How would you feel if you findout if your friend is gay? We've been friends for 4 years. Played basketball, tennis, diving...etc. We even had sex infront of all of us. Some of our female friends told us that one of us 4 is gay. We just laughed about it. We thought they just wanted us to do it with them. Until 1 night the unbelievable happened. We actually saw it. Men! F...ing homos!!!
2006-10-25 18:36:20 · 18 answers · asked by Ronnie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You sound jealous b/c maybe he's getting more than you!
2006-10-25 18:40:41 · answer #1 · answered by Mommy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a gay male myself and I have tons of straight friends, I think maybe you are feeling betrayed by him because you guys have done all these things together and he didn't tell you he was gay.
Could you have said a homophobic remark around him one day? He might feel you wouldn't be acceptable of him if you found out he was gay and he didn't wanna lose you as a friend.
Straight and gay men can be friends with no sexual dealings. I have tons of straight friends and they know I won't hit on them mainly because we are so close as friends. I say give him a chance, he's still the same guy you played sports with.
2006-10-26 01:40:09 · answer #2 · answered by Tigrecub82 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, how sad that you would even have to ask a question like that. If you were truly friends with this person (actually cared about him as a human being), you certainly would not care if he were gay. As a matter of fact, you shouldn't care if anyone is gay. How does it affect your life?
2006-10-26 01:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by Elaine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really isn't any of your business if that person is gay or not. You are friends, maybe, but I think not as friendly as you say otherwise your reaction would be one of "Oh that's nice" and then move on, not let's go make a big deal about it on Yahoo. Not cool.
2006-10-26 01:44:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be so freaking scared. it's not the the locknest monster came after you. for god's sake if some one is gay, it's not the end of friend ship . what's teh matter with you it's just a matter of hormones. i know a real person whom is gay, imagine that ****. they still are human, you can't hate someone because they are gay. what's the matter with you.
2006-10-26 01:46:08 · answer #5 · answered by zenasrager 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very upset with my friend. Not because he or she were gay, but because they hid who they were from me. Real friends don't do that.
As for a real friend friend telling me they are gay, I had a few questions and not stupid ones. A real friend is a real friend be they gay or straight. Just make your boundaries and principles known to your friend. If your friend is a real friend, all should be cool then.
2006-10-26 02:30:47 · answer #6 · answered by Joyce D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not agree with gayness but if they were my friend i would still be there friend bc they are still the same person just different prefrenances that is all. I had gay friends b4 it did not bother me that much they new i did not agree with it but i would never hate them for it.
2006-10-26 01:41:26 · answer #7 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you probably have more than one gay friend,,, This is the one that you know is gay,,, When you get older, and hopefully become less homophobic,, maybee some of your other gay friends will come out of the closet
2006-10-26 01:50:22 · answer #8 · answered by jr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the big deal have many gay friends they don't hit on me so what is your problem, are you a teenager
2006-10-26 01:40:23 · answer #9 · answered by livlafluv 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It did not shock me when I found out one of my friends is gay. actually nothing has changed with my relationship with him.
2006-10-26 01:50:50 · answer #10 · answered by lette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for your friend. :) You need to be a little less judgemental. Sounds like maybe you have some sexual insecurities.
2006-10-26 01:48:49 · answer #11 · answered by momofthreemiracles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋