Obviously, she still has feelings for you. She is doing this on purpose, but, ask yourself, "do I still have feelings for her?" Because, it seems as if you want her back. Why did you even part? Something must've happened to bring you two to this point. Anyway, you must ignore this as well. It is pretty hard for you I'm sure after 3 yrs of a relationship together.
I would question why I was even dumped if I were you. Was it because of irreconcilable differences, any exes involved, or someone new in the picture. Maybe, that is the reason she has/had tears in her eyes as she kissed you. Guilt could be a factor.
The best medicine for this would be time. I would suggest you try to pick up pieces and roll with the punches of life. If you two were meant to be, you will. If not, she wasn't the one for you and your soul-mate is awaiting your arrival!! This is your motivation! Be strong in times of adversity, it is but a season!
2006-10-25 03:34:30
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answered by Leo 2
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first of all: She is trying to make you jealous.
All girls want from an X is to hear them say
something along the lines of "I'm nothing
without you" or "I f***ed up". She probably
is missing you deep inside, but what ever happened
to cause the break up is still top on the list of "memories".
Behind closed doors (ie the kiss a month ago) there is
no one but you and her. In a room full of people she
especially coworkers she has to stand her ground and
act like she doesn't care. She still does, maybe not the
way she use to but you two made many memories and
those do not go away (that fast).
She must feel that you hurt her bad and know she wants
to repay the favor. The most hurtfull thing you can do to
an X is act like they don't exist or that you two have never
met. Give her a taste of the same medicine, if you can
and she tries to talk to you, just say " do i know you?".
Trust me it's a very hurtful thing to say and do to someone
you care about, but doesn't she need a taste of her own
medicine? Good Luck to you, there are plenty others out
there.
2006-10-25 03:31:21
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answered by desire4reallove 2
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Honestly, I think she probably meant it that time she said she loved you, and now she's feeling like she has to avoid you at all costs to start her healing process and get over you. She is the one who broke up with you, so she probably had some very clear reasons (at least in her mind) why you two shouldn't be together. At the same time, though, it's impossible to fall out of love just like that, given the history you had. She probably feels like she can't be your friend, or even friendly toward you, just yet, but you probably have a lot of mutual friends, which means she's sort of forced to see you a lot of the time. I think you need to just give her space and not try to force any talks between you. She'll probably need months, maybe even a year, before she feels like you can have civilized conversations together. Maybe it wouldn't hurt for you to distance ourself from her circle entirely, but if that's not popssible, just try to blend into the background whenever she's around as much as you can.
2006-10-25 03:27:04
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answered by fizzygurrl1980 7
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sometimes there's no medium ground for exes, she may need the distance so she wont confuse you or herself with the temptations of the kissing etc
she may need to allow certain things to pass before it can just be hi how are you type thing
and some people don't really know who to act in an awkward situation, maybe that's the best she can offer for now
perhaps a little guilty that she used brute tactics in the break up a
I don't really think it's to take away from the good days
maybe be the ice breaker, speak to her first from across the room, hi, hope all is well, take care, then move on about your business
2006-10-25 03:23:46
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answered by Anonymous
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she's probably still confused and hurt, and doesnt know what to do. my ex and i dated 5 years. i've been with my current bf over 3.5 years now, and my ex still wouldnt talk to me now. he lives with 2 of our mutual friends and my bf and i arent allowed over to their house because of my ex. we were over there about a year ago, and i was sitting on the couch with one of them, and my bf was walking down the street with the other, and my ex walked in the door (home early from work) and just was dumbfounded to the point he said my name, then ran upstairs and then ran back downstairs and out the door, where he ran into my bf. i think thats pretty patetic that after 2 years he still cant even deal with the sight of me. but right after we had broke up, and yes, it was me that did the breaking up but still, he kept calling me telling me he loved me, completley changed his appearance to "please me", called hysterically crying in the middle of the night on many occasions, then started stealing stuff from my bf's house.
what i'm trying to say is that break-ups can really mess with some people, she might have thought that it was a good idea, but is still having a hard time seeing you. you might have kissed you and told you she loved you because she did, and probably always will, but just cant be with you anymore, and apparently around you yet. try talking to her the next time you see her. the fact that you're totally ignoring her too probably is making her feel like you're totally over her and want nothing to do with her. if you want to at least still be friends, then you have to make the effort too.
2006-10-25 03:25:41
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answered by Anonymous
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First And Foremost
She is Your Ex
Let Her Go !
If she leaves, then maybe you should examine the reasons.
Don't let people make you to be the fool.
Someone else knows why she left!
Is that someone You?
Or maybe a best friend?
I don't know!
Nor Do I care!
Maybe you should adopt this same attitude!
History never goes away ! DUH !
But the future's So Bright ......you've gotta wear shades!
2006-10-25 03:28:21
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answered by Sweptwing57Dodge 2
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The key thing here is X! If she is your X than she does not have to say anything to you. Move on!!!!!!!! It is to many women out there that is willing and waiting to meet someone like you! Remember the past is the past!
2006-10-25 03:22:24
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answered by Child of God 3
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Forget her shes not worth your time. That is if shes acting like a school girl and all.
2006-10-25 03:20:25
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answered by zaden99 2
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You call her an adult, but she doesn't act like an adult. Just let her go. Don't waste your time with her.
2006-10-25 03:19:56
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answered by Royalhinney 7
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looks like your ex nevertheless has emotions for you being that u became the single that broke up with him.....you cant make somebody who would not want to speak to u talk to you and for god sake supply up magnificent out with him....if he makes u sense small.
2016-10-16 09:41:31
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answered by ? 4
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