Does anyone else notice as we abandon everything sacred, can we really expect this not to affect how we percieve people? How we relate to people?
How do we value someone, when as a society, we place no value on anything?
2006-10-25 04:45:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
most relationships are doomed to fail because nowadays nobody is ready to adjust or to adapt to the new circumstances of a relationship or to even face the highs n lows of a relationship
doomed because of our personal egos,
doomed because of the fact that we won't everything now n we have no paitence to work on things that take time.
the day we come above all the miseries of life,that day our relationships will just be perfect.
2006-10-25 05:05:36 · answer #1 · answered by glamdoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! what a wonderful and well thought out question....no actually i totally agree that everything sacred is being tossed to one side, and there will be distortions in the way we perceive people...everything important has become all too casual now, and society has lost it's place regarding values, morals etc.... and this is sure to play a big part in why so many relationships are destined to fail.
2006-10-25 11:58:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is the hardest job that I've ever had so far in life. One thing I can tell you, though, is that you have to keep it fresh and new every single day. And not just sexually, but emotionally. For my husband and I, it really is very important to hear "I love you" on a regular basis, not so much everyday anymore like it used to be, but still a few times a week. We also can't pass by each other in a room without reaching out to touch one another, even if it's just an arm, or a shoulder. A lot of people (especially our parents) think we're too 'mushy', but it's kept us going for over three years now, so we're going to stick to what works. I prefer to be one of those senior couples who still take walks together holding hands.
2006-10-25 11:52:06 · answer #3 · answered by Shayna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think one reason why relationships fail now more is that people are not so much into gender specific roles. Also women don't depend on men as much as they need to. There is more equality on certain things. Also in America we can usually marry who we want. Therefore, its not like we are locked into one relationship for life. People do work a lot more. Maybe thats why a lot of people cann't work on their relationship. Our society in America is individualistic and probably more egocentric, so people are more concerned about themselves and not others all of the time.
2006-10-25 11:56:46 · answer #4 · answered by Erin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause no one has basic old fashioned morals and values anymore. Everything is a quick fix, and if it doesn't work abandon it, no one works at anything anymore. No one puts their faith in God or their fellow man - - sad to say, but it's a sign of the times and this is how it is going to be in the last days.
2006-10-25 11:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by Cris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most relationships fail because people do not have proper expectations of what a relationship is. They think movies, books and songs are actually real. Marriage or any relationship is work.
2006-10-25 11:49:07 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion, because:
1. divorce is easier than ever
2. people are getting married too quickly
to me, I see this as largely an "american" thing. I guess we think we're such an advanced society that we fell we "know" who's mr./ms. right, only to overlook all the red flags that show that person is mr./ms. wrong. What do developing/other nations have that we don't? I don't know.
2006-10-25 11:52:17 · answer #7 · answered by Mama JK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you reqally think about it we as a society skip from one thing to another. Cell phones, music groups, clothes, movies they all are hot for a minute then they are replaced. Sadly relationships are also a victim in our fast pace lifes. It is our need for the next best thing that ruins everything for us all.
2006-10-25 11:51:05 · answer #8 · answered by Paka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that its necessarily not valuing I think its laziness that is the major player in the failure of most relationships. We get lazy in our relationships and don't want to do the work to get and keep them on track. My boyfriend taught me that relationships need teamwork, and that its not up to one person or the other to do all the work.
2006-10-25 11:57:36 · answer #9 · answered by Krissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself these questions:
Do you give him what he wants and needs sexually?
Oral to completion
Anal
Outdoor fun
BDSM
Group fun
Are you watching the weight?
Whining and moaning all the time?
Give him whatever he wants whenenver he wants wherever he wants and with whoever he wants or end up fat lonely depressed and with this happening again and again in your life......and ignore the puritans, the losers, the religious and the bitter dumped souls who post here xxx
2006-10-25 11:50:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋