when we started goin out 2 years beck..he was just perfect..but now lately he has a change in attitude... he stilll loves me but has oblivious to the fact that certain things bug me a lott
2006-10-25 04:55:20 · 13 answers · asked by ss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The worst thing a woman to percieve is that they can CHANGE a man, or shape him into what YOU want him to be...
You WANT to see a change for the better? One of my professor's at school told me:"if you want to see a change in someones behavior, you might want to start with...yourself"
Also, people don't "bug" or bother you. You LET them bother you.
2006-10-25 04:59:06 · answer #1 · answered by LovePinkPuffies 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People change, thats just part of life. I'd bet money that u aren't the same person that u were two yrs ago either. I'm not trying to be mean, I just think that the trick is growing and changing together. My mom always says u either grow together or u grow apart. You hafta decide if u want to do the work to stay in this relationship or not. Have ya talked to him bout any of this?
2006-10-25 05:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by Krissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need some time apart. when you spend too much time with a person everything about them bugs you and every thing about you bugs them spend a few days away from each other and everything will be as good as new
2006-10-25 05:07:18 · answer #3 · answered by TOYA J K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people grow closer together and sometimes they grow farther apart. If you feel that your gap is big now, don't let your history hold you together. He is not what he used to be and maybe he's not right for you anymore... you just have to be open to that and really think it over.
It's a tough situation, good luck with it.
2006-10-25 04:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then TALK to him about it. Tell him at a time when neither of you is upset what is bugging you. Talk to him in a nice way, in a way that you two could work it out - not accusitory.
If that doesn't work.. then its time to move on.
2006-10-25 04:58:42 · answer #5 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mayb hes just PMSing or hes just not the guy you thought he was
2006-10-25 05:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by Starr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels secure in relationship, so he thinks that he doesn't have to work hard on it.
2006-10-25 05:02:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds normal wailt till you get married
2006-10-25 04:59:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
typical dude sounds like he is bored so spice it up
2006-10-25 04:58:00 · answer #9 · answered by smilingontime 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow
2006-10-25 05:17:43 · answer #10 · answered by brandy baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋