I have 3 y/o fraternal twin girls. One acts like a princess, the other like a boy. She dresses like a boy, runs like a boy, likes boy things, etc. I don't by any means encourage this, but I do allow her to wear shirts with baseballs on them and jean shorts, allow her to play with tractors, etc., because that's what she likes. She does have dolls, play dress up clothes, but she doesn't really like them. A lot of people seem to think that I should take all of the boy things away from her and make her act like a girl, but I don't see that this will have any effect on her but to cause confusion later on in life. If she is 3 and has been doing this since she was 2, I think it was inherent, and I just feel that taking away these things from her will do more damage than good. Any thoughts or suggestions?
2007-05-27
06:24:44
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Wendy R
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