I'm referring to a friend of mine and I think it's wrong...
2006-10-25 04:12:59 · 24 answers · asked by ashleighana83 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think it's ok in some circumstances. As long as they are similar in maturity (which is common) and he's not just with her because he's a pedafile, then it's ok. But most of the time if you see an older man with a much younger girl, he's got some kind of mental problem. Usually, he just has a fetish for little girls, and that's not right. If you are truely worried for a good reason, you need to do some investigating. If you are just worried about the age difference, it's ok. My husband is 8 years older than me. In a few years their age difference won't seem like such a big deal.
2006-10-25 04:19:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will almost tell that absolutely everyone that got here upon a topic with this happening is an green youngster! LOL Like it is someway a ill twisted fetish. First, love would not care how previous a man or woman is. She is an person. human beings do no longer mature on the comparable fee, and he or she could be chuffed that she is coping with an person and not some 18 year previous punk that may not be able to place down his interest controller and pull his pants up like an person. perhaps she likes the undeniable fact that he treats her solid, and could view a dating in a "long term" way and not as his next booty call. while human beings improve up emotionally, they're often stunned with the help of who they fall in love with. it is going to maximum possibly no longer be the guy they concept replaced into considerable via fact of his seems, money, coolness, outfits or his popularity at school. it must be somebody that would by no potential have "made the grade" on a similar time as they have been youthful. You kiddies will understand once you're all on my own and older. That guy which you concept replaced into grotesque and uncool in intense college will seem very beautiful once you're older. he will have a solid paying job and a existence, you will settle for the favored youngster that all of the girls wanted and now has no destiny. then you definately gets why human beings do no longer permit some thing as stupid as years stand interior the way of happiness. absolutely everyone seems to be human beings. If the two are adults, and are chuffed...who're we to assert it is erroneous or unusual?! I additionally don't comprehend the place human beings arise with the thought this guy is a creepy guy for dating an 18 year previous. Or someway he's in basic terms after her for intercourse. additionally somebody stated that he's lots greater sexually experienced than she is....HOW does absolutely everyone understand that! in basic terms via fact he's that age potential no longer something approximately his sexual previous or his intentions. NOR does it propose he won't be able to discover somebody his very own age. human beings ought to examine the quite question and not assume crap like that.
2016-10-02 22:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I dont think the age gap is toooooooo big. Is the 18 year old mature enough to have a proper grown up relationship? If they are compatible, in love and are capable of having a proper relationship I don't see why not.
2006-10-25 04:16:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but ten years is not a big difference... relationships most times work out better when the guy is older (4 to 12 years) instead a couple being of the same age... women mature sooner than men... so being with someone older isn't a big deal... it's not you business to pass judge unless she is in harms way... be her friend and except her choice and maybe he has a friend for you... sorry I can't agree with you.... hope this helps!!!
2006-10-25 04:18:44 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Morally, yes. When a person is 18, the age of 28 is WAY to old. 18 is WAY to young to know what they want. The 28 year old is just trying to get in the 18 year old person's pants.
2006-10-25 04:18:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes...a 28 year old should have nothing in common with an 18 year old, unless he is very immature.
That being said...if I could get into the pants of an 18 year old, I'd do it everyday.
2006-10-25 04:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is weird because I'm 18 and i just broke it off w/ my boyfriend who is 29. I broke it off because he was cheating on me and living w/ another woman and they have an 18 month old baby together. I was so not ready to deal w/ all of that. Unless she is ready to deal w/ the fact that he might have a lot of baggage (like 6 kids) then i suggest she ends it. Trust me its not worth it and she might not understand whats going on or how to tell whats true or not because being young means that u trust more and that's what older guys look 4.
2006-10-25 04:30:56 · answer #7 · answered by Brandy B. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Although the 18 year old has not really experienced life for very love she is an adult and they do have to learn from there mistakes I feel it is not wrong but would not encourage it
2006-10-25 04:16:03 · answer #8 · answered by lpdecca 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why is 28 year old with an 18 year old in the first place that just means that the 28 year old can get someone his own age!!!! she 18 she hasnt gone out to party have fun with her friends...... to be honest i really dont think that it wont last long anyways he is way to old for her!!!!
2006-10-25 04:18:27 · answer #9 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think it is wrong too, not because of the age difference of ten years, if she was like 25 or so that would be alright. But, her being only 18 she is still really a child in my eyes.
2006-10-25 04:17:29 · answer #10 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋