My 4 year old was taken care of by Grandma alot when he was growing up ( I was on bed rest for two pregnancies). If he wanted something or didnt want something, he would wine and start to cry and then he would start itching his legs (exzima). So we would go and pick him up and do whatever we could to calm him down so he wouldnt itch hinself until he bled. Well now he is older and I dont think it is ok for him to wine. If he starts to itch when he doesnt get what he wants, i just put him in the corner and tell him that if he wants to throw a fit he can do it by himself. That helped alot with that. But now he wines even more than before. He wines if he cant get his shoes on,if someone has his toy, if grandma is taking too long to get his food ready (that gets too me, but she thinks its cute). How do I teach him to use words to let me know when he needs help? My parents raised me to think it is not ok to cry, I dont want to do that to him, but when he starts school he will get picked on.
2007-09-06
05:13:22
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