I feel im neva satisfied when im with a person that likes me more than i like him...being with a person that i like more, gives me satisfaction and happiness and when im with a guy that likes me a lot...i feel im not attracted to him...even tho i kno its prob best to go for a guy who treats me nice and cares about me...but i can't help feeling attracted to guyz who are cold emotionaless and act like he doesn't care....is there something wrong with me? does anyone else feel this way?
2006-10-25 03:52:22 · 5 answers · asked by Forever happy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is nothing wrong with you. A lot of women like the chase, trying to change somebody or get what they cant have. Its all part of the game. Only thing is, you might wind up getting really hurt in the longrun. Not only that, I bet that one day you might wish to find a guy who treats you how you want to be treated. I dont know how old you are, but usually when you get to a certain point in your life, being in a true, mature, honest, and caring relationship is what really matters. You get tired of the game after a while.
2006-10-25 03:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is obvious to the reader that you like to have control in the relationship... I can understand this, when you come from a place where things were always controlled by others...
It stems from your childhood perhaps and now is present in your everyday life....You didn't have control then but have it now. It gives you a sense of security to know you can pull out whenever you want or stay if it suits you..... Some people just like bad boys, but this is not the case here. You need to have the drivers wheel.
There is nothing wrong with you , you just need to be in charge...
2006-10-25 04:14:29 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think its weird that your attracted to guys that are cold and emotionaless because most girls want the guy to love them because being with a guy thats cold he might tell you he loves you or anything like that and if he does he wont tell you and that sucks.
2006-10-25 03:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by somebodyssexygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don;t know if you like him more for sure or not thats an argument you can have forever he will say that he loves you just as much or more so don't fight it
2006-10-25 03:55:08 · answer #4 · answered by Smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Somebodyssexygirl's(watever)
2006-10-25 03:59:35 · answer #5 · answered by bladebreakers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋