The only people I know here are my partner and his parents. I hate going out on my own and even the thought of it makes me feel very nervous. I am very shy and not good at making new friends. My partner is often out with his friends and I am left at home alone. I cry so much when I am on my own. I feel so lonely, How can I overcome my shyness and meet friends. My loneliness is killing me, Please can someone help.
2006-10-25 04:41:42 · 13 answers · asked by kazmoby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell your partner that you want to go out with him and his friends and that will give you an opportunity to meet some new people
2006-10-25 04:45:30 · answer #1 · answered by Cassey L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As one of life's singles, may I suggest joining a very good sports and health club where even If like me, you are perhaps not sporty minded, but want to meet like minded people in all sorts of roles, this can be the answer.
I joined about two months ago and their extra activities are endless (once you are into the exercise, at you own levels, talk to the admin staff about starting up a group dealing with people like your self who would love to meet you and others who by now needs your gained confidence) Exercise is so good for everyone< giving you new confidence relieving stress etc.
Only the other day I was at the bar, buying a coffee, and lo and behold this lovely sweet young lady started to engage me in encouraging conversation.If I may suggest a club its the Esporta,you may have one in Belfast, check it out Good Luck .
2006-10-25 05:09:17 · answer #2 · answered by razersharp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you go out with your partner? Or ask him to introduce you to people, as clearly your partner is from Belfast and must have friends and connections in the area. Ask him or his parents to either introduce you to family friends or recommend stuff that you could do. Belfast is a lively and thriving city - there's bound to be night-classes, theatre, gigs etc that you can go to. The Waterfront Hall is a great venue, always thronged with interesting events. Just don't be so shy and use the contacts you already have to get yourself started. Good luck.
2006-10-25 04:46:58 · answer #3 · answered by Sinead C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too old at 32?! No way are you too old. I desire i became 32 back - sigh... i'm 40 4 and attempting to commence back (now it really is way tougher, believe me). that is all about activities. it really is time to commence transferring into new activities you not in any respect even dreamed of doing till now. go outdoors your convenience zone... ie someplace except bars and Starbucks (sorry no offense meant). go horse using, ice skating, help at an animal safeguard, change into fascinated in an newbie dramatic club/society, or do in basic terms something outrageous which will make you renowned or wealthy (certain way if you're quite - take your clothing off in an aeroplane at 30,000 ft and walk up and down the aisle. you'd be arrested on touchdown and get instantly onto all the communicate shows interior of 24 hours. do not believe me? attempt it). So... imagine sideways, carry out a touch interesting issues, and also you may't fail to fulfill some interesting human beings. good luck :)
2016-12-05 05:24:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont spend your time here with us. gt off your duff and go out and have a good time. Dont worry about the partner. get a social life. try opening up and you will get a surprise
meet and greet is the name of the game. try it, you will be surprised at home many people will respond and you will get more friends than you think.
2006-10-25 04:54:32 · answer #5 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwww i know where belfast is!! im from ireland but im in the south (limerick!) i no hw it feels moving to a new place i moved from limerick to a knacker hole not too long ago and i thought i would neva find any friends. why not try bebo or myspace something like that! bebo's best because you can find other students from your school and class so its a great way to start up a friendship! good luck hun!!
2006-10-26 10:35:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People aren't going to come knocking on your door, looking for you! As hard as it sounds, you will have to socially stretch yourself. Start doing little things. Try the next door neighbours. People are nice. They won't be hard on you for being shy, in fact, they might make more of an effort to tease you out!
Good Luck
2006-10-25 05:05:37 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same here i moved to ga 2 or 3 years and still have no frinds and aare very shy!! I just go shop and sleep nothin really just do what you like.
2006-10-25 04:48:31 · answer #8 · answered by mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where's Belfast? I need to make a friend
2006-10-25 04:44:59 · answer #9 · answered by s9j6j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm perhaps try something such as bingo .. ok bad example but you get the idea some kind of activity where you meet new people under the pretense of the activity, perhaps yoga or martial arts, that way your meeting new people and keeping healthy.
2006-10-25 04:45:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋