he says he will only be with me while this is happennihg in bed i say no because this is not my wanted lifestyle and if i do this for i fear it will destroy relatonship am i jelous
2006-10-25 04:44:23 · 16 answers · asked by Bianca H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if u are uncomfortable dont do it.. tell him no. if that is wha the wants get him a porno with girl on girl. he can watch that. if u do this it might destroy you relationship and if you do it once he will never stop asking
2006-10-25 04:46:34 · answer #1 · answered by melissa_williams31379 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has nothing to do with jealousy. But it is a moral issue. First of all you need to leave this man, he has no respect for you. If this is what he wants to do, tell him he has to find someone who is into this lifestyle. So I think it will be best for the two of us to depart.
2006-10-25 11:55:28 · answer #2 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, don't let him guilt you into doing this. It sounds like he has hit some kind of button by calling you jealous, so he will probably keep saying that to you in hopes that you will do it, because you don't want to be viewed as a jealous woman
2006-10-25 11:54:34 · answer #3 · answered by micheleh29 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did this for my EX cause he really wanted to and was very pushy.. i was really jelouse and hated the whole thing. i told him how i felt after and the only thing he said was i am sorry babe but it was fun right? i was like for him.. every time the other girl was around i would get mad and we fought alot and my jelouse problem got worse and eventually ended the relationship. its fun to be daring and stuff just if your not comfortable dont do it.. i ignored it and went with it and regreted every bit of it.
2006-10-25 12:00:11 · answer #4 · answered by bbb h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your guns, or lose the creep. If he has so little respect for your wishes it doesn't sound like much of a relationship anyway.
2006-10-25 11:47:11 · answer #5 · answered by stienbabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truely cared for you, he wouldn't make you do something that you don't want to do. Do you really LIKE that kind of "relationship"? Trust me, there's someone out there that will actually care for your feelings and not be so self-centered.
2006-10-25 11:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not jealous. Don't let his sick fantasies make you insecure either. If he keeps it up and cant take what you want to heart then he isnt worth your time hun. Get a new man.
2006-10-25 11:47:41 · answer #7 · answered by autumnsmommy21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not jealour ur smart us guys always have fantasy of having two women in bed with us he is just trying to fulfill his fantasy thru you so dont let him talk u into it if ur heart dosent allow u to do so
ps: try talking to him and telling him how u feel about this
2006-10-25 11:47:30 · answer #8 · answered by mrdeeds_1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I do not think you are jealous I think you are crazy to do something that you do not want to do. Get a backbone and stick up for your self.
2006-10-25 11:47:02 · answer #9 · answered by blueblossom33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go and do something u arent comfortable doing. he needs to understand that.. If not then u just need to move on he isnt worth your time
2006-10-25 12:46:03 · answer #10 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋