All right, I'm having a huge problem. I'm a single mom with a 4 year old daughter. She hasn't seen her bio-father in 3 years; he gave up his parental rights when we divorced. He has ADD, Bi-polar, anxiety, and depression. I am (normally) a very calm person, it takes a lot to make me stressed, and I am STRESSED!!! I know a lot of it is my fault, I've given into her at times, I haven't been as consistant as I should be, and our routine has gone to hell. I'm paying for it now. She throws one tantrum after another; screaming, violent tantrums. She does things to spite me. Tonight she cut her hair for the 4th time! She got scissors out of the trash and hid them up in her room. When I sent her to her room she cut off her hair (made me furious). There are times when she is just the sweetest child ever, and then all of a sudden she goes into these rages. I don't know what to do anymore. Any advice would be appreciated, and if you need any more info, I'd be happy to oblige.
2006-12-14
19:10:04
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6 answers
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kameka
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