I'm 19 years old, and about a month ago I asked my mom if I could get put on birth control. She freaked out, and started telling my how my morals have changed, and on and on.
She then sent me countless e-mails about how it's better to wait until you're married to have sex; sending me things about STD's and other things that I learned about in sex ed.
I haven't done anything yet, and my boyfriend is not pressuring me to do anything that I'm not ready for. I'm ready to have sex, and I was mature enough to go talk to her before I did anything.
I would feel horrible going behind her back to get it, because I've always been very close to her, and she always told me that if I ever thought about having sex, that I should go talk to her about it, and she help me be safe. I talked to her about it, and now I'm not allowed to go visit him where he goes to college, we're not allowed to be alone, and if I go out with him, I get a phone call at 10:30...asking me when I'm going to be home. Help!
2006-10-26
09:51:53
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