My best friend and I got in this huge fight during spring break, but in the summer, we agreed 2 be friends again. So I requested to be her friend on myspace and she accepted, but then when i messaged her in a friendly way like saying i liked her layout and told her what was going on in my world, she deleted me as a friend. What do I do? I want to be her friend again (not on myspace in the real world) but I don't want to seem desperate.
2006-10-25 04:17:26 · 12 answers · asked by maconheira 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
thanks guys-but how can i talk to her-she deleted from me on myspace, i think she got a new sn, when i call she never picks up, we go to different schools, and she lives 30 minutes away. I haven't seen her since before our fight.
2006-10-25 04:29:53 · update #1
shondak-thats what happened between us. we didn't have a fist fight, it was a telephone conversation and before that, we never had a little argument-whenever we wanted to do different things, one always gave in so we wouldn't fight
2006-10-25 04:40:59 · update #2
If that's all you did and she deleted you... I think she owes you an expaination... she may refuse to talk to you and you can't control that... but if it was me I would try to get to the bottom of it... give it one try... if she Won't talk to you about it... move on... I know you won't br able to get this off your mind until you try... but if ahe choose to delete you from her life so be it... she wasn't a real friend to start with... hope this helps!!!
2006-10-25 04:27:22 · answer #1 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and ask what happened with the MySpace thing. If she declined you on purpose, then don't worry about the friendship. Sometimes its hard to forgive and forget things that were said in a time such as this one. My best friend and I almost had a fist fight- we had never even argued before- now, after all that, I can't even look at her. Sometimes its best to just to let it go. You may not want it to, but if she does, then what can you do?
2006-10-25 11:30:12 · answer #2 · answered by shondak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well In my opion she probably just accepted you as a friend to to be nice, not really expecting to actually want to hang and pick up where you guys left off. Another thing is that maybe she didn't like what you were saying about what was going on in your life. If you really want to be her friend I say message her again and ask for her phone number. If she doesn't give you her number or respond at all I would suggest that you just leave her alone because it's obvious that she doesn't want to be your friend. In that case why would you want to be hers?
2006-10-25 11:23:58 · answer #3 · answered by black beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't want to be your friend, and plays silly games like this, you should forget it. Probably she thinks its entertaining to have all this drama, but don't buy into it. If you do want to let her know, that it hurt you, tell her. Call her, and ask, ever so politely, why you cannot be friends on myspace? Then, proceed to ask her if you did something, maybe she is angry with you over something.
Analyze weather its worth it to pursue the friendship, because it doesn't seem like healthy one at the moment.
2006-10-25 11:21:47 · answer #4 · answered by Fran Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend like that kinda. I really wanted to make up with her too. I think that you should go ask what's wrong. If you did something wrong that she doesn't like, she should be able to tell you. If she is saying that nothing's wrong then ask her to put you back on her friends list (in real life and myspace) I know its not as easy as it sounds, but the longer you wait, the worse and harder its going to get. Don't wait too long.
~Metle~
2006-10-25 11:27:48 · answer #5 · answered by metle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should approachthis person and tell her how you really feellll about the situation. I don't know why she deleted you as her friend but maybe she deleted you on accident, or maybe she thought that you was being funny/smart in some sort of way. But i do think that it would be best if you just approach the person and tell her how you feel, and tell her that your sorry for anything that she feels that you've did wrong.
2006-10-25 11:23:03 · answer #6 · answered by Three Jai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say nothing to her, about what happened on myspace. Sent her a card, tell her that you miss her as a friend. and that you hope that the two of you can start over as friends, Then wait and see if she answers you. You will know by this! I hope it all works out for you.
2006-10-25 11:23:01 · answer #7 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she deleted you by mistake and she doesn't know maybe u should talk with her face to face and explain the situation, (maybe the fight u two got into it was a sily one), and a fight can't delete all u shared together and if it can the u should better search for better friends.
2006-10-25 11:28:39 · answer #8 · answered by black_cat_heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call her and act normal by asking her whats going on and yadda yadda. If shes still upet shes bound to say something.
2006-10-25 11:20:42 · answer #9 · answered by Momma_Of_3_Wife_Of_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and find out what happened. If she's not open to talk to you then she isn't a true friend
2006-10-25 11:27:09 · answer #10 · answered by sandy_in_bc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋