Family & Relationships - 25 October 2006

I need to do something for my wife. We are not getting along too well and I need to do something romantic. I want to do this on Saturday night so come on girls, what do you sugest?

2006-10-25 20:14:42 · 14 answers · asked by a_bike_guy 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think it makes life more interesting. Do you agree?

2006-10-25 20:14:36 · 5 answers · asked by Type3Thinker 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i loved him ,he broke up and i still love him.
there's a guy who is crazy about me and wants to go out with me.
should i go hoping that i would forget my love or is it useless?!!!

2006-10-25 20:14:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

iam looking for housewife with kids.i have 2 boys myself. i am 27, lonely and need seomeone to talk to besides my husband..someone i can chat or meet..and hang out along with or without the kids. i am in malaysia and sometimes singapore.
...need to look for other housewife opinion too.. go shopping together..

2006-10-25 20:12:18 · 7 answers · asked by hunniedewmelon 1 in Friends

Whenever I'm at work my boss acts really concerned about me. He always asks how I'm doing and "whats on my mind" as well as is everythinbg going ok. WTF does he want???

2006-10-25 20:11:17 · 15 answers · asked by breenras 2 in Friends

4 years ago, at the age of 54, I was told I had a brother somewhere in Germany (a wartime romance) My dad knew only the name of the girl and where she lived in 1945. After 2 years of fruitless letter writing to various organisations, I emailed the registrar of that town who sent me some information. Finding German telephone directories on their Embassy website, I found a possible link. Within a week I had received a call from my brother, overjoyed that I had found him at last - more overjoyed to know his father was still alive ( now 86!) Since then, there have been visits to England and Germany - first ever father/son meeting was very emotional - and regular chats via webcam. Has anything like this happened to any of you?

2006-10-25 20:10:33 · 7 answers · asked by susan g 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Was married to a spendthirft in a comunity property state. She's in jail and was on the run for 3 months before I could get her to sign the divorce papers. My car had been repo'd. I live with a friend. The creditors won't stop calling. I a working 60 hours a week but can't seem to get ahead. Total bills she racked up that I know about: $50-55k. I just want to get a fresh start and move out of this state and begin my life again, but don't want to shirk responsibility. Once more, I just got out of the hospital and have no insurance. Thought about suicide but I know I've got to face this. I used to have such great credit. Now I eat 3 days a week at the most. I don't know what else to do...

2006-10-25 20:09:56 · 16 answers · asked by amsalak21 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been married for 15 yrs now and do not have very much money. Any suggestions what to do to make her B day feel very special without having to much money to spend. Any suggestions will be appreciated.

2006-10-25 20:09:47 · 9 answers · asked by halljason1971 1 in Family

i dont participate in any activitys, and i just dont talk to my friends anymore, all i do is watch tv and roam on the net. thats basically all i do every single day. and i havent been to my doctor in like 2 yrs.
i feel unhealthy, and my depression is overcoming me.
BUTtTtT,,, for some reason i dont wanna change how im living now. i feel comfortable how it is..

2006-10-25 20:08:29 · 11 answers · asked by ♥Londoners♥ 1 in Family

As part of my divorce procedding, I am required to provide for my child Alimony till he is 21. A PPO was taken against when I was accused of abusing my X spouse before the divorce proceeding in 1997. The divorce was made absolute in 1997.We have no contact what so ever since 1997 till now. My alimony paid through the Registrar subordinate courts of Singapore.

2006-10-25 20:08:02 · 6 answers · asked by joesky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my husband for almost 4 years and almost married for 3. I got married when I was 18 and he was 20 and we had our son when I was 18 and he was 21 and now we have a newborn and we are 20 and 23 do you think we were wrong on what we did? i always get death looks when im out with my children and I don't like it cuz people think im too young to have 2 kids, what do you think?

2006-10-25 20:07:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

hi, we know each other for years, but in last week we fell in love. She is really special to me, not like every other girls around. I met quite lot of girls in my life and change them quite often. I do not wanna more to do it in this way. What can I do for my self to work out the best from this realtionship (for both me and her)
David

2006-10-25 20:06:58 · 10 answers · asked by David B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im going to be attending a funeral to a friend of mine and i dont know what to wear. ive never really been to a funeral and dont have clothes for it. do i still wear black?

2006-10-25 20:03:48 · 18 answers · asked by orange_crush_05 6 in Friends

please advise?
We will be travelling from Middle East to Texas next month with a 4 months old baby. Just wondering if what are the things I need to carry on plane. What is the things prohibited now a days? Are the other liquid stuff still prohibited?

2006-10-25 20:02:14 · 5 answers · asked by just me 3 in Family

.. say a married man constantly lets his wife know that a 3sum is his ultimate fantasy... for years he asks his wife if she thought maybe they could try this,eventually even tells her that she can pick a woman for them to have a 3sum with, but could they try it once.... after years of being asked and now feeling that she was depriving her husband this pleasure, the wife agrees and its arranged. quite a few drinks later and half way thru the 3sum the wife realizes she cant watch the man she loves and says he loves her, doing this.. not to mention joining in. the wife tells him this and leaves. it was still the husbands fantasy and he continued to ask, eventually even losing his erections when told -please no... how can they get past this when he is told how she feels and he says he understands, ..but she knows that even after years, he doesnt realize how this has affected her and hurt her?

2006-10-25 20:01:30 · 10 answers · asked by dawnaj29 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-25 20:01:10 · 18 answers · asked by nathangrabauskas 1 in Singles & Dating

i m a grl of 14 .. i was proposed by a guy last yr..nd v guys r still 2gether .. many a times in between our relationship i hav felt my love is over nd i dont love him ne more .but something come out nd i can not dump him nd i feel no i still care 4 him....but in da meanwhile i started 2 have a heavy crush on his best frend (x) who flirted a lot wid me nd v became a very gud frend playing pranks on my guy ... i nd his best frend hav behaved a lot like lovers to tease my bf..but this prank is coming in truth ....i dont want to leave my guy as i dont wanna hurt him nd his best frend wuld hate me if he knows this nd in other hand my crush is getting older nd much more ..... wat shuld i do ????? pliz help

2006-10-25 19:57:57 · 12 answers · asked by POOJA 1 in Singles & Dating

my man is about 5,000 miles from me right now and so we talk online every night, but i tell him to brb or hold on alot, and i leave for the simple stuff, like using the bathroom or someone calls or someone comes over, or i have to run to the store or something that doesn't take very long, and he trips out about it...like if i tell him ten minutes and it takes me 20 or 30 minutes he trippin out even more,... i just dont get it, and then he gives me the third degree about it, mind you i have been online everyday fr like 8 months talking to him, so he don't miss as much, please i need advice

2006-10-25 19:57:51 · 13 answers · asked by start w/ laughs ends witha fight 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met my fiance 4 months ago. We started dating about 2 1/2 months ago.. He asked me to marry him but i am worried it might be to soon.. I know that i feel that i love him but we do have one bog problem with our relationship. OUR RELIGION he is very devoted morman and i am not any specific religion i believe just never to one specific. his family doesnt suport our plans of marrriage because i am not there religion. and my mom thinks its to soon.. we found out that i am preganant and we think that since we love eachother we should be married and bring the baby into the world as a family.. But i am concerned about the time frame and if its too soon to marry someone and hope for a life long marraige .....

2006-10-25 19:56:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if so how long and how did you meet this love...

2006-10-25 19:56:03 · 8 answers · asked by MissChatea 4 in Singles & Dating

What do you do when your first true love chose someone else out of a stupid mistake and has been begging for forgiveness for 7 years and you know you love them and they love you ack. You know that you are supposed to be with this person but now you are in a relationship, you love the person you are with but dont fell that you are in love with them? I love my first love and my fiance but my first loved wants to get married and so does my fiance, but I still love my first love and I feel that I am not in love with my fiance. Should I leave my fiance for my true love or should I stay b/c I made a commitment and I could possibly regret leaving????? Please help me. I know I want to be with my true love but I am afraid of making the wrong decision.

2006-10-25 19:55:45 · 13 answers · asked by Southern Girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend had 'cheated' on me (he says not sexually) with a married woman at work in April. He claims it was emotional, not physical. I find that hard to swallow,especially since there was I love you's & miss your voice messages. but don't have proof they had sex. I decided to stick it out and make it work. In June he had decided to leave me. By July he decided he really loved me and wanted me back.After long talks I went back with him. I still have trust issues. He swears it's over with her. I have a 'funny' feeling that it is not completely over with her, I asked for proof, by giving me the password to his voice mail for his work phone, (In the past he gave it to me and that's how I found out the relationship had been going on) And again a second time after we had gotten back together but only briefly until he changed it. Now I am asking for it again and he refuses to give it to me. I want proof it's over with her. Am I the only one who thinks he's still cheating?

2006-10-25 19:55:22 · 12 answers · asked by jozeeblu 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a boyfriend and were planning to get married, i love him and i knew he loved me too! But he has a son to other woman w/c is also married to other man but not with his husband, he gives all the support needs by his son. But sometimes i can't help but to get jealous when i hear him talking to the mother of his son, although he's always telling me that he was just talking to her for the sake of his son and that he loves me so much... You think am i being unfair???

2006-10-25 19:52:29 · 20 answers · asked by she 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ive been married for 5 years. and i have done my 110% in this marriage. i am mother and good wife. yet my mother-in-law never is satified by the way i care for her son. she doesn't think that i am good enough for her son. and is very sarcastic and critical of me. also me and her daughter do not get along. i am the first woman he has ever been with. how do we find a common ground?

2006-10-25 19:52:19 · 11 answers · asked by tina 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I live in California and recently got engaged. My fiance wants a prenup, which I have known of all along. He says that we can't even set a date for the wedding until the prenup is signed. Is this true? I thought that he just can't push it on me the day before the wedding.

2006-10-25 19:51:34 · 21 answers · asked by CA girl 1 in Weddings

In reading questions/answers posted, it scares me that so many seem to be so ignorant of using proper grammar and spelling. Don't parents tell their children anymore how important an education is in getting & keeping good paying jobs? It seems to me that the illiterate segment of the population is growing by leaps & bounds. I would be afraid to hire anyone for anything more than selling hamburgers. Don't they want a better life for themselves? Or is it a matter of not wanting to appear smart to friends and so they "dumb down?" It doesn't bode well for the future of our country, does it?

2006-10-25 19:50:58 · 11 answers · asked by Judith 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

well i have been with this guy for 5 months. i love him in all honesty. prolley more than i ever have. he is going through a rough time and he needs me more than ever, he loves me and i know it for sure but his ex is always on his mind. he can't or won't seem to get over her. i talk to her all the time and i've been getting to know her really well. she is so over him and has this other guy who she is talking to. i don't want to hurt him but i want to tell him the truth because he's on a wild goose chase and he's never going get her back. right now we are not together and we still talk sometimes but everytime i'm with him i want to beat him in the head with a long a** bat so he will get the picture that she doesn't want him and to move on, because i love him and would never hurt him. i am now on a sex hiatis which means i refuse to have sex or do anything sexual with anyone. i love him enough to help him as much as i can but there is always the what if questions he keeps asking himself.

2006-10-25 19:50:49 · 5 answers · asked by demonswt88 2 in Singles & Dating

my aunt is a widow.. for about 6 years now. She has 2 kids, one in 3rd grade and the other in 6th grade. Aunt started to go out with a married man for 2 years now. We,as her relatives,are very concerned. My other aunts tried to talk to her but to no avail. What do u think is the problem with my aunt? is it lack of attention? or she is yearning to be loved again after losing her husband? How can we stop her from seeing other man because my late uncle's family is unhappy with my aunt due to this. Please help. I really want to talk to her because im afraid my cousins will be affected by this in future.Thank u.

2006-10-25 19:50:28 · 10 answers · asked by bunbananabun 3 in Family

One of my Chinese friends wants to study in Canada, but she's not so sure about herself, so Is it ok to be short and have small boobs? and what should i say to her as a friend to make her feel better about herself?

2006-10-25 19:50:00 · 13 answers · asked by ♀★sMiLe☆♀ 2 in Friends

This is the 3rd time. He's a truck driver and he said that he gets lonely on the road. What am I for if I'm his woman. I'm ready to pack my bags and leave and let him come back to an empty house because that's how I feel-empty. He admitted to it but I still want the whole story, but he won't tell me because he said it doesn't matter since it won't happen again, but like I said this is not the first time.

2006-10-25 19:49:54 · 6 answers · asked by Trina 1 in Other - Family & Relationships