I have a friend with benefits and sometimes i feel as if he doesnt want to get to know me beyond the sex. this is the same guy that had split personalities one day he is okay and the next he is not. I put him on blast and told him that there is more to me than just sex and that if didnt want to get to know me beyond the sex then he could just hit the road. To make a long story short he has been calling asking about my day for the past two days. I dont know if he really cares or if he is doing this to continue to sleep with me. what do you think?
2006-10-25 03:19:12 · 11 answers · asked by cmkp2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am sorry to tell you its all about the sex, i have a couple of friends w/benefits that i already know deep down they are not what i consider girlfriend material, but i do enjoy the sex, i am always looking for girlfriend material but until i find it, i dont want to lose the sex, and yes i am pretty much an **** to them most of the time just being nice enough to them to string them along, i think they really resent me sometimes but they keep coming back so its up to you to decide what you should do, you already know the answer
2006-10-25 03:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by DECATSDEAD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, is it a friend with benefits or are you chnging the rules half way through the game? I have another girlfriend who starts out just wanting sex, but then she gets an attitude about it and starts b*tching about how they use her. Then i remind her she was using them to begin with. She usually gets mad at me then and we dont talk for a day and then she calls and agrees with me.
What do you want?
A boyfriend
or a friend with benefits?
2006-10-25 03:23:06 · answer #2 · answered by cici 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sleep with him for awhile and see if he keeps calling. If he stays w/out the sex, then he is into you. If he hits the road, he wasn't worth it anyway. Hope this helps!
2006-10-25 03:26:44 · answer #3 · answered by plegue4936 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but it is just the sex that he wants. When you gave up that special thing with him and made it into the FWB situation...you completely lost the chance for a relationship.
2006-10-25 03:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just wants the sex, move on and stop being friends with benefits, nothing is gonna come of it, you are not going to get a good relationship out of it so i would move on
2006-10-25 03:21:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it may just be about sex but if he really like you time will tell if he only calling now because you gave him an ultimatum then just be careful
2006-10-25 03:20:23 · answer #6 · answered by jenniferevans32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he just wants to make you think he cares so he can continue to have sex with you.
2006-10-25 03:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. He doesn't sound like the type of person i'd consider a relationship with, but we're all different, only you can decide this one. Good luck.
2006-10-25 03:22:27 · answer #8 · answered by l0bster_quadrille 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just invite him over one night and tell him how you feel if he cares he won't put the moves on you for awhile
2006-10-25 03:23:50 · answer #9 · answered by Katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he jut want 2 sleep wit u
2006-10-25 03:22:55 · answer #10 · answered by shanea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋