a romantic girl, whos fun to be around, and you feel comfortable around.
or
an easy girl, who you only see when you want sex? who you are not emotionally connected with at all.
just wondering as i upset me when my ex boyfriend dumped me because 'i want you to become the second option, and not be the first one. '
2006-10-25 03:26:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's a jerk, it all depends on where in life the guy is and what he wants depends on that. I'm older so I want a romatic girl, I don't want some whore.
for you, be who you are and not what others want you to be.
2006-10-25 03:29:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Charlotte, to be honest with you, as a guy I don't see any relationship between what you've experienced in that relationship with your ex-bf and the question you posed. I may not know the category you belong to (either a romantic gurl or an easy gurl) but whatever be the case, you should know that we guys are different, in such a way that you gurls are different. Please try to avoid hasty generalization in determining people's character and behavior. Try as much as possible to take each people the way he is. When building a new relationship, try and understand the guy you're dating and be very sure he loves you and you love him too - SINCERELY. This is very important. However, always remember that NOBODY is perfect - neither you or I, but with love, you're bound to understand your lover and he'll also understand you - in whatever situation. Cheers and good luck.
2006-10-25 11:05:18 · answer #2 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting question. More and more women today are taking the second option. Personally, I see nothing wrong with that as long as both parties agree. I would like the firtst option better, but of course I hope sex is involded, or is that just plationic?
2006-10-25 10:30:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I vote for romantic, fun, and comfortable to be with. The other kind can be had with a magazine. If your ex just wants sex, then you should look further for a bf.
2006-10-25 10:32:04 · answer #4 · answered by credo quia est absurdum 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A romantic girl, whos fun to be around, and you feel comfortable with...
2006-10-25 10:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A romantic girl who's easy.
2006-10-25 10:29:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First option. It is better to have a connection with someone.
Sex, while enjoyable, can not be the end all and be all of a relationship.
2006-10-25 10:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by Axeman 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men who are looking for a relationship want the first. IF they are just looking to get lucky..... obviously the second
2006-10-25 10:29:16 · answer #8 · answered by shepherd169 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A romantic girl.... stupid!!!
if you have someone that you can really trust and share anythin with that what is the most important
NOT a one night stand!!!
2006-10-25 10:30:22 · answer #9 · answered by ford_mud_runner 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the romantic girl
2006-10-25 10:29:30 · answer #10 · answered by il kindome di cielo₪ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋