Check this out Yahoo. I slept with a co-worker about two weeks ago. I am black and she is white. We slept together and went to work the following Monday and everything was cool, now she is acting all standoffish like she doesn't even want to speak with me. What's going on here.
2006-10-25 03:22:16 · 14 answers · asked by chamar_h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it all really depends on the situation.... Have you guys been talking before this? Did this happen "out of know where" so to speak, were you guys friends before this happened... maybe she got what she wanted and thats all, maybe she relized you weren't for her, maybe she regrets it, maybe she thinks shes ruined the "friendship" There are just so many things to consider. If i were you, i would ask her...something along the lines of "Did i do something wrong??" if so what? It could be maybe she was in a relationship and wanted to test her feelings for her b/f... Asking is the only way you can find out for sure, otherwise your just playing a guessing game!!!
~CHEERS!!~
2006-10-25 03:31:56 · answer #1 · answered by Romy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe something happened that you don't know about. She could be embrassed about what happened. Try to talk to her and see what''s going on. She could feel used if you haven't done it again or there is nothing headed for the dating path. Just communicate to her and see what happens. Good luck
2006-10-25 03:25:03 · answer #2 · answered by Alisha C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
psssh no deal i choose my £10,000 howdy do you think of there actual is a banker on deal or no deal? or is noel merely speaking on the telephone to himself? or some thing stupid like that
2016-12-28 04:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oooh... she played you, bro! If you're not satisfied about it, you could talk to her about it. Do you even like her enough to start a relationship? Or do you just want to be friends-with-benefits with her? If she says it was just an experiment to her, move on and don't play where you work.
2006-10-25 03:29:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never sh*t where you eat! Rule number one! Now that you've broked that rule, the next rule is-just be casual! Act like it meant nothing to you. I know how she feels and that how I get. She is afraid you are falling for her and she is giving you he cold shoulder because it easier than coming out and saying it.
Sorry..
2006-10-25 03:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by cici 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she fears that co-workers might have an idea of what happened so she's shutting you out until things blow over.
2006-10-25 03:26:54 · answer #6 · answered by It's a secret 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She does not want you thinking you will get more.. OR she is disapointed you have not tried again and is starting to feel unloved.. but my guess is the first.
2006-10-25 04:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes embarassed. regretful, uneasy, has trialed tested and failed......the list is just endless.
try talking to her and asking her whats going on.
2006-10-25 03:27:47 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She satisified her curiousity. And you learned a valuable lesson -- Don't "play" where you work!
2006-10-25 03:25:04 · answer #9 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She got what she wanted and is finished. Move on.
2006-10-25 03:23:28 · answer #10 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋