Family & Relationships - 25 October 2006

so i am talkin to a married man ...i know its wrong. but i like him so much ..hes in the military and hes wife is 23 hrs away. its weird he was honest with me and told me it wasn't goin to be able to go anywhere but i still stuck around i figured we could be friends and i could put aside my feelings but..after some time we both caught alot of feelings ..i feel so bad and i dunno what to do i am single and i feel like i shouldn't be wasting my time i should be looking for someone free. nor should i be hurtin a marriage but i can't help how i feel. we been talking for some time now and im missin him all the time..i think about him alot. i know he cares about me he calls me all the time...even if it is just to say hi or make me laugh. i just wanna know what i should do. he has a daughter...she is beautiful! he says his marriage is crap and its only there because he loves his daughter. i dont wanna cause him any problems but i dont wanna hurt myself either. plz no judgment just help.

2006-10-25 17:40:55 · 10 answers · asked by Snow 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He likes to do yard work and wood work and likes to work on vehicles. He likes to buy things himself since half the time he doesn't like what I get him or feels guilty that I spent money on him.

2006-10-25 17:39:38 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

10 THINGS THAT MEN LOOK FOR IN A GIRL:
1)a girl who knows what she wants (dont think wrong guys!!!!0
2)makes me laugh
3)takes care of herself but not too much
4)shares my interests
5)a girl who dosent care what we think
6)who impresses me (respect,intelligent,strong)
7)who confusses me
8)tell it straight(we guys dont like to guess, we aint mind readers)
9)who surprises him, SPONTANEOUS!!!
10)a girl that cares about us

GIVE YOUR OPINION GIRLS IS THIS REALLY TRUE AND GUYS IS THIS REALLY WHAT U LOOK FOR IN A LADY?

2006-10-25 17:39:02 · 7 answers · asked by lovingangel1215 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, we broke up months ago. But, she still wants me around to hangout withher. Her usual bait is to help her move stuff, help with her homework or just to meet her parents or whatever. She comes with all these trivial stuff which i dont mind. But then we always end up in bed. She thinks that i'm a s.e.x machine. LOL. I know she really like me physically but then she get a lil irrational and starts fight and i get pissed and go home. Then it starts all over again. Its crazy but i'm thinking she's nuts and i cannot figure out just what the hell is going on with her. She's a party animal btw and love to show off.

2006-10-25 17:38:55 · 7 answers · asked by john s 3 in Singles & Dating

College? Military base? or you name it!

2006-10-25 17:38:49 · 11 answers · asked by TR 1 in Singles & Dating

In the past month or so i got out of a hard relationship with someone i always thought i'd marry.But recently ive been talking to my guy friend alot and we made out and fooled around a little. I think im actually starting to get feelings for him but i dont know if im just feeling it because im lonely or if its real.. Im also not sure about his interest in me though, he's said he thought i was beautiful and really sweet and easy to talk to.. but he's been having alot of problems w/ family and work that he wont tell me about :( - it just seems strange he wouldnt want to tell me.. i donno what should i do about this?

2006-10-25 17:38:43 · 7 answers · asked by pinkcandiez871 2 in Singles & Dating

im looking back in class and i look a little over and this girl is waving at me with a smile

then a friend jokingly tells me to sit down

and she comes out of nowhere and jokes about it too.

next day she says nothing to me at all

then today right off the bat she says hi and stuff

shes trying to come up with other nicknames for me

were getting random items

i get mascara

she says that mascara would be perfect on my long eylashes

but she isnt looking at me when she said it

shes looking away looking to her left

im not sure but she was really saying it to me like she was embarressed to say it to my face

i made a joke with a friend of mine about giving me a hug and she makes a drawing about it

but she really doesnt bother me to much else she talks to the people next to her most of the time

her friend is almost the same way with me

so how is she acting

is this good

2006-10-25 17:37:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

says to his aunt that he does not want to be with me anymore but he still loves me and cares about me but says he still trying to get his head straighten out,-what do i do ??

2006-10-25 17:37:06 · 30 answers · asked by kdkc06 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK, here is the deal. Im going to make this short and sweet. I intern for an ad agency in Houston (friday is my last day) I was talking to my boss a couple months ago, and she was telling me about the CEO's step-son. Said he was absolutely amazing, sweet, tall, handsom and single and she was going to get us together. I didnt think anything of it, until yesterday when he came into the office! My heart literally skipped a beat! As corney as it sounds, it's true. We talked a bit, and i swear it was love at first sight. My last day of work is friday. Should I tell my boss to give him my number. Should i get his number from her? If I see him in the next two days, should I just go ahead and ask him out!? HELP!! I dont know what to do, and i dont want to pass up this opportunity!

2006-10-25 17:36:52 · 8 answers · asked by Smart Girl 3 in Singles & Dating

my name is kady...what kind of symbols should i put around it?

2006-10-25 17:35:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know waht to do. It is a large class but he has already seen me, and talked to me after class. It is only offered once a year, and I need the class. What should I do?

2006-10-25 17:35:49 · 7 answers · asked by lissapony 2 in Singles & Dating

i went out with my ex for seven months and we were in love, then he moved and the distance was too hard and we broke up...i have realized how much i love him and its been three weeks and now i like this really hot (my friend and i call him hotty) and hes funny and nice and i can tell hes a romantic guy SO MUCH!!...and i want to tell him cuz my friend thinks he likes me, and he does flirt with me (he always puts his hand on my necklace chain and tried to take it off when im not looking...and i catch him looking at me sometime) so i flirt back and we talkalot during clas...one thing tho, his friend(whois also my friend) likes me but i dont like him(hotty said this) and when i said i didnt like jeff like that he was kinda like "oh...o.k....well then.." and he gave me a shy smile(drooltastic)then looked at the floor and then we got in trouble...but i dont know what to do really, i donwana get hrt again..please i would like a variety of answers.wt shod i do?

2006-10-25 17:35:08 · 4 answers · asked by miniskirtvocals23 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been in a long distance relationship for 3 1/2 months with a man that I really have fallen in love with. I live in central Florida and he lives in New Orleans. Should we actually be together if I decide to be the first one to say "I love you" or is over the phone OK? With the distance between us it is hard to get together often. We talk at least twice a day and say "I miss you" in such a way that could almost be translated to "I love you" when we end our conversations. I should also add that we talk about our future together so I know that he he thinking of me as a future life partner/spouse. He is wonderful and treats me with respect.

2006-10-25 17:34:01 · 17 answers · asked by Andrea R 2 in Singles & Dating

I am gradding this year.... and can't wait to get out of highschool. My highschool experience has been miserable. i have never fitted in anywhere even though i am a great person, and others think so too. I have many people to talk to at school, in classes, but i don't have friends to hang out at lunch... or after school, or on the weekends.... and i am really lonely... and it's depressing... any quality suggestions on what i can do to get rid of lonelyness...

2006-10-25 17:33:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-25 17:33:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean really, they all talk about cheating, sexless marriages, wifes become bitches and husbands because assholes... aghh!!! WHERE ARE ALL THE GOOD MARRIAGES? is this what i should expect from mine..?? cause if it is, id rather stay single

2006-10-25 17:32:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Just want to be with her for about an hour or so....

2006-10-25 17:32:06 · 2 answers · asked by artguy90291 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm a manager in a convienent store and its not in the best part of town.. lol kinda like the ghetto, drugs and whatnot. butt the guys that come in try to talk to me and i ignore them don't give them the time of day, and sometimes just plain mean to them but they still keep coming!!!! how in the hell do i get rid of them?? i've got a few stalkers and then just plain annoying ones, they never give up!!! i've gotten cheap feels done and everything.. of course i kick them out and tell them i will cut off their hand if they do it again but why do men act like that?? how do i get rid of them? should i be nice and flirt back... maybe they would then go away??

2006-10-25 17:31:34 · 19 answers · asked by Danielle 1 in Singles & Dating

i am seeing someone who is very rich and well known. i am in love with him. but everyone of course believes i want the money... and possible the publicity.. what is a song that can say that i love you so much even if you couldnt buy me all that you have.. and even if you didnt have all that money..?? please help.

2006-10-25 17:30:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, I had a crush on one girl and at the same time another girl had a crush on me, at the time I didnt realize the girl I liked was a total crumb and the one that liked me was everything i wanted. Now that I finally came to realize this, the girl who liked me doesn't want to give me a shot now, whats up with that?

2006-10-25 17:30:15 · 4 answers · asked by hennys 1 in Singles & Dating

how long do u like it?? can a guy go 4 too long???

2006-10-25 17:27:55 · 10 answers · asked by jack-n-coke 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-25 17:26:32 · 7 answers · asked by shyprincess 1 in Marriage & Divorce

also Girl Scouts, Cub Scouts, Brownies, etc.

2006-10-25 17:26:28 · 4 answers · asked by laggywaggy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-25 17:25:39 · 1 answers · asked by Shane L 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I miss my ex-boyfriend. I miss his lips, I miss kissing him, I miss cuddling in his bed. But it never went further than that, we always kept our clothes on, cuz he knew that I wanna save sex for marriage. He was 24, lots of previous relationships while I'm 20 and he was my first boyfriend and first kiss. It was only a month, but felt longer cuz we saw each other a lot.
I guess he may have left due to lack of sex, but I'm still not 100% over him. But I don't get it cuz he liked how I was so pure and unique. Also, a lot of guys hit on me and some people even think I look like Angelina Jolie so I don't get why he would rather be with a skank who puts out than a pure, beautiful girl like me?
Why do you think he left? and yes, I have a good personality, he said I was the sweetest girl.
By the way, he still contacts me on msn sometimes 'just to say hi' but I don't see his point when he dumped me?

2006-10-25 17:25:25 · 13 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

im sixteen and i've liked this guy for a year. we just recently became boyfriend and girlfriend. but my mom and dad kinda banned me from being in contact with him. AT ALL note we haven't ever EVEN KISSED BEFORE. so that should answer your questions.
I just wanna know...what should i do...should i go behind their backs and talk to him? or should i sit back and crY ?!?!

<3 thanks. bye

2006-10-25 17:25:11 · 16 answers · asked by <3s_StarsHorseShoes 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I live in Toronto, Ontario, Canada and I would like to know if I can legally use my common-law husbands last name. We have two children together and feel our decision to have children together signifies our commitment together. Neither of us are religious (in the conventional sense) and feel getting married would be more for the sake of people other than ourselves. The law labels us as common-law because we live together and have children together, so we don't need to get married for that reason either.

What I want to know is - can I legally use the same surname as my husband and children - I want to hyphenate it with my surname but don't know if I need to legally change it, change my Id, etc...
My eldest starts school next year and people already address me by this name so I figure I may as well use it.

2006-10-25 17:24:13 · 16 answers · asked by devils'littleangel 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Thanks!

2006-10-25 17:24:09 · 24 answers · asked by my_a7lamy 3 in Family

how come in every magazine and on tv, girls with long hair are pictured with more sex appeal than girls with shorter hair? i have long hair (like to the small of my back) and i'm sick of it already and want a shorter cut...shoulder length or maybe shorter. i'm afraid it will look less sexy :-(
what do you guys think? in general is that what you think?

2006-10-25 17:24:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is 44 and i want to have sex or should i say oral sex but by 10 at night he is fast asleep and it is really ruining our relationship and he has no idea its to that point....and have thinking of what he dont know wont hurt him and am wondering if maybe he is straying????

2006-10-25 17:23:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce