Ok i babysit for this couple and well they always stay home on the wknds i know that cuz thats what they tell me and well we live in the same apartment complex and i always see there cars home! anyways im young 21 to be exact and i go out alot on the wknds i went to a bar this wknd and saw the ladys husband there with another women he said it was his cousin but then they left right away! should i tell his wife or keep it to myself?
2006-10-25 05:02:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
keep it to yourself. none of your business. what that man does in the dark, will come out in the light, besides how do you know that the wife doesn't already know?
2006-10-25 05:06:32 · answer #1 · answered by T W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look you are treading on ground that really is none of your business. In other words "keep your mouth shut". Sooner or later the other half will find out, but you do not need to be tending to someone else's business. No matter what you think, if you go down this road of tending to other people's business you will be known as a "rat". Noone likes a rat. There are people in society that will tell you being a rat is not even good for your health. I know you have seen in movies where in different environments people who put their nose in other peoples business tend to wind up getting hurt mentally and physically. How would you feel if someone started tending to your business? Let it go and in the long run you will be glad you did not go down this road of gloom and despair. "Do not be a rat" and you will be fine.
2006-10-25 12:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a letter and tell her, just have someone else write it. Then just go on as if nothing happened do whatever you normally do. This way you get it off your conscious and your not making enemies.
2006-10-25 13:20:54 · answer #3 · answered by JodiBaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it to yourself! never get involved with other peoples lifes when it comes to relationships. Stay out of it!
2006-10-25 12:07:50 · answer #4 · answered by Jas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its really hard i guess u should tell her coz any way she will know in the future. u can tell her in a gentle way, like first start with throwing hints then tell her the story
2006-10-25 12:10:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring it up next time you see him and she's around. She knows her husband, she'll ask you for more details when he's not around. I would like to be told.(you might have to get a new job)YES tell her.............
2006-10-25 12:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the heck tell her, then again you will lose your Babysitting job.
2006-10-25 12:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by 'Cause I'm Blonde 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep out of it, none of your business... Besides you could lose some money... Maybe you should come onto him, if you fancy him... ;)
2006-10-25 12:06:12 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
**** thats a horrible position to be in but tell if you can
2006-10-25 12:05:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋