Its like he made you a mistress without you knowing it. Its totally unfair, and I wanted to be revengeful, but I don't think its a good move...I think thats between the two of them to handle, right?!
2006-10-25 18:58:36 · 17 answers · asked by aloha76 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How did he go for a year without you noticing he was married? Usually married people spend some time with their spouse. If he didn't, she already knows and you're just wasting your breath.
2006-10-25 19:02:24 · answer #1 · answered by sjbluebelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said he is your ex? He is gone now, so move on and find you a nicer person who has morals and self-respect. You are asking this question about talking to his wife? Why would you do that? It will hurt only her, and she has done nothing except make the mistake of loving and marrying this loser. Just be glad that you aren`t the one married to him, and have this woman who had an affair with your husband and is now angry and is going to come and talk to you. Do not do this, as like you said, it is revenge, and you will have Karma to pay back for hurting her.
2006-10-25 19:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you do that...your not telling me that you didnt know or have a feeling that something was going wrong are you? That he wasnt around like he should be all those little excuses about he cant make your date that evening or all the weird phone calls when you were together? Not being able to spend a whole evening with you because he had to be home with her...? I think you just did the see no evil hear no evil...you know what i dont know cant hurt me....you knew and yeah if hes such a 2 timer you should tell her why should he get away with murder someone should stop him before someone else gets hurt....I bet his wife would...Angel
2006-10-25 19:05:04 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the sense of that? An ex is just that, an ex (meaning no more). I know you feel betrayed and want to get revenge, but she hasn't done anything to you, so why hurt her.
He's the one that will hurt in the end, and not because of your revenge. Lies and deceit always come back, to bite you in the end.
2006-10-25 19:41:22 · answer #4 · answered by mouse in chicago 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave dat guy immediately. He's married, ok! Get out of the picture. I know u r hoping dat they divorce and the guy will marry u.even if the guy marries u, he might get a mistress as well. He cannot be trusted. Stay away from him if u dun wanna get hurt anymore..
2006-10-25 19:06:44 · answer #5 · answered by libby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be greatful that he's your ex! Move on, the wife should find out on her own as you did. I wouldn't talk to her. It's pointless. Take it as a lesson learned.
2006-10-25 19:09:42 · answer #6 · answered by baddazzmami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know I'm not too smart but i think that think about what would be a good idea, if this guy could be a bad and not a very smart guy think about what if your not the only one he said this too, think about whether or not he's cheating, you've dated him and he might no have been that way but people change so i think that you should probably put yourself in their position, wouldn't you want to be told?
2006-10-25 19:03:44 · answer #7 · answered by [Emma.] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF I WERE STILL IN LOVE WITH HIM, AND WANTED TO BE WITH HIM, THEN OF COURSE OUT OF SPITE I WOULD TELL HIS WIFE. ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE NOT WITH HIM AND DONT WANT HIM ANYMORE AND YOU KNOW THAT HE IS A DOG, MAYBE YOU NEED TO TELL HIS WIFE. IM SURE SHE HAS NO IDEA. MEN LIKE THAT WILL KEEP ON DOING IT. I KNOW IT ONLY HURTS THE WIFE, BUT WOULDNT YOU WANT TO KNOW?
2006-10-25 19:03:05 · answer #8 · answered by jaylove209 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not being revengeful at all like you really knew he was married i would tell her she has a right to now wouldn't you want to if you where her?
2006-10-25 19:04:16 · answer #9 · answered by rachaddington 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let his wife know the truth about him after all she has feelings as well the right to know the truth . my opion?
2006-10-25 19:09:37 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋