How would you know if they're in denial, if they have never experienced it before?
Any tests that can be done to find out? (apart from jealousy-gets very jealous when I mention other girls).
Has started acting weird towards me, when I ask why, says she's tired, has a lot on her mind,feeling a bit down. Has only gone weird with me, no one else. When I ask if she wants me not to get in touch with her for awhile i.e.reply to her txts/not meet up, she ignores the question. Is she implying yes?
Whats up? Could I have done something (as a bloke we're not always aware of this!)?
2006-10-25 23:08:50 · 11 answers · asked by Machine 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
We're very close, (has said we'll only remain friends after we kissed once). I encourage her to get with someone she likes (always says there is no one, tells me she never pulls, etc), we chat about everything, meet regulary, would rather meet me than mates(obviously wouldn’t blow them off!) etc...
p.s. she always txts me first/gets in contact with me (90%)
Would there be any physical actions (apart from kissing/sex)?
Would staring into each others eyes while smiling over the table mean anything?
How can I get her to open up-she says there's nothing there
2006-10-25 23:09:20 · update #1
What's the best way to play it?
2006-10-25 23:29:33 · update #2
they are strange. I wouldn't say a rule. It is individual.
2006-10-25 23:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by Ropi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Machine,
You apparently would like the young woman in question to be your babe.I would advise that you get sex off your mind and start being a true friend to her. Find out those things she likes most and do your best to make those things and situations available to her once in a while and mostly as surprises. Listen to her thoroughly at all times and always be there most of the time when she wants you around.Find out with great tact,physical and character traits she finds irresistable in the opposite sex and check if you possess up to 90% of this qualities.If you do,then be nice to her as suggested above and then ask her out.Take her dining and make sure you make her laugh a lot.I believe this way you can conquer.I do not think she is in denial as you put it but that she does not know what to believe even if she likes you.It is your duty to build confidence in her for you.Once you can build that confidence in her for you,I believe that she will be yours for the asking.
2006-10-26 00:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by neyo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself the question: "Do i love her?" if the answer is yes , then be patient. Based on her reactions, i think she care for you, the question is, up to what extent? Is it a friendly or romantic feelings? I would say going to the romantic side, perhaps she is still deciding whether to get serious or not..So this will depend upon your next moves.
2006-10-25 23:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't drop the contact with her, she really likes you but it sounds like she's afraid of having a relationship with you. Take it slowly and be there for her when she comes round. Maybe re-assure her that you'll always be good friends no matter what.
2006-10-25 23:51:19 · answer #4 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you man. It's obvious. When she says she's feeling a bit down she wants you to reply:"Is there anything I can do to make you feel better?" She's recently found out she likes you and doesn't know what to do. She may even feel guilty for her feelings and thinks it's better for you to stay friends. But she doesn't want to have a boyfriend cuz she's only waiting for you...
2006-10-25 23:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This one is easy. You don't play it, you don't have to, whatever you are doing now seems to be working and if you change tact than you could lose her completely.
Sure when would you get advice like 'do nothing'.
2006-10-25 23:37:56 · answer #6 · answered by John Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like love to me.
2006-10-25 23:15:59 · answer #7 · answered by Sheila D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her really drunk and make a move then if it doesnt go well just say you were drunk or she will forget
2006-10-26 05:49:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only know more. I do not know more about your actions.
2006-10-25 23:12:56 · answer #9 · answered by R S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she kiss you means she loves you... maybe she needs some space..
2006-10-25 23:13:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋