2006-10-25 18:36:20 · 14 answers · asked by gary t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You might be old fashioned to the point where you believe the man should make the first move. No matter what is is, get off the computer and call her now!
2006-10-25 18:41:32 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, dude, you just completely lost your chance with this awesome, outspoken chic!
If you liked her, and she ACTUALLY told you she liked you before you had the guts to tell her and then you told her you didn't, that probably hurt her big time. She was rejected. Believe me, I have been there and it's very painful. You shouldn't have said that you would rather be friends. However you have and now you want to know why.....
Maybe you were surprised because she told you what she felt before you had the chance to and you were taken aback!
It could be that you're just being insecure.
Whatever the case is, I think you should tell her the truth - there still may be hope for you to be with this girl or at least go out with her so as soon as you see her tomorrow or whenever, or if you got her number, call her tonight and tell her that you seriously liked her and either were too surprised to tell her what you really felt or had something else going on at that time. Hopefully things will work!!!!
Good luck!
And don't EVER do that again! - Otherwise you may lose a LOT of prospects and opportunities and then kick yourself in the butt later.
2006-10-25 18:43:04 · answer #2 · answered by Asia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i guess you are either scared to lose her as a friend or you really just want to be friends with her. You need to really think this over before its too late...do you want to give it a try or do you want to stay just friends. If you want to be more than call her up right now, tell her that you were just scared that you might lose her as a friend if things ended badly with yous but you liked her for such a long time and you are willing to give it a try, if she still wants to. If you want to stay friends than just shake it off and stop thinking about it.
2006-10-25 18:39:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
May be it' s just an inner fear... you fear that she' s not the one
Look, if you are considering an intimate relationship, you need to ask if your potential partner is someone you can trust, someone who is really interested in you, is attracted to you , cares about you, will accept the truth of who you are. Sort out these things and see if you still like her... then I' m sure it will be a "YES" next time on your part. ;-))
2006-10-25 18:42:17 · answer #4 · answered by Wild_Angel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe u like some1 else and u don't it. or maybe u r still getting over ur last gf. maybe u want 2 get 2 no her more b4 u get into thing. give it time and get to know her, then if ur ready and u want still want 2 and it feels right re-ask her out.
p.s. ur mom... and ur face too.. im jk
2006-10-25 18:42:57 · answer #5 · answered by mary-jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friends with her.
Of course, there's no reason on why friends can't get 'close' and 'comfy'. ;)
Ask yourself on what you want from her (who is your girl friend), and then ask her what you want from her.
If you want a stronger relationship with her, diss out any idea of romance, focus instead on courage, love, and friendship.
2006-10-25 19:12:18 · answer #6 · answered by E A C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just a little shy, my advice iz if ur nervous about somethin, put urself on the spot in a situation where u gotta go thru with askin her out etc. or risk lookin like a little b*tch to her, and believe me, ull go thru with it
2006-10-25 18:40:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girls love honesty, just be brave and tell her you would like to be more than friends if she would like to as well.
2006-10-25 18:42:05 · answer #8 · answered by auntynoall 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you paniced. Tell her you want to date her.
2006-10-25 18:38:53 · answer #9 · answered by kelliekareen 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is fear, what do you have to lose by going out together.
2006-10-25 18:47:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋