I miss my ex-boyfriend. I miss his lips, I miss kissing him, I miss cuddling in his bed. But it never went further than that, we always kept our clothes on, cuz he knew that I wanna save sex for marriage. He was 24, lots of previous relationships while I'm 20 and he was my first boyfriend and first kiss. It was only a month, but felt longer cuz we saw each other a lot.
I guess he may have left due to lack of sex, but I'm still not 100% over him. But I don't get it cuz he liked how I was so pure and unique. Also, a lot of guys hit on me and some people even think I look like Angelina Jolie so I don't get why he would rather be with a skank who puts out than a pure, beautiful girl like me?
Why do you think he left? and yes, I have a good personality, he said I was the sweetest girl.
By the way, he still contacts me on msn sometimes 'just to say hi' but I don't see his point when he dumped me?
2006-10-25 17:25:25 · 13 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, when guys are so used to getting "stuff" when they want it and not having to wait another few yrs or so,, they are not gonna stick around, especially at that age, thats the Horndog age group, when he is in mood for sex, he wants to be able to get it without having to fight or work for it, so DONT feel its you or your fault, There are SO MUCH more to a relationship than Sex, Dont get me wrong, I am a guy and sure I Love sex as much as the next person, I Like it even better if there is someone else there with me at the time, But the younger bunch dont think about things like Personality, sensitivity, honesty, the things about people that they find in each other that they are TRULY attracted to and Love about that person, So many are quick to the topic of sex and when can they get it, C'Mon guys Wake up, we treat them like crap and then they dont want anything to do with guys for a LONG Time, and they usually hate all of us because of a jerk off that wouldnt just go jerk off and be done with it, By the way,, I think he contacts you cuz hes hoping you will change your mind and give in to him sexually. He dumped you cuz he wanted the sl*t, not the woman that would make the wait all worthwhile, He blew it,, Dont give in to him,
2006-10-25 17:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he likes sex, and that's probably why he left. I totally respect your decision to save yourself, that's cool! But I had two friends who did the same thing (sex only when married), both said if they knew how much fun sex was and how it felt, they would have done it a long time ago. Unfortunately, one of them is divorced because she wanted to have sex with more than just one person, and the other is still happily married and one of the happiest people I know!
Just be yourself and live life the way you feel and forget everyone else!!!
Good Luck!
Aloha!!
2006-10-26 00:33:19 · answer #2 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you asked him and if so has he given a responsive answer
personally if i felt you were the one for me there would be no wait because im with you sex or no sex --- the only wait is until we will be together ie living together marriage de facto
leaving because there is no sex means that he was not serious about you
all of this may be totally off the track as there may be other reasons so the best is to ask him get a good answer --- it could be there is a resolvable problem
2006-10-26 00:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was most likely sex and his breaking point was one month. one month to change your mind. he may even of had that number set when you started dating. i could be completely wrong, i don't know the man. but i will say, you sound like a sweet girl. you should look for someone who shares your opinion on pre-marital sex. it's always easier that way. you miss him and will probably always miss him because he was your first. that's why you should wait until your married to give all your heart, to someone. if you lose that first, you'll feel empty forever. good luck
2006-10-26 00:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by Steelers 6 Penguins 3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't turn into a skank, there are way too many of those around and nice guys get tired of sorting thru that trash trying to find a decent girl.
2006-10-26 00:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not worth your time if he dumped you for that. Good relationships are built on similar values. I wouldn't dump you for that, and I know many guys who would love to have a girl that would save herself for marriage. Keep your chin up.
2006-10-26 00:30:30 · answer #6 · answered by strokesfanatic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loved your body. He was craving after that. He hardly cared about your heart. This type of guys should be avoided before further troubles.
2006-10-26 00:31:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did your guy looks like brad pitt.. if not.. pls dump him / get over it...
besides.. u said u look like angelina jolie.... i bet there are tonnes of guys out there ready to catch u when u fall. : )
2006-10-26 00:30:48 · answer #8 · answered by bLuR.? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's a deadbeat. Find someone you like who SHARES your good values.
2006-10-26 00:28:49 · answer #9 · answered by Leroy Johnson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to his bed make a surprise
2006-10-26 00:28:58 · answer #10 · answered by severler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋