Ok, my b/f and i are in two different school, about 3 hours away. And we have been going really good, and then all of a sudden, he starts thinking that i have been with some other guy, which i haven't, and then he just tells me that he can't trust me and that he doesn't care about anything but he still loves me, please anybody, what do i do to gain his trust and to make things better?
2006-10-25 04:10:46 · 16 answers · asked by meangel15 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its never gonna be easy for anyone to give you FULL trust when your in different schools...
its a lot harder to have those kind of relationships.
but non the less you know your not doing anything bad so he shouldnt be so paranoid.
BUT i read on MSN news that men tend to put the blame on women when their insecure OR when they've done sometihng bad and are trying to put the blame on you for something stupid they did.
pay attention to the little things their the ones that can make ALL the difference.
2006-10-25 04:18:19 · answer #1 · answered by AWESOMA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have not done anything wrong then don't feel pressured or hopeless. You have nothing to fear, there should not be a reason why you have lost his trust. Speak to him ask him what are the reasons why he believes this and make him see that he is wrong try to put your self in his shoes so that you may understand him better and this way is easier for you to speak to him. Don't worry he will get over it.
2006-10-25 04:15:47 · answer #2 · answered by andia2amat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when a guy does that he's just projecting his own guilt about cheating on you. Tell him that if he doesn't trust you, you don't love him. Then find someone who knows that you're trustworthy. Once the trust in a relationship is gone, it's gone for good.
2006-10-25 04:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by rmdndangerous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are truly being honest with him, and not messing around.
There really isn't much you can do to prove that.
It's him that's going to have to come around in his own time and learn to trust you. You can't make someone behave the way you want. So just ignore it, and just be you, and honest, truthful, that's all you can do.
2006-10-25 04:15:10 · answer #4 · answered by Jas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u sure u didnt do anything to make him lose trust. are u talking about other guys to him, are u telling him storries about the parties u go to. THink about that cuz guys can think just as crazy as gals
2006-10-25 04:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by dunebugger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not up to you to gain his trust back if you've done nothing wrong. It's his self confidence problem. My guess is he's feeling guilty about something...
2006-10-25 04:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't you REMEMBER THAT YOU DID NOTHING WRONG???!!! HELLO??? WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU?? You are trying to "FIX" something that isn't even broken here!! Believe me girl, and I have been around much longer than you have, so I speak from EXPERIENCE here...(you'd better listen and listen good...or you can act stupid and turn a deaf ear on what I am about to say) It is HIM who cheated on YOU!! HE "DREAMS" up that you cheated on him - why? Because He is the one who cheated on YOU< GIRL!! ARE YOU EVEN HEARING ME?! OFCOURSE HE still "loves" you....cuz HE IS THE ONE WHO CHEATED ON YOU!!! Get on with your life you deserve MUCH better!
2006-10-25 04:20:48 · answer #7 · answered by crazynays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, and if he doesn't trust you tell him you have done nothing wrong - give him one last chance and then if he doesn't trust you dump him.
2006-10-25 04:14:48 · answer #8 · answered by Lucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does not seem that he really does not trust you, i think he is looking for a way out without hurting u to badly
2006-10-25 04:13:59 · answer #9 · answered by menguss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me that he's the one with the problem! Tell him you've not been unfaithful and if he doesn't believe you?! dump him, he's the one with the trust issues.
2006-10-25 04:14:41 · answer #10 · answered by sred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋