My almost 2-year-old son holds me, as Mom, personally responsible for his frustrations and often acts out by hitting me. I follow the Super Nanny's method; get down to his level, firmly tell him that hitting is unacceptable and he will get a time-out if he continues. After time out, I explain what he has done wrong and he must apologize. I tell him I love him and we have hugs (he has come a long way and is usually pretty good at apologizing now).
Both Dr. Phil and the Super Nanny are against spanking, but it does say in the Bible, that spanking has its place (Proverbs 23:13-14). With time outs he will learn for the moment, but as soon as he gets angry he hits again! He started hitting before I ever spanked him, so I don't believe I taught him this, but time outs don't seem to work well enough, and I worry that spanking will encourage physically aggressive behavior. What do you think is the best way to deal with this?
2007-05-15
09:13:21
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