Okay, I had a crush on one girl and at the same time another girl had a crush on me, at the time I didnt realize the girl I liked was a total crumb and the one that liked me was everything i wanted. Now that I finally came to realize this, the girl who liked me doesn't want to give me a shot now, whats up with that?
2006-10-25 17:30:15 · 4 answers · asked by hennys 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's playing hard to get now. It has taken a while to realize, but anyone who really felt anything real for someone else, it never goes away. It can be hidden or disguised, but it's always there. That's one reason for so many bad relationships continuing b/c despite all the BS, they still like each other.
Go keep at it. If she was really more than just interested, you've still got a chance. Just be cool, be yourself, and don't expect her to change. Just look for your opportunity and take it.
2006-10-25 17:39:59 · answer #1 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she saw that as you choosing the other girl (the "crumb") over her. Her feelings are hurt. When you found out she liked you, you should've made an effort. As for how to bring her back your way?? that's tuff! Maybe just letting things chill for a while. Make her think you are not interested, this makes most women crazy. not necessarily in a good way. I bet she'll call to let you have it, then you can tell her you were just doing it to get her to come back around. good luck. us women are crazy!
2006-10-25 17:35:20 · answer #2 · answered by kelli s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear about that........maybe the girl who likes u have lost interests in u??? now, ask yourself, which girl do u want now??? doesn't mean that she's everything u want is what u really wanted....follow your heart....whatever happen, just don't take it too seriously....u gotta prepare.....just try on the girl of your heart.....u will never kow if u don't try....ok??? i wish u all da best!!!! if things don't work out, just let it be n' treat it as an experience.......there's always someone out there waiting for u.... :)
2006-10-25 17:38:54 · answer #3 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
face it, dude, she gave up on you because she already knew the girl you liked was a loser and now thinks your a loser for falling for her.
2006-10-25 17:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by oldguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋