if so what's your story and how do i make myself change my feeling's for him for my daughter's sake?please help i'm afraid to move on
2006-10-25 18:57:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dont you think hate is a bit much? Cant you just dislike him or you could've even said you hate his ways but to hate him,thats just plain mean :(
2006-10-25 19:08:57 · answer #1 · answered by champagne 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I probably shouldn't even be answering this because I've been married for 30 years--but we all have time we look over and think "why did I marry this person"!!! Try to think back to the day you first met, what attracted you, what was it that made you want to be with him?? Sometimes just that day to day crap takes away our feelings--we need to sit with each other and talk--trust me the ole geezer and I have had our moments--then we looked at our kid (who's now 28!!) and said--ok time to stop and take a breath and think. Then we hug, feed the dogs and go to bed!!! LOL!!! The most important thing is your daughter and a stable homelife!! It's hard to be married--they didn't give us a manual after we said "I do". I don't know why you hate him---but I will say if there's no abuse--if it's just a matter of boredom--give it some time and a bit of effot (he needs to also).
2006-10-26 02:14:53 · answer #2 · answered by fallingstar 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well I sure don't. WHY do you hate him? Have you tried counseling? Never be afraid to move on, you were alone before you met him correct? Get a good circle of friends and you will be OK. Sounds like you are not very happy where you are. As far as your feelings go? you better figure out why they changed in the first place/ Then maybe you can reverse the action and make it all better.
2006-10-26 02:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by orlin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Every single marriage at some point goes through a period where they feel they don't love each other anymore. Really, unless there isn't any kind of abuse or anything, it's a normal feeling. So many people today; as soon as that romantic, exciting feeling starts dwindling down, right away they go for a divorce. Marriage takes ALOT of work from both parties. You have to think of what you're getting yourself into. Making a go of it on your own today is not easy. I stayed for many many years because of that same reason. I was scared to make it on my own. And take it from me, it's not easy.
2006-10-26 04:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You hook up with me, as long as you are no taller than 5'5" and weigh no more than 115lbs. You must also be very attractive in the face and humble, willing to serve only me, upon my command.
And no, this is not a joke.
2006-10-26 02:22:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
you need a divorce. man that would suck if you were married to someone who hated you. that's some ****** up s hit!
2006-10-26 02:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by painfullyaverage 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i dont hate n.ow.ex. wife . just glad i divorced her in.2003. ?
2006-10-26 02:02:19 · answer #7 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no its all love
2006-10-26 02:07:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
that's only when i can't have my way.
2006-10-26 02:00:23 · answer #9 · answered by Meow4Moe 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm single so yeah, But I need the points so thanks. ^_^
2006-10-26 02:06:30 · answer #10 · answered by amish_renegade 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋