I've overheard him in fights with people. and i always knew he used to argue but he says things like 'good job i cant hear what your saying with your mouth around my zipper' there was a guy that liked me and he pretended to be me in my email, and pretended to hook up with him and then break it off. all of his friends are girls, guys never like him. but he always makes girls laugh (like me) and seems really considerate. but why be different with guys then? he used to make me feel special, but i believe he could make anyone feel like that. but i do feel like he loves me, he wants me to go live with him, to get married, meet his family. he does want me there 24/7 but he's making me feel real bad. like what i liked in him isn't really there. now, he gets mad at me over nothing, but after a while he says things he know will make it right. only it's not making it right anymore. i know he likes women, i know he gets angry, i know he is insecure. i just want love, respect, tenderness.
2006-10-25 23:03:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
have him put the diamond ring where his mouth is-and also take a course in anger management or you will lose double-and true love -love Jesus first and most-otherwise something else is ones god=worshipped=failure-John 3 is the way-david in Jesus amazing grace
2006-10-25 23:06:31 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It looks as though you are not going to get love, respect or much real tenderness from him. I think you have already discovered that. I would be wary of a guy who doesn't get respect from everyone, only ladies. It does mean that he has a basic insecurity and is still looking for a "mother". When he doesn't find it in you (and sometimes when he does, and finds that you are just like his mom!), he will surely dabble elsewhere for the approbation he knows he can find with the ladies.
If you want to go as far as meeting his family, look very carefully at how his mother and he interact - and at how his dad treats him. I suspect that he is a 'mummy's boy' and that his dad has been harsh and over-critical.
2006-10-26 06:11:19 · answer #2 · answered by Owlwings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you need to leave this guy. The thing is, he prolly doesn't want to hurt you and he isn't doing this stuff on purpose, this is just how he learned to treat women (and people in general). This guy has alot of growing up to do, and the best thing you can do for him is to let him know that girls don't want to be treated like that and break up with him.
2006-10-26 06:10:21 · answer #3 · answered by Mister Jip 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think long and hard about whether you could put up with this sort of behaviour for the rest of your life.
Do you think he would ever hurt you or cheat on you? If you think he might it doesnt matter whether he actually will or not because his behaviour has already damaged relationship beyong repair.
Do you love him? even as he is now?
If you dont you should get out now and find yourself someone who can give you everything you need from a relationship.
2006-10-26 06:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by kally 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That little voice that keeps nagging at you and telling you to run away from this guy is your intuition and its there for a reason. Listen to it and dont get hooked up with this one. If he is like this now and he is only your boyfriend then magnify it ten times once you are his wife. Give him the boot girl.
2006-10-26 06:07:56 · answer #5 · answered by dragonrider707 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to move on.
2006-10-26 06:05:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-10-26 06:04:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋