Family & Relationships - 25 October 2006

You always hear men say she's a 6 or an 8.

Well boys, lay it all out for me.

What is the scale?
For example. 1-4 bleow average
5-6 average
7-8 above average
9-10 way above average

Now that is my accessment.
What do the numbers mean to you guys??

2006-10-25 03:54:12 · 8 answers · asked by *Lovely* 2 in Singles & Dating

I sometime cheat on my wife. do i formalise my relationship with my girlfriend instead of continue to cheat on my wife. she did not know yet, but my girlfriend does not mind. please advise.

2006-10-25 03:53:37 · 13 answers · asked by BEN M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If your mom said you could not date the person you wanted because he was black. . . She has threatned to kick me out 5 or 6 times in the past year and I am tired of it I wanna go and I have place to go. . .She has also tried to say it's my fault my grandfather it dieing and It's not he has cancer I can not help that even though I wish he didn't the person I am dating is amaing and would never hurt me and my mom can't believe that because he is black i can't hang out with my best friend anymore because her grand parents think that my mom is crazy (i agree) she braged about sending me to a doctor because my boyfriend happens to be black and I dated a few black guys last year to but its not like I won't date a white guy my mom told me the only reason that I date black guys is because I have low self-esteem and they make me feel better (I beg to differ) but all my stuff is packed should I move out or not. . . would you (and yea I do have a place to go. . .)

2006-10-25 03:52:35 · 34 answers · asked by Smile 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel im neva satisfied when im with a person that likes me more than i like him...being with a person that i like more, gives me satisfaction and happiness and when im with a guy that likes me a lot...i feel im not attracted to him...even tho i kno its prob best to go for a guy who treats me nice and cares about me...but i can't help feeling attracted to guyz who are cold emotionaless and act like he doesn't care....is there something wrong with me? does anyone else feel this way?

2006-10-25 03:52:22 · 5 answers · asked by Forever happy 3 in Singles & Dating

Every day as I get older I realise about how little I actually know about life. I realise previous rules, thoughts etc just don't add up.

So if you look at your dating rules, criteria for sex etc etc Are they any good or are they nice idea, sound sophisticated but really just a load of tosh.

Alternatively have you inherited rules from friends and family and are you living there dreams.

2006-10-25 03:51:26 · 9 answers · asked by lifeontrack2006 4 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who is so quick to jugdge people and assume she knows everything about them before she knows them. I hate it! Do you do the same thing? Do you think its right?

2006-10-25 03:50:26 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

if devorce at the end, probably it's better to say" it depends do us part" instead of til death do us part.

2006-10-25 03:49:28 · 21 answers · asked by Simply_Me 3 in Family

When my bestfreinds deaf mother and I have secret sex in restaurants she always seems to fart. Obviously she cant hear it. Should I tell her or just carry on ?

2006-10-25 03:49:00 · 24 answers · asked by offmihead 2 in Family

for the same reason i wanna make a friend from america of around fourteen years of age.
rishabhaur@yahoo.com

2006-10-25 03:48:57 · 2 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends

2006-10-25 03:48:05 · 6 answers · asked by Pookie 1 in Friends

My fiance is in another state for the next 8 months. We have to fly to see each other; usually about two weekends out of a month. He really doesn't know anyone where he is, and he has a lot of work to do, but he seems really lonely. What can I do to help him feel more comfortable and not so alone?

2006-10-25 03:47:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Does this mean that a guy who is 7 on the looks scale will have to try much harder than someone who is 9 , and it implies that someone who is 9 will have to put in much less effort to get the girl. how does the whole thing work ?

2006-10-25 03:47:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband, (of 2 years) and I, have been seperated for a year, we go back together and split back up constantly. It has been an emotional rollarcoaster ride. I keep thinking he's going to be the man I thought he was when i married him, but it never happens. He bad mouths me on his questions and answers here online. He has hurt me so many times and in so many forms of deception that I couldnt even begin to list them. The problem is that I love him deeply, I am sacraficing my own self value by continueing to partisipate in this marriage. How can I let go, move on and be open to meeting someone who truly values me as a woman and someone who enjoys spending time with me. Im so down and depressed, why do i keep going back for more?

2006-10-25 03:47:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-25 03:46:46 · 1 answers · asked by kutiegirl96 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-25 03:46:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

being a emotional girl...when i start to like someone, i end up falling for them before they fall for me...this usually leads to me being the one gettin hurt...how do i control my feelings so i won't like the other person more than he likes me?

2006-10-25 03:45:49 · 16 answers · asked by Forever happy 3 in Singles & Dating

Please help. I'm feeling so sad and lonely and have no one to talk about it. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 and a half years. The thing is though.. We never get along. There is always a fight about something and usually the fights are massive. We say really, really horrible things to each other that are aimed to hurt. Say for instance, in the fight we just had, he called me stupid and retarded for not being able to use a computer properly and said he has no reason to be happy about being with me. I gave him a hard time about being uneducated and boring and laughed in his face when he started crying. The thing is, in about a day's time, i know we will have made up and say we never meant the things that we said. Which is true, we don't mean these things but when we fight it's as if we hate each other.
My question is.. does this happen to anyone else? All my friends who are in relationships seem so happy and they seem to have much smaller fights. Am i crazy to stay?

2006-10-25 03:45:32 · 17 answers · asked by Missy Lou 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-25 03:45:05 · 6 answers · asked by Fábioelf 4 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine has recently been spending a lot of time with me, we live together. We do just about everything together and we go out of town almost every weekend together. So recently she asked me if I would go out of town with her and I said sure why not. But one thing that puzzles me is the fact that she has a boyfriend! She broke up with him and they are trying it again. And she told me part of the reason for the first break up was because she did'nt spend time with him, but she's back with him and they're still not spending any time. She only sees once a month and they have a lot of free time. I told her "i'm not meaning to pry but I don't understand why your not spending time with your boyfriend when it was your decision to start over, me and you are always going places" she responds right now i'm doing what I wanna do. But if he did'nt do anything wrong, would it make sense to treat him this way?

2006-10-25 03:44:52 · 6 answers · asked by datgagirl87 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

so can you tell me your's? thanks so much

2006-10-25 03:44:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She's always at least an hour late and I don't know how to deal with this. I really don't think this is how to treat a friend. Not only that, but when friend of hers turned up at her house whilst I was there, she spent half an hour with her at the front door and just left me sitting there on my own in her sitting room.

2006-10-25 03:43:39 · 29 answers · asked by Say It Like You Mean It 4 in Friends

Ive been married for a few years. And I am happy with my husband. ive never not been. My problem is I have a crush on a guy at work. Its not like a "I wanna %#^#$$$% him" type crush it's more of a I just want to see what a kiss from him would feel like. Thats it. I know it's bad with me being married and all, and I will never do anything to hurt my husband, but this is the only guy OTHER than my husband whom ive ever been attracted to. Ive been with him for over 6 years. I dont want people to get the image that im a slut or anything. But how can I get over this without letteing either guy know about it.

2006-10-25 03:43:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

1) I do care for her everyday
2) Take her to good luxury restaurant
3) Prove her that I make foods for her
4) spend time with her the most than friends in the weekend
5) Play guitar and make lovely music
6) Come visit her parents on Sunday day light time only
7) Leave her when she's study for exam
8) Help each other problem in University Campus (Library)
9) Never cheat on her
10) sex is not very important in my relationship
11) good heart and great listening
12) cook for her when she's need them
13) try not make her angry or sad

2006-10-25 03:42:47 · 14 answers · asked by Herry S 1 in Singles & Dating

the guy i like delete me from his friends on mysapce and i don't know if i should ask him why add him to my friends agian or just ignore it

2006-10-25 03:42:40 · 2 answers · asked by funisfun123 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-25 03:42:16 · 3 answers · asked by in_love 1 in Friends

What do you think about online boyfriends and when they finally know each other what are the chances of having a real and strong relationship if the relationship was almost 100% online except 2 months that she visited him.
Thanks

2006-10-25 03:42:11 · 14 answers · asked by Sabri 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Financially this would help us both. He expects me to contribute to
his expenses even thou we live seperatly and I also have to pay for
my own rent, bills etc. I can not get him to understand that this is
not exceptable

2006-10-25 03:42:00 · 3 answers · asked by Dee 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ive got a very good friend that went overseas. I guess his internet access isnt as reliable as in America, and we use to talk every single day for hours. It sucks when I dont hear from him in a day. Three days with nothing in my inbox feels shitty. Anyway, how do I tell him to try to write more?! without sounding insecure and demanding?

2006-10-25 03:41:10 · 6 answers · asked by dustin m 1 in Singles & Dating

Follow up. I havent slept with the guy in a while. We were at a party and i was flirting with other guys ignoring him and he didnt like it at all,but he says that we are just friends. Im getting mixed emotions about the whole situation.If we were just friends then he wouldnt care.right

2006-10-25 03:40:46 · 18 answers · asked by cmkp2000 1 in Singles & Dating

Instead of wearing a white wedding dress, which symbolizes purity and virginity, could you wear another color dress? Like red or gray, blue, black--anything but white. I don't want to wear white at my wedding, even though I'm sure I'll still be a virgin at that point. It's just so, I hate to say it, passe. EVERYBODY AND THEIR MOTHER (literally if your parents were married) WEARS IT! I love color anyway. But I don't know if I could bear people thinking I slept around with the groom or any man.

2006-10-25 03:39:52 · 24 answers · asked by craftykid22 3 in Weddings