In the past month or so i got out of a hard relationship with someone i always thought i'd marry.But recently ive been talking to my guy friend alot and we made out and fooled around a little. I think im actually starting to get feelings for him but i dont know if im just feeling it because im lonely or if its real.. Im also not sure about his interest in me though, he's said he thought i was beautiful and really sweet and easy to talk to.. but he's been having alot of problems w/ family and work that he wont tell me about :( - it just seems strange he wouldnt want to tell me.. i donno what should i do about this?
2006-10-25 17:38:43 · 7 answers · asked by pinkcandiez871 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say it's almost certainly IN PART a rebound thing. The real question is whether or not that's all it is; ie, would it have happened anyway if you're ex had never been in the picture? I think that it's really hard for you to tell if it's a real or not as you're probably still getting over your ex and not yet in a position to pass judgement. Meanwhile, no one on the internet will know him/you well enough to say with certainty either. I'd advise you to go slow with this to judge how you're feeling, and that if it turns out to be a rebound you're not in so deep it's hard to get out of something you didn't really want in the first place. Talk yo your new guy about this. If it's for real and he loves you, he'll undersand and respect that.
2006-10-25 17:45:07 · answer #1 · answered by marty.smith01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh oh u have broken the golden rule of friendship....never sleep together..but its cool but do not expect him to tell u anything problematic that he is facing because once u break the rule the treatment changes. i think u just doing this cos u feel lonely wich is normal so just have fun do not put any feeling into it, until u are sure of your own feelings.but my main concern is that when u break up will the friendship be there.just ask urself that and if what u are both doing if worth loosing ur friendship in the end,but if it turns out that he is the one then God Bless. Good luck
2006-10-25 17:47:43 · answer #2 · answered by COCO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its possible that you're just lonely right now but its also possible that what you have is real.the same thing happened to me a year ago anf I tried to hook myself up with several guys but It never worked because I still had the thing for my ex.I suggest that you wait until you will fully recover and then thats the time you engage yourself to some serious relationships.
Your guy may not trust you right now and that may be the reason why..it can also be that he isnt just comfortable sharing it to you
2006-10-25 17:46:24 · answer #3 · answered by too pretty to handle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him space and let him sort out his own problems. Just make sure he knows you are there if he needs you. If it is a rebound thing you don't want to hurt him anymore than he already is.
2006-10-25 17:41:41 · answer #4 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a love shark. He smell you are lonely and he come in for the feast.
2006-10-25 17:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT COULD BE THAT YOU ARE NOT READY FOR A RELTIONSHIP WHEN YOU JUST GOT OUT OF ONE SO
SOON. JUST BE THERE FOR EACH OTHER AND DONT
RUSH IT. JUST TAKE TIME TO GET TO KNOW EACH
OTHER. THEN SEE HOW EVERYTHING GOES FOR
THERE.
2006-10-25 17:42:31 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take things slow and let them develop if they are meant to be. good luck, take care
2006-10-25 17:42:02 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋