Family & Relationships - 25 October 2006

Your husband puts you on an emotional guilt trip, to the point where you do feel bad, so he can get oral sex? Please if you don't have something nice or mature to say, dont write anything. Mature answers only.

2006-10-25 04:22:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Had a quite emotional conversation on the phone, as she wanted to knw about how i felt, she end up cryin on the phone for 15min...wen i told her that i really like her..at the mo she wants to be friends but if it's meant to be..she left it like that.

had to put the phone dwn at wrk coz i was goin over my lunch brk & she cud’nt even get herself to say bye...

problem it's gonna be two yrs till she can come over to live hear &before this we planned for her to vist me in the uk...


she didnt want things to change between us & still keep in contact...as it long distance thing/ diff countries..i said nothin will change , so a week later after we spoke, I sent an email jus chattin about stuff, showing that i was cool with everything..

How long will it take her to get bk to me coz it's been two weeks now, she aint got bk..?

bit confused coz she was adamant on the fact that she thought i'd mite loose touch, coz wat she said..

sum advice..do i jus leave it/wait for her2get bk

2006-10-25 04:22:06 · 11 answers · asked by shafi h 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm just curious and have no motive behind this question..I'm just curious.
Is there anyone out there that cheats or knows of someone who cheats and is perfectly fine with it. Male or Female? I mean do you/they think it is natural and just part of life. I'm not talking about an open relationship, but someone that has affairs and doesn't intend to leave the one they are with for the other. Kinda like Tony Soprano..only without the organized crime.

Anyway...what is their/your reasoning?

Again Just curious...and for all of you that don't have the ability to read completely and follow directions please save the... I think cheating is wrong and wouldn't do it answers..... We all know you think it is wrong...but I am asking the people that don't think it is wrong.

Thanks.

2006-10-25 04:21:55 · 8 answers · asked by tightlies 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ideas please!

2006-10-25 04:21:46 · 4 answers · asked by trueblue 2 in Family

I'm just curious and have no motive behind this question..I'm just curious.
Is there anyone out there that cheats or knows of someone who cheats and is perfectly fine with it. Male or Female? I mean do you/they think it is natural and just part of life. I'm not talking about an open relationship, but someone that has affairs and doesn't intend to leave the one they are with for the other. Kinda like Tony Soprano..only without the organized crime.

Anyway...what is their/your reasoning?

Again Just curious...and for all of you that don't have the ability to read completely and follow directions please save the... I think cheating is wrong and wouldn't do it answers..... We all know you think it is wrong...but I am asking the people that don't think it is wrong.

Thanks.

2006-10-25 04:21:40 · 5 answers · asked by tightlies 3 in Singles & Dating

They always have that one thing and that one thing on their mind 24/7. Why?

2006-10-25 04:20:34 · 34 answers · asked by Crazy K. 2 in Singles & Dating

You are making judgements, either consiously or subconsciously throughtout the evening. At one point something may happen or something may be said that has you convinced right there and then that he is not for you. Or the reverse might happen. You realize that there is potential. Describe those moments.

2006-10-25 04:20:21 · 10 answers · asked by Jo 4 in Singles & Dating

i'm going out in cardiff after the razorlight concert, what do you suggest i wear, never been out there before??

2006-10-25 04:18:35 · 18 answers · asked by lyndseyloo 1 in Singles & Dating

It has reached a point where almost every word the person says is a lie.

2006-10-25 04:18:02 · 12 answers · asked by nellie 3 in Singles & Dating

My best friend and I got in this huge fight during spring break, but in the summer, we agreed 2 be friends again. So I requested to be her friend on myspace and she accepted, but then when i messaged her in a friendly way like saying i liked her layout and told her what was going on in my world, she deleted me as a friend. What do I do? I want to be her friend again (not on myspace in the real world) but I don't want to seem desperate.

2006-10-25 04:17:26 · 12 answers · asked by maconheira 4 in Friends

Thanks:)
God Bless and Be Safe:)

2006-10-25 04:17:20 · 15 answers · asked by Yeah it's me................ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-25 04:17:07 · 16 answers · asked by Bobbie F 1 in Singles & Dating

After 18 years of happy married life your wife start flirting with anybody for no reason. Your kids are in teen age. You tried your best to resolve the issue with your wife but she continue with her relationship which spoiled your sexual life also. You lost interest in her now. What will you do?

2006-10-25 04:16:46 · 11 answers · asked by laughing_room 3 in Marriage & Divorce

You have just met someone and have your first date with her. During the evening, whether subconsciously or consciously, you are making judgements, assessing, evaluating whether you like this person, whether you want to see them again, whether there is the potential for longer term attachment. At one point, however, you realize: "No...she is NOT for me" Describe that moment.

2006-10-25 04:16:33 · 12 answers · asked by Jo 4 in Singles & Dating

What about when they had little kids? they took care of them, and now that they are old, they go to a nursing home. Should that be fair for them?

2006-10-25 04:16:19 · 11 answers · asked by Una nena mas 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, so my man broke up with his girl of 6 years and the next day, he was in my bed. He wasn't happy the last 2 years with her and ended up taking a job in another state (which is where he met me) so we got to know each other and bam, a month later, he broke up with her and is now with me. We've been together for 6 months now. All my insecurities, all my worries, all my trust issues, lies within him jumping into this so quickly with me. I KNOW! I did it too! But I fell in love with him! We're learning each other still, and trying to get through the 'hump' of not knowing if you can trust each other thing, so in turn, I tell myself to give trust to him and he'll give it back to me. Is that right? I just have to learn to trust him! He's with me now. I shouldn't ruin a good thing. We met for a reason. I believe. But she clouds my mind and I'm afraid that he'll regret leaving her one day and hurt me....Why can't I just suck it up and be happy? Words of wisdom/advice...please

2006-10-25 04:16:02 · 12 answers · asked by inlovewow 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Does this affect your relationship at all?

2006-10-25 04:15:36 · 9 answers · asked by Theandysullivan 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone know how to get emancipated from your parents? Is a lawyer necessary? Will it be expensive? Also, if a 16 year old were to run away, got caught a couple months later, and her 17th birthday was several months away, will they have to go back to their parents house? even if it's only a couple of months? are there any other alternatives?

I'm not planning on running away neither.. LOL I was just curious to know. That's all. Thanks. =]

2006-10-25 04:14:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm referring to a friend of mine and I think it's wrong...

2006-10-25 04:12:59 · 24 answers · asked by ashleighana83 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is ur G/F for over a year

2006-10-25 04:12:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My in-laws have issue with their marriage, and it is putting their kids down. I don't know how to deal with it! Shall i confront to them how i feel about this whole situation or should not say anything to them at all? No one ever asked me how i felt about it. Now, i feel i should say something to them. I feel it is their responsibility to keep the family together. Please give me any advise. Thanks

2006-10-25 04:12:28 · 6 answers · asked by Lolo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i had a gf in net...i luved her sooo much ..n i trusted her a lot...etc etc...i thought she also did the same...n then tday i happened 2 c her yahoo answerz account where she asked opinionz about her another guy...n then i found tht she was searching to date guys..n all...i jst can't bare it...it hurts me a looot..can any1 suggest me a way 2 forget tht.....i no i was really dumb 2 believe her..i dono..wht made me trust her sooo much..mayb tha way she talked with me...anywayz yeah!! i agree i m a "FOOOL"

2006-10-25 04:12:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-25 04:11:47 · 21 answers · asked by sands6270 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, my b/f and i are in two different school, about 3 hours away. And we have been going really good, and then all of a sudden, he starts thinking that i have been with some other guy, which i haven't, and then he just tells me that he can't trust me and that he doesn't care about anything but he still loves me, please anybody, what do i do to gain his trust and to make things better?

2006-10-25 04:10:46 · 16 answers · asked by meangel15 2 in Singles & Dating

Even if your feelings encourage a grandiose response, trust your logical analysis over your irrational intuition for the next couple of days.

2006-10-25 04:10:38 · 8 answers · asked by MsDiv06 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What should someone do if the abuser is in Law enforcement, like a cops or FBI agent, or even a supervisor or cheif of police?

2006-10-25 04:10:27 · 18 answers · asked by msmm02 1 in Family

what is the deal with all this bisexuality or lesbianism among women these days? I've never seen so much men bashing in all my years. Even you older ladies are getting into the act. I try to treat a woman equally and with respect. I open doors for them, am polite and don't think of them as soley a sex object. Granted, there are jerks and aholes on the male side but giving up on men altogether is a little severe don't you think. To get a date these days, a guy has to impress two girls, the one he wants to date and her girlfriend. Don't get me wrong, what you do is fine with me , I have a beautiful woman by my side, just curious about the mindset of all this. Thanks for listening....peace and love.

2006-10-25 04:09:49 · 16 answers · asked by yooper guy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-25 04:09:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is in love with me. I am not in love with him anymore. Sometimes I don't feel any love for him at all.

I know you want details...but I will sound rude if I stuff that much quick detail in. Even from a guy's perspective...you won't like him. No, he's not violent or on drugs.

For all the wrong reasons, I am not leaving the marriage.

Assuming I'm not a fat, ugly, crazy, stupid woman who just wants to complain...

What can I do to help my husband with his insecurities? I know that you can't help someone who won't help themselves...but maybe there is a website or a old saying or a testimony or ANYTHING that might spark my husband to get himself some help.

The best way to describe my husband is this:

Those who don't learn from history are "doomed" to repeat it.

2006-10-25 04:09:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have feelings for this guy.. he still has feelings for his ex and they speak on the phone often. shes 1100 miles away,,we've been living/sleeping together and he says he cares for me. ive been pushing for a commitment and it has caused fights, now he moved into the other bedroom. ive decided to back off,,,,but is there anything else i can do to make this situation better? its hard,,,he doesnt drive and i have to spend alot of time with him to take him places etc...i did go away for the weekend to give us space and he called me and asked me to come home,,i didnt,,,was that wrong? hes still in the other bedroom

2006-10-25 04:08:37 · 8 answers · asked by blaqueheartedgrl 1 in Singles & Dating