I'm in love with my boyfriend of 5 years, & have a connection with him like nothing I've ever felt before. He is my best friend, and we both love each other, but he has lied to me repeatedly about girls he talks to/emails etc. He says he's afraid I will overreact, so he'd rather not tell me about meaningless emails to girls that are just friends because in the past I have been jealous and possessive. While it's true that I have overreacted and been jealous/possessive in the past, it has been two years since I have behaved that way, and have changed. The last time I caught him in a lie, I gave him a chance to tell me the truth, which he did (b/c he knew he had no choice) and I didn't react angrily because I wanted to encourage him to feel comfortable telling me the truth. Yet he continues to lie even though I've shown him I won't get angry or jealous. I don't want to live the rest of my life w/ someone who lies to me. Should I break up w/ him even though I still love him?
2006-10-25
18:34:23
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