I have a sil that I have very good reason to believe she stold from me. We have decided to forget about the incident and accept her into our family. A few months after that she stayed over and stold some makeup. I did not tell my brother so as not to stir up trouble, and just let it go again.
Things were going along fine. We were getting along pretty good. I even looked forward to her visits and putting the past behind us. Then I wrote to my brother about not being able to come out in the bad weather for a holiday and to pick up my mom to stay with us, and she let loose on my whole family accusing us of being not caring about my mother and threatening if my brother has a stroke because of this, she will hold me personally responsible. She slammed my whole family including my children saying they have no respect for their grandmother. She listed all her resentments about me and my family in the letter. I was so shocked. I thought everything was O.K. What do I do?
2006-10-25 03:17:03 · 2 answers · asked by ycantibhappy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Have you talked to your brother since, you got this letter? Call Sil and tell her that you care about your Mom, but because of circumstances you and your family was unable to pick up Mom. and your Brother had no problem getting her. So since it was all settled, between you and your brother, you do not know why she got all upset. And for the record, "I love my Mother." say Take care, and hang up!
2006-10-25 03:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For Starters, that was too long to read, but ur answer to that qn, is Forgive as many times as possible.
The Bible tells us to forgive 77 tims a day!
so i bet you have to forgive sil!
2006-10-25 10:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by Geolove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋