Family & Relationships - 25 October 2006

2006-10-25 04:51:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can't seem to focus on anything, don't feel like socialising with the locals and just keep thinking about my other half, but at the same time i dont want to push him away by being too dependant b calling and texting all the time. would it just be best to finish it to save the hassle and distress? I've even thought about quitting uni so its not a good sign

2006-10-25 04:51:10 · 8 answers · asked by pussycatboi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been with a man for almost 8 years. I cheated (and yes I know it was wrong) and he found it. We got past it--or so I thought--but his behavior towards me is different. He is cold and says things to hurt me, he won't spend any time with me much less be in the same room with me for longer than necesary. I still do all the things I did before--cooking, cleaning, etc.--but I know this only scratches the surface of taking care of the person you love. I do love him and he says he loves me--but hates me at the same time. I wrote him a letter yesterday because I have a hard time expressing myself in words and told him that I needed to know what was going on with him. I told him that I needed to feel like he wanted me to be there otherwise it was time for us to cut our losses. HE hasn't mentioned anything to me about it--should I ask him or wait for him to approach me about it? I'm afraid to find out what his answer will be but I need to know. What do you think? What wld u do?

2006-10-25 04:50:35 · 19 answers · asked by WonderTwit 6 in Singles & Dating

ok here's the prob. my father is an alcoholic i havent talked to him or seen him for the last 5 years.honestly i dont want to see or hear from him because ever since i was a kid he made my life a living hell! no he didnt hit me or molested me but emotionally i was scarred as hell. there was a time where i thought drinking and cheting was ok this was when i was 10. my mother cannot see how traumatised that made me, i didnt have a good relationship with men because of that and since my mother every single time would forgive him for cheating i had such not hatred but intolerance for cheating bfs. the woman actually told me that if she ever saw my bf/husband cheating on me she wouldnt tell me. how can someone say that to me? ur mother! and i'm her only child! now that same mother of mine wants me to contact my dad and forgive him! that is not ******* fair! why? if that asshole wanted to contact me he would have! she's like alcoholism is a disease and not his fault! i'm like bullfuckingshit

2006-10-25 04:49:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

For those of you that read my questions earlier today, and in the past, you will know the story so far, for those who haven't please read them so you know...
Well , we text each other today and he said he wanted to sort things out with me tonight so i put my mum off coming to see me tonight, now lastminute i get a text saying "i;m not coming over"
Whats up with this :( I am so upset....

2006-10-25 04:49:45 · 11 answers · asked by Tamara 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Have a boyfriend who was my best mate for 7 years i do love him very much, we argue an awful lot and it all got a bit much for me in June this year. we broke up for about 3 weeks. in that space i met another guy totally different and he doesnt know as my current partner does. Needless to say went back to my partner and we are now rowing again. This other lovely man told me to go back to my partner as i wasnt happy with anyone else. Wel i hear from him from time to time just asking how i am nothing more. Partner and i are virtually at breaking point and we live together. I have nowhere else to go which sounds awful and dont know what to do. Dont want to run to another man isnt the way i am, i believe in breaks between relationships, but this other man would look after me! It would be an entirely different relationship though to say teh least! any ideas nothing nasty or judgemental please i havent cheated by the way! and i still love my partner loads.

2006-10-25 04:48:26 · 19 answers · asked by caroline17nov 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I got enaged about a month ago and my fiance is a marine and we want to get married as soon as possible but i just dont know how. I don't know what is the best way to get married quick.

2006-10-25 04:48:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the crappiest present you have ever received from anyone?

2006-10-25 04:46:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Does anyone else notice as we abandon everything sacred, can we really expect this not to affect how we percieve people? How we relate to people?

How do we value someone, when as a society, we place no value on anything?

2006-10-25 04:45:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have been living together for 3 years, dating for 2 and we are going on our 5th yr in March, we plan on getting married but not for a few more years. We are getting ready to buy a new house together, and i want my name on the mortgage,so that my credit can do even better. What is a good way to go about asking my
"alpha male" Boyfriend? He is not into me paying for anything to do with our houses,at all. Any suggestions?

2006-10-25 04:44:54 · 5 answers · asked by nikel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

he says he will only be with me while this is happennihg in bed i say no because this is not my wanted lifestyle and if i do this for i fear it will destroy relatonship am i jelous

2006-10-25 04:44:23 · 16 answers · asked by Bianca H 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

It's been over 15 years, and I absolutely adore my little man.
He ROCKS!
And you?

2006-10-25 04:43:23 · 33 answers · asked by mom 4 in Marriage & Divorce

dated my ex for 8yrs and was married for 2 of the yrs he ws the first serious relationship I ever had.help!give me some ideas....

2006-10-25 04:43:22 · 4 answers · asked by April 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-25 04:42:55 · 18 answers · asked by its_one_eyed_willy 1 in Singles & Dating

i live in pottawatomie county kansas with my 1 yr old daughter and am about to have no electricity please if u have any ideas help me and if no ideas pray for us i have never known life to b this cruel we have had so many losses in our lives the past two months i still wonder if i m living in a bad dream

2006-10-25 04:42:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The only people I know here are my partner and his parents. I hate going out on my own and even the thought of it makes me feel very nervous. I am very shy and not good at making new friends. My partner is often out with his friends and I am left at home alone. I cry so much when I am on my own. I feel so lonely, How can I overcome my shyness and meet friends. My loneliness is killing me, Please can someone help.

2006-10-25 04:41:42 · 13 answers · asked by kazmoby 1 in Friends

My boyfriend brought me into a jewlely store. He just wants to get the prefect gift so I believed him that it was not an engagement ring. Then the other day while I was at school I got the lyrics to the song my boyfriend and I want to dance to at our wedding. I put the song in a border. When I showed it to my boyfriend I told him to write something at the top when there was open space. And in other words he told me the ring was a engagement ring and that I know what will be writen in the space.

2006-10-25 04:41:22 · 25 answers · asked by reba s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

In response to my demand for my husband to start getting a job that has a steady income so that he can pay for his share of the expenses looking after our children and also to return whatever I have paid on his behalf over the last 6-7 years, he says that he will make sure he gets the children to pay me back when they can.

2006-10-25 04:41:14 · 14 answers · asked by Tired 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im not use to it the idea of entertaining opposite sex (aside from my husband) in our house. im thinking that my husband would have this bad thoughts of me flirting with other guys.

2006-10-25 04:41:08 · 10 answers · asked by shelley 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-25 04:41:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Guys i'm not a big footie fan, but having said that i really like watching the world cup....so enligten me...what would you compare the feeling to, when your team scores a goal, that you have waited for with bated breath.....describe that feeling you get seriously, what would you compare it to?...........If you can compare it.

2006-10-25 04:40:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine, who is a private person, normally doesn't want to write a blog, because he thinks showing everything to the world is not suitable for him.

However, he is tempted to create one now. The reason is he has been working overseas for a long time. So the person risks losing touch with many childhood friends, who stay local and may not know what he is at the moment. So he wants to write something, so friends can feel a bit closer to him. But he's still not sure.

Do you think creating a blog can help?

2006-10-25 04:40:41 · 9 answers · asked by lankhai2006 1 in Friends

i have fallen in love with my online guy but we are both attached how do you know if its real .... speciallly after three years

2006-10-25 04:40:13 · 9 answers · asked by dizzy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Martin, has turned for the worst, he throw the coffee able across the room, as i was supposingly annoying him. He was playing the playstation (tomb raider) at the time, all i said, was thats a monaster thats what its suppose to do. He said i was childish, useless, narrow-minded and snobby. I like to express my opinion, for example; i don't think kids should be smoking below the age of 16. He said well you cant stop!

2006-10-25 04:39:09 · 27 answers · asked by tessie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

she suspected her husband may be cheating. they have been together 4 years and he is much younger 27 , what can she do to find out ? she works nights so there is no way for her to leave cause she runs a bar in south beach. any suggestions?

2006-10-25 04:39:08 · 14 answers · asked by allenshaunna 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you think about a man who is good friends with a girl who is much younger, much prettier, and much smarter than his wife. They talk everyday, and they have conversations that are more suitable for talk among guys. How would you feel if you were the wife, and what would you think about the girl. Even if the wife doesn't know that he talks to the girl, is it ok?

2006-10-25 04:38:42 · 10 answers · asked by Sweet Belly 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im inlove with my best friend. I've liked him since I met him 4 years ago in 7th grade. Umm he kinda flirts with me. But like he knows I like him. We have made out once. Do I move on? Or keep trying?

2006-10-25 04:38:11 · 17 answers · asked by Ashley W. 1 in Singles & Dating

your husband puts you on a guilt trip for oral sex? I already recieved some very stupid and immature answers, i rated them with thumbs down you know who you are. Anyway, a little more background I love giving oral sex to my husand, anal and everything else, I am considered very attractive, no not fat. He is a lucky man because he gets oral sex about twice a week. He wants it more than that. He is a very lucky guy to get even that. Most ladies wont do that much. He still puts me on a guilt trip. I give him everything he wants. Is that enough information people? Again, no stupid answers, keep your stupid comments to your ignorant selves!

2006-10-25 04:38:07 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-25 04:38:04 · 6 answers · asked by carmen f 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been dating this girl, we spend most of our time together but I am worried about her true feelings. She tells me at least 10-15 times a day she loves me. She wears a necklas with my last name around her neck, a braclet around her ankle with my first name, and a ring on her wedding finger becuase I bought it for her and she wants to get married but I have yet to propose to her. She never calls me during the week so I went to see her twice last week as a suprise to try and catch her doing something wrong and she was always alone and still wearing everything( rings necklas braclet etc). Last weekend was her birthday we spent it together we had a great time. She walked me out to my truck at 3am in shorts and a t-shirt even know it was freezing she waiting until I left to go back inside. Now it is wensday and she hadn't called yet. Is she not calling in hope I will make another suprise visit? or Is there something I missed like a sign she wasn't happy? Or am I just being worried?

2006-10-25 04:37:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating