What should someone do if the abuser is in Law enforcement, like a cops or FBI agent, or even a supervisor or cheif of police?
2006-10-25 04:10:27 · 18 answers · asked by msmm02 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
What if we live in a small community?
2006-10-25 04:29:11 · update #1
It do sent matter Go out of his district...This is wrong and He is of the law....Breaking the Law..Get proof that this is happening...Video.Tape his rage And then you will get something done My add vice is to leave and get out of what you are in...And as soon as possible...No one deserves this...He has let his power go to his head....He is not God...Like he thinks he is ......Get out ....Before he hurts you God bless you and you are in my prayers....
2006-10-25 06:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take all of your proof like pictures, police reports etc to a lawyer and ask for legal advise. They may know of a shelter or some way for you to get the help you need. Don't let the fact that they are in law enforcement scare you away from getting the help you need and don't stay in a violent situation. Get a restraining order against him. A lawyer should be able to help you out. Good Luck.
2006-10-25 04:34:39 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and see the district attorney they could help. there are people within the department that police their own as well. if you are being abused seek a protective order from the court. whatever you do make sure it doesn't get to the point where you do the wrong thing. even though it doesn't seem so at times the law is in place to protect everyone.
2006-10-25 04:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by staqk3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reporting them shouldn't be any different. If anything the victim should be more determined to bring them to justice. How can they be in law enforcement when they are guilty of such a henious crime.
They may face some oposition but nothing can be worse than keeping quiet about it. Tell whoever it is to gather courage and remember why it is it need to be done.
They deserve help all the same.
2006-10-25 04:14:41 · answer #4 · answered by sassedangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to take this to the person supervisor, you really should have some sort of proof. Witnesses, pictures, tape recordings, (in my state as long as one party knows of the tape recording, it is allowable) check your state laws. Don't stop and keep taking it higher until you get someone to listen to you, don't let their profession scare you and do not let him intimidate you into thinking that he will be protected, if he is guilty of this, he will be found out and you will be able to move on with your life.
try the prosecutor too, keep going until you get the right person and the right person that will listen.
2006-10-25 04:24:45 · answer #5 · answered by NolaDawn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out who his Superior is. Even the Chief reports to someone. If you are afraid, tell someone else that will support you. Maybe your minister, or a women's shelter representative. Being a policeman will not help in a case like that. DO SOMETHING! Good luck.
2006-10-25 04:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by Bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would seek out the District attorney. Have some proof of injuries, like hospital visits, photos and or witnesses. Please do something and don't just stay because you are scared. There are even organizations for women who will hide and protect you for a while. Best of luck to you
2006-10-25 04:29:57 · answer #7 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can, I would go to an outer county police/sherriff agency. Things might be worse for you if you go to his agency. This happened in my state. The wife complained to his supervisor, but no on believed her. Then, not to scare you, but she ended up dead from domestic violence and they arrested him. So, you'd be safer to go to an outer agency.
2006-10-25 05:24:31 · answer #8 · answered by khaileebaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if a person is being abused by one of these this is what I would do for sure.
1-I would take pics of every bruise or mark they ever put on me.
2-I would document everything and tell someone I could trust. and
3-Once all of that is taken care of I would get a gun and blow his
?ick string clean from between is legs, and go to jail if that's what it takes.
F*ck the dumb sh!t!
2006-10-25 04:16:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
document every bruise, cut or mark he puts on you, but beware after you report him to his supervisor, you had better change locks on doors and get someone to stay with you, because he will either be suspended and must seek help or he will be fired from his job
2006-10-25 06:24:26 · answer #10 · answered by Frederick B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋