I was with him for a year and a half and he was the love of my life. However, I had to leave him. He was to moody, putting me down, and was always mad at me. Well last week he sent text messages that were I love you, I miss you, I need to see you....then when I finally got sick of al the text, I said well call me after work. Instead of calling, he sent a text saying he didn't feel like getting in a stressful conversation with me and then two hours later that hes scared to make a move.. He has a past of playing mind games and I dont know if thats what hes doing. Sat. night again he sent me a text at midnight out of the blue telling me to have a good night and hes on his way home from his sisters. He sent me a package in the mail yesterday and I didn't open it. We are both 29 and I dont know why he still acts this immature about relationships. Im confused because I don't know if he is just playing games now or really wants to work on things. What do u think?
2006-10-25 03:10:02 · 18 answers · asked by Kit Katt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You left him for a reason change your number so he can't mess with your head anymore write return to sender on your package and send it back.
2006-10-25 03:13:26 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is obviously playing games with you -- not wanting to let go of the past relationship. Keep moving forward in your life and don't let him drag you back into a negative scenario. If he can't even find time or substance to meet and have a genuine conversation -constantly resorting to text messages - then he is too immature for a real, stable relationship.
2006-10-25 03:15:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could be his way of slowly easing back in your life. Little by little first the text. Than he will call you, than he'll want to meet you. If you don't want to go through what you want through while you too were together all over again, than I'd suggest texting him back asking him nicely to stop texting you, that you're moving on and he needs to. And from that point not respond to any of his text. If you feel he is getting out of hand and is border lining threats than tell him you'll call the police and save all those text, and gift, and letters that he gives you
2006-10-25 03:18:21 · answer #3 · answered by heaven_forsaken_dark_poet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 06:23:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing games and you know it! If he really wanted to work on things he would not send text messages, he would try to spend time with you. He just wants to see if you are still interested! Responding to him is only feeding his ego. I would just move on-don't waste anymore time!
2006-10-25 03:14:46 · answer #5 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have gotta ask your self why you broke up in the first place, if you get back together do you think hes changed or will it be the same old? to me he seems to be playin games and its a bit sad for a man of his age, he needs to grow up and you need to find some one who treats you how you want and deserve. xx
2006-10-25 03:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by Kimmy xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes being in control, he will never change no matter what you do or say so please continue to ignore his texts and have a clean break from him, it will be very difficult at first but stay strong for you own sanity, believe me it will get better and you will one day look back and realise how much he tried to control you
2006-10-25 04:32:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i wouldnt fall for it.If he has a past for playing mind games then hes gonna keep on doing it.So your best bet is to tell him hes the one who chose to play mind games and if he ever expects to find someone he needs to stop with the maind games.
2006-10-25 03:21:31 · answer #8 · answered by xxrlhoodratxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can only play mind-games if you let him. Block texts and messages, don't answer his number, return all mail unopened or throw it all in the bin.
2006-10-25 03:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by Phish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can know the answer - you sound like you still have feelings for him and if so then you need to meet with him and talk it through properly. If you dont then block his number and tell him you mean goodbye. xx
2006-10-25 03:16:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋