Family & Relationships - 25 October 2006

ok if you have a boy friend an u kiss some other guy,but it was just a peck not toung do u concider that cheating?? me an my b/f had only been goin out 4 like 2 days an i kissed another guy...

2006-10-25 04:36:53 · 21 answers · asked by AUBRIE L 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ive asked a question today and been labelled a HOME WRECKER is that me??

Ive been dating a man who is marriage, him and his wife seperated 3 mths ago they are selling there house, she moved out a while ago and has a new man. Apparently my date ended the relationship as he doesnt want to be with her anymore they are still friends and he hasnt mentioned a divorce and I dont want to pry! Hes very keen on me and I havent had sex with him we are just dating is this wrong??? He sounds as if he wants a relationship with me, hes coming to stay with me in a few weeks and has hinted about going away for Xmas.

2006-10-25 04:36:53 · 44 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfrend cheated on me about 6 months ago, i found out and a lot of my friends new about it. I dumped her on the spot. But a couple of months down the line i got back with her. Thing is i have realised i will never forgive for what she did and dont think it will work, she has been working hard to gain my trust back and she has faith we will get married one day. But she did me wrong by cheating on me, how do i let her go by not hurting her feelings, how do i let her know that i still love her but i have to let her go. Do you think im wrong for raising her hopes and then deciding to leave her?

2006-10-25 04:35:41 · 25 answers · asked by frankie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I jus tthink they would have other things to do besides SURFING. I recently heard on the radio that there is a millionare's dating service and a serial killer has killed two or three women who had responded. I just can't fathom a millionaire with dating issues ?

2006-10-25 04:35:40 · 7 answers · asked by SECRET woman 2 in Singles & Dating

one of my frendz has only 4 years to live n when she talks on this topic i get sad, she is happy for this n says that we'll come to meet her wid flowers when she'll be bedridden, how to realise her that it so difficult to part from her as she is more dearly than a sister to me n i can't let her see go. plz tell me how to stop her from discussing this topic as she very frequently talks about it.

2006-10-25 04:35:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-25 04:35:19 · 5 answers · asked by sneakyfker 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-25 04:34:11 · 53 answers · asked by alan m 1 in Singles & Dating

A few months ago i found out my wife had an affair, and we settled it We are still together no children, We have a large home and a few weeks ago Her twin came to stayt with us (she is having marriage trouble). I work at home and so does my wife but she had to go and meet cleints for various reasons. and my sis-in-law is alway there, Well she walks around half naked most of the time(but only when my wife is not around). She knows of our problems as she brings them up all the time when my wife is not around. she is also very flirtatious with me but not when the wife is there (SHe has kept herself up much better than the wife) Well I talked to the sis-in-laws hubby last night and it seem that the marriage problems are made up. So do you think my wife could be setting me up ? She always tells me when she'll be home thats our deal for me to not leave her but she always seems to get home much earkier than she says almost seem s that she is trying to catch us. Please help !!!!

2006-10-25 04:33:53 · 22 answers · asked by Wondering If ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have recently lost a lot of weight and guys that wouldn't give me the time of day before suddenly are interested in talking to me. How do I know a guy wants me for ME and not for my new figure?

2006-10-25 04:33:39 · 32 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

Posted earlier but want more ideas/answers.
I have been married for 7 years. I am extremely happy with my wife and we have a very active sex life. I wouldn't even dream of ending our marriage. We barely ever fight and love each other to death.
However
I have never been with another woman before my wife and the urge to do so is killing me. It is getting to the point where it is consuming my thoughts and making it hard for me to even do my job. All I can think about it getting busy with another girl. I won't do it because I love my wife and I know how badly it would hurt her, and the guilt would be horrible. I am afraid though that one day this urge might overwhelm my good senses and I will do something stupid. I wouldn't dare even bring this up with my wife because it would freak her out for sure no matter what I promised. I realize this urge is normal with everyone but it is definitely at an unhealthy level and it needs to back off.
Any help? My marriage means the world to me.

2006-10-25 04:31:24 · 16 answers · asked by fucose_man 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife has informed me that I have been neglecting her lately. I work afternoon shift for a local Police Department and I get up almost every morning early, to spend time with her, but there are always chores to be done (get up dog ___, etc. She feels that every minute I'm awake I'm suppose to be joined at the hip with her,holding hands (with is nice), but not all day. She talks about tht she wantd to spend her time with me as well as I with her, but what about the complaining, because her son got a new playstation game that I think is cool. I will play his game about 30 min each day before I get ready for work. Guess who thows a fit? I'm I wrong?

2006-10-25 04:31:19 · 16 answers · asked by ranger1562002 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Gifts from a son to his mother for his wedding? What is a good wedding gift for the mother of the groom?

2006-10-25 04:31:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

doing a study for college, need a lot of answers for this one. Just give me your opinion. thanks.

2006-10-25 04:30:26 · 13 answers · asked by funkfighter45 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i dont really know where to start, i was thinking just makeing up a scrap book and put things in it that i want in my wedding.. like using mag. and stuff like that. and ofcourse set a budget. but other than that ... ideas please

2006-10-25 04:30:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-10-25 04:29:53 · 21 answers · asked by B i n g o 4 in Singles & Dating

ok well me and my BF broke up about 2-3 weeks ago.... he kinda cheated on me by goin to my homecoming dance with anotha chick... this past week... all i do is think about him..... IM DYING!!!! i feel as if i need him!!! ummmm.... it took me like a week to find his number... now i finally found it.. and he dun answer.. wat do i do??? I MISSS HIM!!!!

2006-10-25 04:28:59 · 19 answers · asked by Tasha S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i gave her some milk what was i to do

2006-10-25 04:28:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why won't anyone go out with me I mean I sexy and all but when I moved here no one would go out with me is something wrong with me???? Are there any guy for me??? I need some one to LOVE me and HOLD me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE HELP GUYS I MAD!!!!!!!!

2006-10-25 04:28:34 · 17 answers · asked by mandy 2 in Singles & Dating

what do i tell my girlfriend

2006-10-25 04:26:41 · 31 answers · asked by PETE 3 in Singles & Dating

I hate this ***** she is a thief and a liar and a poser just a little preppy ***** she took my IPOD and my RAZER CELL and then lied about it every body says at least you got it back but I want to kick her *** all my friends said that don’t do it because it would not e a fight it would be me hitting her I can’t stand her OMG what should I do put yourself in my shoes!!!?????

2006-10-25 04:25:38 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

When it comes to parties or going out i somehow get totally dropped by my friends who don't invite me and then bragg about the party the next day to me. It's worse in the holidays when they go to dinner with my ex (who i dumped because he cheated on me). They always lie about where they're going.

I find it really hard when we do all meet up because i have nothing to say to them while they all have their 'inside jokes'. I have no idea why this is happening but i feel that if i confront them then they won't be my friends and i'll have no one so really i am saying nothing for the sake of convienience. I have other friends that are great but it still gets me down when i'm not invited out.

How can i tell my friends that they're a****without ruining our friendships?

2006-10-25 04:24:54 · 19 answers · asked by sidewinder 2 in Friends

I told a guy I was dating that we could no longer be friends because of his decesion to move out of the state in 6 or 7 months. I told him that I did not want to continue to date him, get closer to him or be friends with benefits since he was leaving. I sent him back all his stuff in the mail and he has not talked to me since. I don't know if I over reacted, I don't know if he said that because he is seeing someone else. We met online while he was in Iraq, and we talked for about 6 or 7 months we wrote letters, made phone calls, emailed and IM'd each other the whole nine yards now he has not even tried to contact me. We hung out once he got here and I thought everything was fine until he told me about the up coming move. I don't know if he misses me, if he is waiting for me to contact him, is it really over or do everything just need time. I know the golden rule about not contacting a guy who broke up with you, but does the rule apply to this situation? Please help.

2006-10-25 04:24:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what would u do with me?

2006-10-25 04:23:43 · 19 answers · asked by alan m 1 in Family

I got my car repoed it was my b/f and some of my fault he has to always go to the casino and its had for me not to play to.. He wants me to call his aunt and ask her if she will loan me some money she is not my aunt should i call or sould he call?? I told him I shouldn't cause i should not be in this mess to begine with

2006-10-25 04:23:36 · 5 answers · asked by emily_noll2006 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex-fiancee wants me back what should i do ?

2006-10-25 04:23:22 · 31 answers · asked by ashleyfrey94 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-25 04:23:18 · 6 answers · asked by beeborahrah 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I usually will chat with about anyone who is not rude. Well, I got scammed once. I became a little more careful. Then, I guy started leaving me messages on my 360 page. I really like him. He said he was glad I accepted him as my friend without question because he is Moslem. I never even thought about it. Now I have another Moslem guy sending messages. Now, I am not predjudice and I certainly do not want to be paranoid. But, should I be more careful?

2006-10-25 04:23:00 · 17 answers · asked by just me 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend whom I kind of have a crush on. He is really nice and super sweet. I don't know if he likes me back though. How can I tell?

2006-10-25 04:22:50 · 10 answers · asked by jacee_jo7910 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now and I know my boyfriend could use some clothes but I want to get him something really great too! Any ideas would be very helpful :)

2006-10-25 04:22:48 · 7 answers · asked by breeokc 2 in Singles & Dating

Through many words of advice I've been told not to go back to him because of his past behavior and patterns when he is in a relationship. He is going to jail for 90 days because a year and a half ago he got his 4th offense drunk driving. We have been apart for a year seeing each other of and on. He asked me to remain faithful to him while he is in jail and when he gets out we will see if we can mend the fences so to speak. Is this fair to me? I've wasted 4 years of my life begging him to quit drinking and now since he as quit he wants me to forget and move on. He also made a comment to me that one day he may be able to social drink again. Should this scare me away? I'm very confused and I just want to be happy one day. Your advice please?

2006-10-25 04:22:39 · 8 answers · asked by Marianne2006 1 in Family