Family & Relationships - 25 October 2006

Finally he told me he is dating someone. We been together over 20 years on and off. I tried to moved on but he keeps walking into my life(well I let him in) I thought that we could work things out, thats the impression I got. I dont blame him for moving on but I do blame him for the games. Is it normal that I want to hate this man?

2006-10-25 03:28:47 · 13 answers · asked by Licy 2 in Singles & Dating

ok...most people say guys are supposed to have commitment issues and girls aren't but it's like every guys i've been with has wanted to commite and it scares me i'm scared sh*tless of commitment. any idas on how to get over that???

2006-10-25 03:28:22 · 7 answers · asked by Jeszi R 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

people shouldbtnt be mean to cutters. it really hurts their feelings. justbecause someone cuts doesnt mean they are emo. and emo people arent weird. they are EMOTIONAL what is so wrong with that. you peopel to answered rudely to the last question need to think twice because something like that can make someone like me hurt themselves anymore.

2006-10-25 03:28:14 · 10 answers · asked by Audrey 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My brother is 16 and his girlfriend is only 14 years old. she think we are family since she goes out with my brother. she thowing a birthday party for my dad this friday. i dont like the way she talks to people and the way thats she acts round people. do u think i should get to know the girl or just leave it alone. The weekend is the only time i get to see my brother because he lives with our aunt and i live with my mom and we both goes to diffent school

2006-10-25 03:28:11 · 24 answers · asked by desi07 1 in Family

or just maybe getting tired. we have 4 beutifull children together we have the best relationship. we have always said we are soulmates. but he stays home with the kids all day while i work. it can be stressfull but thats what he wants to do he loves his babies and doesnt want any other influences on them yet ( they are babies) anyway i just worry that he will stray even though he hasnt given any signs of that. i know what your gonna say- im insecure and if im thinking it it must be true, i just know that he was always the bachleor & have a few women type but he stopped all of that when we got together! i know for a fact he has never cheated on me, he has a friend that has a new girlfriend and she happens to be a stripper ( part time) and they come over as a couple all the time and i know she would want my man and maybe try to give it to him, but would he take it ? and ruin our family and all of our love together?

2006-10-25 03:28:09 · 10 answers · asked by A Proud Marine's Daughter 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-25 03:27:48 · 3 answers · asked by Katie 1 in Singles & Dating

I 've a classmate who never talks to me. Actually,he is not a rude fellow.He talks with much of girls in the class though not very friendly with them.But he really neglects me.I also used to neglect him.But I feels so sad when I 'm not in company with one of our friendz.what can i do?

2006-10-25 03:27:25 · 10 answers · asked by rehna 1 in Friends

a romantic girl, whos fun to be around, and you feel comfortable around.

or

an easy girl, who you only see when you want sex? who you are not emotionally connected with at all.

just wondering as i upset me when my ex boyfriend dumped me because 'i want you to become the second option, and not be the first one. '

2006-10-25 03:26:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a guy friend of mine once told me that he thinks the reason there are bad men is because of bad women. he said he thinks the bad men were actually good at one point in their lives, but became that way because of female rejection. i knew some guys who were really sweet and kind but at that time didnt get any girls, but now they are rude and arent good men, but they get all the women.

2006-10-25 03:26:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it rude to start eating the meal without some of the guests? How long should I be expected to wait as some of the food will be ruined if it sits there?

2006-10-25 03:25:59 · 41 answers · asked by mychemicalromancelover 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

A friend is pressuring me to take the train because "it would be good for me", but I live real close to work, I think it would take more time to metro in than driving my car.

I am a single Mother of two, with time restrictions.

2006-10-25 03:25:48 · 6 answers · asked by Lovely B 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-25 03:25:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He is 21 and hes just an average guy!!!! I have no clue what to buy him?

2006-10-25 03:25:02 · 13 answers · asked by kawasakigurl1400 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

last night at a night club i got off with thid lad 6 times. does thid mean he likes me? (he was drunk) and he also got off with anouther women (got off means snoggin with tongues)

2006-10-25 03:24:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If you love someone more than life itself can you forgive them for cheating on you.And how to begin the relationship from there to gain the trust back.

2006-10-25 03:24:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-25 03:24:43 · 2 answers · asked by mzk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The idea that guys should wait for sex in order to show respect, I don't understand it.

I'm sorry but waiting and showing respect in my book are not directly linked ! Either a person is either

a) respectful of others feelings, property, themselves etc
b) a disrespectful person and a cheat.
c) somewhere between (a) and (b)

Surely there are better ways of finding out if someone is respectful or not, this doesn't seem a good test to me. It seems extreamly unreliable and fraught with error.

I presume you women have other ways of deciding whether a guy is worthy of your love or not and you are not too reliant on this waiting rule

Furthermore I'm concerned that women are using this test, and then realising that the guy is a nightmare and then blaming the whole of mankind as a result instead of blaming the tests that they used when they first went out with the guy.

Hope it's not too heavy, but your views please!

2006-10-25 03:24:00 · 12 answers · asked by lifeontrack2006 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-25 03:23:01 · 6 answers · asked by ROUGHPANTHER 1 in Singles & Dating

Check this out Yahoo. I slept with a co-worker about two weeks ago. I am black and she is white. We slept together and went to work the following Monday and everything was cool, now she is acting all standoffish like she doesn't even want to speak with me. What's going on here.

2006-10-25 03:22:16 · 14 answers · asked by chamar_h 1 in Singles & Dating

i meet this guy he has ask me to come over to his house but i was seeing some one and they just told me they did not want to see me any more.. so i don"t know if i should go to his house or not.. i just don"t want to get hurt ,,, i am still in love whit that guy the one who dose not want to be whit me .... i well always love him o matter what i do in my life,, i just can"t stop loving him i can"t found the way to stop loving him..it has be 3 mos now and i still love him i know he has move on whit his life and has found some one eles. i just whis i could i just don"t know how to do that yet ,, i still cry over him and to call him but i don"t call him he told my daughter if i did call him he would have his number changed so i well not call him at all ,,, but i would love to call him so bad,,, am i crazy for filling this way?

2006-10-25 03:21:36 · 4 answers · asked by renee m 1 in Friends

To drive a car you have to provide "Proof of financial responsibility" It is my belief that to have children, a woman or a couple should have to provide similar proof of financial resposibility.I often hear of couples, but usually single mothers complaining that they can't afford the basic needs and that our tax $$ should pay for them. What do you think?

2006-10-25 03:21:01 · 7 answers · asked by Hammer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-25 03:20:59 · 19 answers · asked by RACHAEL R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a stupid message from a little girl the other day and I had own my opinion about age group I perfer to date. I am sticking with it so she caught feeling like most people her age group 18-22 I'm 34 I don't date females that age group I perfer 25-35 that's my level it shows how immure and insecure she is I think the broad needs to grow up! So what do you think?

2006-10-25 03:20:54 · 1 answers · asked by ken31pop 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-25 03:20:27 · 18 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-25 03:20:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend with benefits and sometimes i feel as if he doesnt want to get to know me beyond the sex. this is the same guy that had split personalities one day he is okay and the next he is not. I put him on blast and told him that there is more to me than just sex and that if didnt want to get to know me beyond the sex then he could just hit the road. To make a long story short he has been calling asking about my day for the past two days. I dont know if he really cares or if he is doing this to continue to sleep with me. what do you think?

2006-10-25 03:19:12 · 11 answers · asked by cmkp2000 1 in Singles & Dating

I got dumped 3 months ago by my ex. We lived together for 3 years. She was pretty ruthless with the breakup although has given very confusing and mixed messages when-ever I see her (ie; such as kissing me a month ago and saying she "loves me" with tears in her eyes), although we never talk now

In the last two weeks I have been at the same work functions as her on at least 3 occassions and she doesn't acknowledge my presence, although I haven't waved/smiled at her either. It seems as though she leaves the event once I am there as well

What is going on in her head - is this hate, guilt, ambivalence? I just dont get why an adult after 3 great years would act like this. The history doesnt go away. I don't buy all this "no contact" stuff; it seems like its just a way of acting like you never gave a damn

2006-10-25 03:18:01 · 18 answers · asked by afterdinnermint 2 in Singles & Dating

alrite me and dis boy went out 4 9 months and it was cool at most times but by the 7 month things changed we both changed he wasnt so nice and i wasnt so caring bout the attenion i got from other boyz good or bad. our realtoinship was secret no one knew we just had to keep it dat way. somtimes he would make me feel like the most beautiful girl in the world and when i was with him i was just 2 happy but at times he would get mad cuz he thought i was tring to get with all his friends i was just being friendly he expected me to be mean or somthing then there came the hitting and showing out i dint think nothing of it untill i realized it was bad for him 2 be choking me hitting me spiting on me aiming 4 my face with his fist and just calling me names hoes and just everything but he swear he loved me. he would say sorry and say he felt bad and was gon stop but he still hits me to this day and talks to other gurls and everything i kno i shoulnt even be with help

2006-10-25 03:17:42 · 1 answers · asked by it's HG !! 2 in Singles & Dating

girl is older than guy about 2.5 years. They have know each other for 3 years but have only dated 2 times. The guy has been in and out of girls life for years only to have come back in her life.they are now together and have been for 3 months. Do they have some kind of megnetic connection?

2006-10-25 03:17:19 · 10 answers · asked by young at heart 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a sil that I have very good reason to believe she stold from me. We have decided to forget about the incident and accept her into our family. A few months after that she stayed over and stold some makeup. I did not tell my brother so as not to stir up trouble, and just let it go again.

Things were going along fine. We were getting along pretty good. I even looked forward to her visits and putting the past behind us. Then I wrote to my brother about not being able to come out in the bad weather for a holiday and to pick up my mom to stay with us, and she let loose on my whole family accusing us of being not caring about my mother and threatening if my brother has a stroke because of this, she will hold me personally responsible. She slammed my whole family including my children saying they have no respect for their grandmother. She listed all her resentments about me and my family in the letter. I was so shocked. I thought everything was O.K. What do I do?

2006-10-25 03:17:03 · 2 answers · asked by ycantibhappy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships