2006-10-25 23:08:02 · 28 answers · asked by Tired 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would say it definitely becomes more important than when u were single because now u have another person in your life and if u have kids, u have a whole family to take care of....not to mention the added bills.
2006-10-25 23:11:48 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After love its probably the second most important thing to consider. Not having enough spells big trouble. Having too much may result in hurt feelings by one member or the other or may lead to waste, etc. Spending money or saving it can cause huge problems if both partners do not agree on whats important. Money and financial matters in general are one of the main reasons that spouses break up and get divorces. Don't think that just having more money before the marriage is enough to make the money factor go away. ABSOLUTELY, should discuss financial matters before not after a wedding.
2006-10-25 23:16:29 · answer #2 · answered by immune01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money is very important. Also brings up other important issues like trust in each other, openness of communications, etc.
I also think money is a possible barometer of character. A person who's "bad" with money could be immature, irresponsible, etc. Vice versa if the person manages it well - might be more responsible, realistic, etc. Not always but still it might be a sign for something.
I wouldn't marry without having some money or good stable job because marriage is very expensive.
Even if you have a lot of money, there will be problems with money. Questions come up over overspending, wills/inheritance, joint property, investment decisions, extended family trying to borrow, etc.
Whether you have little or lots of money, it's important & there will be issues.
2006-10-25 23:26:59 · answer #3 · answered by Babyface 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes money is important.
Statistics and studies shown that money is one of the main reasons that couples eventually end up divorcing each other.
Let's be realistic. Living together means twice the expenses. Having children means more money. Keeping a pet? Owning a car? Owning a house? All these daily necessities need money. So if you have enough for the present, always save for the future.
More money, less quarrels.
2006-10-28 04:43:19 · answer #4 · answered by chyrellos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear tired, your questions seems to be having a husband who is unwilling to get a steady job, and you felt your contribution to family is much too great.
In short, money do have a very important role in a marriage/family. People used to say money is not everything, but sadly, everything needs money.
Maybe both of u need a serious talk and discussion. Careful planning of what to do next than just thinking money not enough. think "how can I make more money?"
I guess you might need more than just one question/answer.
2006-10-26 03:07:14 · answer #5 · answered by Y G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage doesn't need much money. It's a conventional life that requires money. In fact, leading a conventional life has a high price to pay. You blow off your income on your kids, the house, the insurance and the car.
If you aren't earning much but you still want to get married, then prioritize what you want before tying the knot.
2006-10-26 02:28:16 · answer #6 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what kind of life you guys want to lead...
Money is important.... it pays for basic necessities and ultimate luxuries....
Before you are married, you should have known both your finances. if either party is living on credit and spending too much, the marriage might not be happy.
however, if both party manage to save and do not go for necessary luxuries... then the marriage could be a happy one...
You must see one thing, if you feel money is important, it will always be important... live within means....
2006-10-25 23:28:37 · answer #7 · answered by alfahomme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage this is more than two sweet hearts and love till the ends of time , it's future life and future prospects.
For somebody money aren't important ,but I think that marriage is very big responsibility , nobody want to live in hunger and poverty.
So I think that they are very important ,not because I'm greedy and mercenary person.
2006-10-25 23:13:52 · answer #8 · answered by woo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Part of the reasons for the couples to divorce is "no money", "lack of money", money.... money....money...
If the husband and wife have good incomes, save for the family and kids otherwise even after 40 years of marriage, with no money will lead you guys to divorce.
However, if there is extra money, be careful and not think of starting to have a 3rd party relationship.
2006-10-26 15:49:36 · answer #9 · answered by lina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love, honesty and communication are the most important things in a marriage, but not having to struggle to survive makes life so much easier.
2006-10-25 23:12:46 · answer #10 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋