Ok this is the problem I know a guy that is so childish hes 20 years my senior and is a Ph.D.Investigator at an important college in my city Im a student of master in other college but he just call me and is complaining and want me to change all my agenda to meet him very selfishly .......plus I really dont like the guy in that way s\Should I say him that Im lesbian and that please dont say nothing about it..... I thought of the "I have a boyfriend" but this city is too small and Im well known so it would be obvious and being straigth forward whit I dont like you speech is not my forte what do I do !!!!!
2006-10-25 18:47:26 · 23 answers · asked by lil princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry about being polite, he is not being very polite with you. Also you can accept his offer to meet with him but bring along a few friends..
2006-10-25 19:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by riverdave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have tried that out of curiosity "I AM A LESBIAN" guess what that makes it more of a chalenge because by nature men are conqerors so it would lite him up. Tell him "You know I am not interested in you for dating and I would appreciate it if you would leave me alone." If he still doesn't listen to the strait up truth. Say "You are harrassing me lay off or I will report you". That should bring the point home because if he stalks you that is seriously sick and he needs help. You should never feel unsafe to tell anyone the truth.
2006-10-25 19:29:27 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Inquisitive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh for heaven's sake!! Have some guts. First men are use to being rejected, he will get over it more easily than you think. Secondly, my dear, (gosh I feel like Miss Manners!), is this the way you want to live your life? You want to be a liar? I hope not. What are you thinking!!? Always tell the truth. You don't need to be brutally honest, you can say it gently, but never, never lie. Unless you are over 50, then you can lie about your age. But until then ... NO. NO. NO.
2006-10-25 19:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by tonks_op 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if it's a small town and you are well known, wouldn't he find out you are lying? Honesty is always the best policy. Just tell him the truth, that you are too busy and not interested.
2006-10-25 18:53:40 · answer #4 · answered by Marti M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Lil, Just tell grandpa that your not interested in him that way.Tell him you consider him as a friend no more no less. Never tell someone you are a lesbian,when your not. A Friend.
Clowmy
2006-10-25 18:57:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are pursuing a master in college yet your grammar is terrible? Sorry but that messed up the whole questions, now what was the question? lol
2006-10-25 18:52:37 · answer #6 · answered by Jan G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with you that your first instinct is to lie? Only a certain kind of person would lie when the truth would serve you better.
2006-10-25 19:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lie to him u r lesbian doesn't change the way he feel to u, just tell him u don't like him should be ok, it's better to be telling the truth.. u need to keeping lying to cover the lie u tell before....
2006-10-25 18:50:56 · answer #8 · answered by chow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy.
Clear your mind and tell him the truth that you simply are not interested in him that way.
2006-10-25 18:51:12 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you say your a lesbian then as long as you know the guy your gonna have to lie, just say your really into your school work and not really looking for anything outside of that
2006-10-25 18:51:11 · answer #10 · answered by kristen 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋