why is my husband don't want 2 have sex with me lately? i can't find out why b/c i tryed to make things spice up a bit more, in bed but even that doesn't change him. when ever we go out for a coffee i see him, a lot checking out girls while i sit next to him, that is not a big deal but, not appropreat. But he is defenitly changed on me and that really put me in no option b/c i am marred to him and no sex? it has been more than 1 month i think sex is great and i can't get it from other guy b/c i am married. I try to talk to him about it but no change. Ok if i wasn't attractive that would be bad but i am in my mid 20's and very attractive and clean and healthy but don't know what the heak he wants.what should i do?
if u want to answer this, don't be mean b/c it going to show your ability of thinking is limited
2006-10-25 18:53:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well, talk to him about t his you have nothing to lose at this point.. Just be as open and honest with him as you was here with us. My boyfriend is doing the same to me for whatever reason. I know its harder for you because this is your husband wow i don't know what else to tell you other than talk to him and just flat out tell him. Maybe go out with the girls once a week and let HIM think of how life can from the otherside of the fence. Good luck
2006-10-25 18:59:58 · answer #1 · answered by sammy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a common misconception that guys just want to have sex all the time. Sometimes we need a break from it. Stop the pressure and just enjoy the time you spend together. If it continues another month, then there may be something wrong, but give it some time and don't worry about it.
2006-10-26 02:00:26 · answer #2 · answered by taotemu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Mimi, What you have told us points to cheating husband. Specially if he is checking out females' where you get a cup of coffee.Sounds like he isn't trying to hide it from you.Sweety,you need to deside what you want to do!! If you want to stay with this loser while he is having sex with different women and completely leaving you out has is wife and lover.Or you could walk out on this
F U C K E R,and find someone who would love you and not cheat on you.You deserve better than what you have.
Clowmy
2006-10-26 02:10:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't automatically assume he's cheating. maybe he's stressed at work or about bills. maybe he's having a "problem" and is too embarassed to say anything. just play it cool but watch him. is anything else different (not coming home on time, staying out late, etc) flip it on him. act like you don't want it. some guys like it better when they have to work for it. give him the benefit of doubt.
2006-10-26 02:10:27 · answer #4 · answered by sweettee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that there could be a posibility that he is cheating on u and u should be suspicious. most of the time it is the guy who wants sex often but it should alarm u that it is the other way around. i think that u shouldnt bring it up but that u should be cautious of things he does and mayb u can catch him in a lie or something
2006-10-26 01:57:34 · answer #5 · answered by muthafaka8o8 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
CHEATER, CHEATER, PUMPKIN EATER!!!
He's even disrespecting you to your face by looking at other women right in front of you too?? Sadly, he might be trying to send you a message on purpose that he doesn't want you anymore!
2006-10-26 20:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's bad!! may be he's gay, but since he's looking at other women..that isnt applicable. but definite reason may be he's cheating on you. he must be getting sex from someone else because u dont attract him any more.... hav u stopped taking care of ur appearence aft marriage??i mean....i heard some ppl do....
2006-10-26 01:59:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry for you... I don't mean to be blunt but my suspicions are:
a) he's getting it somewhere else
b) he's experiencing impotence and doesn't want to tell you
c) he's afraid he's got STD
I hope I am wrong!
2006-10-26 02:00:37 · answer #8 · answered by atheleticman_fan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey!!!!!! if you look as good as you said i think he's screwing somewhere else,ask him the reason why he's acting like that,you should not be wasted that way there's a lot of guys whising for somebody like you!!!!!!
2006-10-26 02:01:34 · answer #9 · answered by GMORAM29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried asking him? Men dont want to have sex for these reasons......Another WOMEN, gay, mid life, cheating, cant get it up, cheating, porn addicition, new child, or CHEATING
2006-10-26 01:58:57 · answer #10 · answered by that girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋