance, talking on and on and on about preparations, this cake, that music. Does it really take one year in average? Why people have to have it so perfect, so expensive. It seems like to much drama for 1 day, it shouldn't be "the most important day", but lovely, relaxed, OK kind of day.

2006-10-25 23:28:48 · 15 answers · asked by Ingrid 7 2 in Weddings

general horoscope according to the date of birth 25 th March 2006, time 2000 hrs, aries

2006-10-25 23:28:44 · 3 answers · asked by shikha a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-25 23:28:08 · 38 answers · asked by tg 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend has a problem,its like she dosnt seems to be happy by the life she is living...her best frd betraid her,her bf left her out,a family problem...and she thinks the world is crashing down on her.how can i make her feel beter...she wants to be alone,jst isolated..........what to do??????????????

2006-10-25 23:26:51 · 6 answers · asked by MYSTERIOUS DARKNESS 1 in Friends

I have a nice settled married life but for when it comes to sex i think about sex regularly as any man would but whenever i ask for sex my wife's first reaction would invariably be no may it be after 1 day or 4 to 5 days this really depresses me then i have to use other tactics like giving her a foot massage a back rub shoulders arms etc. which she enjoys and hardly refuses after an effort of nearly one hour it comes to a stage that she becomes really hot and we have sex once or twice according to her wish this routine is really getting over me now my wife would never show her desire for sex she hates oral sex and i plead with her for weeeks to get an anniversary b--- j-- in all other aspects she is very loving and caring when i try to explain my mind to her she rejects saying that i am a sex freak i really dont know what to do if someone has faced a similar problem please tell me how can i level our sexual desires as i am very senstive about it and she is totally insenstive

2006-10-25 23:25:43 · 11 answers · asked by seenu 4 in Marriage & Divorce

16 and 17 year old boys do nothing!!!!

2006-10-25 23:24:15 · 32 answers · asked by susie_notts 1 in Family

A girl that has a plastic smile and says only what she thinks you want her to..Phony voice,phony laugh,phony affection,phony big"Os" even...............Or do you want someone down to earth that you have genuine chemistry with?I see these two different types of girls all the time and wonder to myself which relationships last longer and which guys really prefer...............What do YOU want?

2006-10-25 23:22:50 · 11 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Singles & Dating

Does that mean your not handsome or she likes you or, please dicusss?

2006-10-25 23:22:08 · 18 answers · asked by Intellithug 3 in Singles & Dating

if i sleep with the guy that i fancy because i am hanging for some sexual closeness is that using him when he is vulnerable (ie: after a recent split), yet he says he isnt up for a relationship with me but is happy for me to pleasure him as it were, who is using who??

2006-10-25 23:21:04 · 45 answers · asked by kt_sub2000 4 in Singles & Dating

Please help me to understand, at the moment i am very upset, the exwife of the man who i love, has lost her mother, and he is going to stay in her house with her for few weeks because she can't cope on her own she is very sad and depress, i am not a bad person but this situation is very difficul for me to acept.
What is your opinion? thank you so much

2006-10-25 23:20:51 · 17 answers · asked by hansel 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in a terrible situation. I have had a guy friend for two years. At first I thought he was gay but last year I found out he liked me. I thought he was my best friend and I didn't want to believe in these rumors. I used to tell him everything: I even talked to him for the guys I liked. He never told me what he really feels, but he told some other people I know and I found out from them. Now I've been dating another guy for many months and my friend avoids me. Before my relationship, we were walking together and singing and hugging each other. But now he walks with a friend he had before meeting me. She's now his best friend. Last week we went to a party and he told my best friend(girl) he still loves me. Lately I've been thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend, and I'm very jealous cause I want my best friend back. Help me! Do I like him? What should I do???

2006-10-25 23:18:48 · 3 answers · asked by Still breathing 1 in Friends

been in a horriable relationship for 4 years
but i want to leave in a months time
please help
and my bf (absuser)gave me a crap 21 birthday and this morning cause i was coughing he said why dont u drop dead
ur waking me up i have the flu u see

2006-10-25 23:18:41 · 28 answers · asked by yates1239 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-25 23:18:14 · 6 answers · asked by preeti b 1 in Friends

every body.
i loved a boy.he loved me too.i always get him in my arms and kiss his eyes.
i sayed:i love you,i hope your pains hurt my body.i dont want c ur tears.
babe,if you lose all the thing u have,like your pretty eyes and face and money
i never leave u.never.come,put your head on my shoulder and be relax.
i havnt enough money,but i bought him some things to make him happy.
i am beautiful girl.but her mother didnt like me.she seemed me bad in front of
my boy riend`s eyes.and encouraged him to marry with another girl.
now,he has marrid.
he says to me go,go,u want to destroy my life,don`t send me sms,dont call me,
don`t send email, i hate u.
at this time i am the same lover.i am ready to lose my world to get him in my arms again
and kiss her beautiful eyes and lips.but he doesnt want to see me or call me for 1 time
to make me relax in my mind.
please show me some ways to forget him.so much pain in my heart makes me to kill my self
and go in the arms of my jesus to crying for ever.and some times i want to be a crazy.
because i can not bear.now just i ma and a world of need in my heart.
no one coul fill his emty pisition to me.
help me please.how i forget him.
i will contact and chat with the best of u that help me.i need u

2006-10-25 23:17:33 · 7 answers · asked by saina 1 in Friends

I'm sixteen. I want to know how to know if u really love someone...or just want to try out lustful things with them?...If u love someone...u will want to do lustful things with them?

2006-10-25 23:15:59 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi,

I have just recenetly had an engement party, and recieved lots of gifts and money.
I am planning to send thankyou cards to everyone and im asking if anyone can give me suggestions of kind words I can write in these cards.
I have been writing:
Dearest....
Thankyou for sharing this special day with us and many thanks for the gift. Love .....
Im a bit over writing the same thing so any suggestions will be greatly appreciated.

Cheers

2006-10-25 23:15:08 · 7 answers · asked by carms 2 in Weddings

is it her hobbies, behaviour, eyes, lips,..............................................

2006-10-25 23:14:33 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter who is 10 stayed interstate with her grandmother (x mother in law). Her grandmother bought her padded, uplifting bras and took her to see a movie rated for over 15 year olds. My x mother in law knows that I would not approve of this, but still did it. I feel like she has done this just to spite me, but I don't know how I should deal with it and prevent her for doing similar things in the future. I, myself find it quite disturbing that anyone would buy a padded, push up bra for a 10 year old child who is in the 5th grade. I see this as sexualising a child. What should I do?

2006-10-25 23:14:19 · 11 answers · asked by Lydjos 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-25 23:09:39 · 19 answers · asked by neyo 1 in Weddings

How would you know if they're in denial, if they have never experienced it before?

Any tests that can be done to find out? (apart from jealousy-gets very jealous when I mention other girls).

Has started acting weird towards me, when I ask why, says she's tired, has a lot on her mind,feeling a bit down. Has only gone weird with me, no one else. When I ask if she wants me not to get in touch with her for awhile i.e.reply to her txts/not meet up, she ignores the question. Is she implying yes?

Whats up? Could I have done something (as a bloke we're not always aware of this!)?

2006-10-25 23:08:50 · 11 answers · asked by Machine 3 in Friends

like how can i find out if he is a player or no

2006-10-25 23:08:43 · 8 answers · asked by baby 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-25 23:08:27 · 36 answers · asked by Helpless 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-25 23:08:02 · 28 answers · asked by Tired 1 in Marriage & Divorce

They met on through the internet, and they have been using e-mail and msn messenger communicate for over 5 years. Sometime they will talk on the phone, they had been exchange their photo to know how they look like. They are live in different country, their background and mother-tongue is different.

2006-10-25 23:07:37 · 6 answers · asked by I am Faked 2 in Friends

good morning ladies i need some help.......
female ejaculation how is it done and can you give me a step by step guide to how it is done . i know it is real but i dont know how it is done please help i will really acept it with open arms

2006-10-25 23:06:42 · 6 answers · asked by budliteboy311 1 in Singles & Dating

How can I forgive my boyfriend! He got a job in a film for two moths to be able to find a place to move in.I'm due in three weeks from now,What is ironic is that the first day of his job was also the first time we so our baby in a sonogram. How can someone be son insensitive about it and go and have sexual relationships with the director of the movie? I even spoke to her last week.I don't know what to do.We still live in the same place, I'm in a really tide situation here.My family is in a different state plus my doctors are here i can not leave. I'm so hurt that I don't even want to allowed him to be part of labor, but at the same time I don't want to be alone...I would like to give him an opportunity, go to therapy or something, well I discover that he cheated with other people as well...but we may don't have time to heal before labor...I already have contractions..anybody out there with good advise? Im hurt

2006-10-25 23:06:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it a common thing for women to pee during sex? I have had several girlfriends who have done this. It happens during both vagina sex and oral. They say it is because I just make them feel that good but it makes me wonder, am i doing something badly or wrong? They aren't doing it in a fetish way, it just seems to come out, sometimes a little sometimes a lot. My current girlfriend can't seem to have orgasms because every time she gets to the point of no return she pees all over the place and orgasm ceases.
I do enjoy like it but is it something that I am causing and is there something I can do to stop the pee and forward the Orgasm?
She tells me I'm great but I wonder. Thanks.

2006-10-25 23:05:37 · 10 answers · asked by Travis M 1 in Singles & Dating

do you prefer your man to treat you and care about you
as a baby child
wash you, change your clothes paint your nails,brush your hair, carry you on your arms
or as a goddess , princess , queen
kneel to you kiss your hands and your feet, give you flowers and gifts , worship you, worship every things of you about you from you
(but still equall in both cases)
so what do you prefer more?

2006-10-25 23:05:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

this is my first boyfrien and am scare to kiss him cause maybe he dosent like it...

2006-10-25 23:04:19 · 7 answers · asked by baby 1 in Singles & Dating

I've overheard him in fights with people. and i always knew he used to argue but he says things like 'good job i cant hear what your saying with your mouth around my zipper' there was a guy that liked me and he pretended to be me in my email, and pretended to hook up with him and then break it off. all of his friends are girls, guys never like him. but he always makes girls laugh (like me) and seems really considerate. but why be different with guys then? he used to make me feel special, but i believe he could make anyone feel like that. but i do feel like he loves me, he wants me to go live with him, to get married, meet his family. he does want me there 24/7 but he's making me feel real bad. like what i liked in him isn't really there. now, he gets mad at me over nothing, but after a while he says things he know will make it right. only it's not making it right anymore. i know he likes women, i know he gets angry, i know he is insecure. i just want love, respect, tenderness.

2006-10-25 23:03:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships