Family & Relationships - 25 October 2006

Me and my girl have been together for 8yrs off and on and have a 6yr old boy. we have both cheated on each other but, about 3 yrs ago we both agreed never to do it again. I have been faithful but about a year ago she cheated again. I let her move back in and not even 1yr has gone by and she wants to get married. I'm scared because I want to have a good relationship but affriad this will cont. should I Marry her or not?

2006-10-25 03:16:21 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have a friend and we were both once friends with this one girl until she started getting us in trouble! my friend says shes not friends with the girl anymore but i pass her in the hall at school and see her laughing and talking to her. shes also been telling the girl shes supposly not friends with thing that peolpe im friends with say about her! sorry if confusing i tried!

2006-10-25 03:15:42 · 5 answers · asked by Sabrina B 2 in Friends

Everyone seems to be having sex but I'm 26 still a virgin. I've had a couple of boyfriends before and broke up with some because i couldn't give in and some for different other reasons. Am i normal

2006-10-25 03:15:16 · 52 answers · asked by Sammy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-25 03:14:17 · 12 answers · asked by hotdrumstix 1 in Singles & Dating

what turns your motor on and makes it purrr. what's the best way to heat you up? for me it's a great smelling perfum,, and her in stockings and heels. gets me everytime.

2006-10-25 03:14:12 · 16 answers · asked by Rooster 3 in Singles & Dating

we have been together now for almost a year the problem is that he used to love chatting on the net and I started doing it aswell but now we have both stopped, the thing with him is that he wanted to know exactly who I was chatting to and also used to check my emails but I was never aloud to see his chats or even look at his phone so I just mereley had to except the fact that it was all clean chats but how do I do that if he prevents me from checking, to me its like he is hiding something..........but anyways he caught me quite a few times lying about chatting and sending emails and no no its was all clean chats and emails but now he is finding it very hard to trust me and to believe in me because of me lying to him saying was not chatting and also deleting all evidence. So yes he has all right to not trust me , but how do i gain his trust back, i love him so much and want things to work and understand he needs time but are we both in the wrong or just me. I do hope we wil make it

2006-10-25 03:13:56 · 6 answers · asked by Chevonne 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel like there are no guys out there that want me. I just wish I could find one guy that does!!

2006-10-25 03:13:34 · 16 answers · asked by Shortie 1 in Singles & Dating

the only guys that seem attracted to me is old perverts, young preverts, and jackasses.. Am i just not pretty enough for an okay guy?

2006-10-25 03:13:17 · 13 answers · asked by kawasakigurl1400 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He told me he likes me a lot but hes not ready for a relationship because he just out of a very bad,controlling relationship but now he wont answer his phone or answer the text messages i send him.And he is also keeping things from me.I have known for quite a while now that he has a kid and he still has yet to tell me about it.

2006-10-25 03:12:11 · 23 answers · asked by xxrlhoodratxx 2 in Singles & Dating

Would you ever hit a girl? What about ur girlfriend?
My boyfriend hits me and i'm scared to leave him. HELP!!

2006-10-25 03:12:09 · 21 answers · asked by EmoLover 1 in Singles & Dating

i cry every day and she knows that i am hurting and said she is sorry but she did not stop communicating with him. i am thinking about leaving my husband because i am hurting so bad ever time i see him chatting with her.

2006-10-25 03:11:27 · 17 answers · asked by Allison W 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

have you broken up with your SO? I think we broke up but for no good reason. I still want her. Any success stories or advice?

2006-10-25 03:11:05 · 5 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

Like about a month ago he told me that we should put things on pause and i ingored it and didn't pay attention to much and i stop calling me but he called me & i never did answer until one day I finally did and he told me that he need to talk to me i was like about what so he said that he was going call me back because he was a work and we talked or whateva but when he said I love you and he know me and him wasn't getting along at that time i just knocked it off like okay whatevs. Now he's saying that we need to get on a new strat saying i love you again insted of hanging up the phone saying bye. But he's beating around the bush wot that though if u know what I mean.

2006-10-25 03:10:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-25 03:10:12 · 7 answers · asked by ROUGHPANTHER 1 in Singles & Dating

I was with him for a year and a half and he was the love of my life. However, I had to leave him. He was to moody, putting me down, and was always mad at me. Well last week he sent text messages that were I love you, I miss you, I need to see you....then when I finally got sick of al the text, I said well call me after work. Instead of calling, he sent a text saying he didn't feel like getting in a stressful conversation with me and then two hours later that hes scared to make a move.. He has a past of playing mind games and I dont know if thats what hes doing. Sat. night again he sent me a text at midnight out of the blue telling me to have a good night and hes on his way home from his sisters. He sent me a package in the mail yesterday and I didn't open it. We are both 29 and I dont know why he still acts this immature about relationships. Im confused because I don't know if he is just playing games now or really wants to work on things. What do u think?

2006-10-25 03:10:02 · 18 answers · asked by Kit Katt 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Everyone in my family misunderstand me.They think i am selfish.I am a bit lazy i admit but not selfish. They quarrel with me almost everyday over my small mistakes.BUT my mom is caring & loving, my dad too loves me alot but does'nt show his feelings & prefers being strict with me. MY COUSINS make fun of me because i am sensitive & emotional & don't take all the things from materialistic point of view.THEY criticise me , pass comments on me & make me cry. I don't say anything because i don't want to hurt anybody's sentiments as they are elder to me. Moreover i am not like them.CAN YOU BELIEVE IT THEY THINK BUYING BOOKS IS WASTE OF MONEY? I am suffering from a sense of inferiority complex. PLEASE HELP ME.

2006-10-25 03:09:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

and the next day you know you're about to die ,what would you do with the 1 million?

2006-10-25 03:09:21 · 49 answers · asked by weng 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well first i don't have a b/f and I need lovin and you know how girls are. Second I' always so board and theres nothin to do!!! And thirdly I am stressing out like a freak here PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-25 03:09:20 · 7 answers · asked by mandy 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband of 7 years and I are in the process of separating and I don't know anyone who has ever gone through anything like this. He and I are best friends, and care about each other a lot- but we've realized that we aren't good together as husband and wife. We've been in counseling for 4 years, in case anyone suggests that route. The relationship just doesn't work.

Is it possible to stay friends with an ex? How did you get through this difficult period? We don't have kids together, but I hope we are able to continue being "family."

How did you do this? Please share your divorce experiences.

2006-10-25 03:08:01 · 14 answers · asked by Jemima 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this bf who seems to care for me but I keep catching him in little white lies, nothing harmful but still, lies. He has this women who calls every now and then, ok fine I have no problem with a man having female friends, but why does she call at 12 midnight. Well I just have this "gut feeling" something else is going on. Who really believes in completley going with there gut in making final decisions.

2006-10-25 03:07:00 · 23 answers · asked by Robynette 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom rolls her eyes if I ask her to watch my kids (for even an hour) The woman does nothing all day. HAsn't worked a real job in over 30 years (she is 54) She fills in as a daycare sitter 3 days a week for her friends business. I am staying with her until my husband comes home from active duty (military) I need to rely on someone for childcare because I like to work. Yet when I do ask her I get "again" or " I just watched kids all week!" ( 3 days remember) My kids are not brats, they are funny sweet kids...they are not the problem. My issue is, in my time of need, is she being selfish? or am I?

2006-10-25 03:06:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I’m going to attempt to nut shell this story. My best friend, Lauren and I have known each other for over 10 years. We are now both 25. A year ago we became closer than we’ve ever been after having gone through similar break ups, graduating college, and finding independency. We clubbed on weekends and would crash at night at either her place or mine. Both of us are successful, attractive and intelligent women, who have fun, but are also very responsible, sensible adults.
One night at my place we ended up fooling around. This went on for a few months and then we both started dating other people. We decided we would go back to “just being friends” but our urge to be together was so strong that if we were ever alone we would end up in bed together. None of us had ever liked girls before, we have always considered ourselves straight, but now realize that we are both probably bi. This went on for another couple of months of random kisses and touches when we could manage them. And this all went on while we were both starting to get serious with our boyfriends. This became so confusing to us we didn’t know what we were going to do about it, how it was going to affect our friendship and our relationships with our boyfriends. We were also both at the stage where settling down would be the next step in our lives. The secret of being in love with each other (“in love” as in lust+friendship love) was getting too much for us to handle as well as the guilt of then pretending with our boyfriends that we were being faithful to them. At one point the guilt consumed Lauren and she said she couldn’t do it anymore, I agreed. So now we are both back to being friends, even though now and then we may talk about it or joke about it. I don’t know how she is feeling about it because we try not to talk about it too much, but I am still haunted with the memories and whenever I hear her voice I want her all over again, but I don’t say anything.
I love my boyfriend and we are planning on getting married. Lauren is on the same boat.
So my question is, was it cheating when Lauren and I were seeing each other when we had boyfriends? And is it cheating now that we still think about it even though we are no longer physical?

2006-10-25 03:06:20 · 7 answers · asked by aidances 1 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone ever actually talked to, met, or plan to meet anyone that they have met here on answers ? If so, how'd it go ? Where are you from ?

2006-10-25 03:05:53 · 5 answers · asked by scottm 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-25 03:05:22 · 14 answers · asked by Lady_Y 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-25 03:05:19 · 3 answers · asked by awg 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm particularly susceptible to flattery and flirting from pretty ladies...

2006-10-25 03:05:19 · 25 answers · asked by jamjod1978 2 in Friends

I am 41 happily married but do have sex with a 28 yr old and have been for the past two years, I cant seem to stop its like an addiction anyone in a similiar situation

2006-10-25 03:05:17 · 16 answers · asked by cinderella s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-25 03:05:06 · 14 answers · asked by confussie 3 in Friends

2006-10-25 03:04:58 · 22 answers · asked by ponypuffgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

I need a man that has the right to be called a man, a man that can stand up and take responsibilty and a man that knows how to please a lady!!! Where did they all go?

2006-10-25 03:04:50 · 20 answers · asked by kawasakigurl1400 1 in Other - Family & Relationships