Other - Pregnancy & Parenting - October 2006

I am 4 1/2 months pregnant and I have a daughter. I made some mistakes in the past and now the baby's father is not there but says he wants to be there. He said I was just someone he was seeing while him and his girlfriend were apart I know I was stupid when he told me he couldnt have kids now Im pregnant and going to school Im 23 so is he. He wants to take the baby away from me and now his "girlfriend" or whatever is back with him. What should I do. I dont want to do this alone but I feel like its going that way. I feel like just gettin that child support from him I was trying to do it the civil way but I feel real hurt.

2006-10-28 09:50:40 · 10 answers · asked by diana_catcheway 1

I am going to have baby # 3 in june! I picked some names out but no one seems to like them so please can someone please give me there oppion.
My son and daughters names are way to popular and this one I dont want a popular name.

I love the name ally for a girl. But i can not come up with a middle name for it any suggestions?

The last name would be wheeler.
Anther question how should i spell Ally I have seen it spelled

Allie
Ally
Aly.
Thank you all so much!

2006-10-28 08:47:34 · 6 answers · asked by crazziegrl14 5

2006-10-28 08:05:10 · 11 answers · asked by Tricia 3

Somebody told me that miscarraige of your first pregnancy is higher than any other pregnancies. Has anyone heard this? I lost my first baby at 9 weeks and we are trying again. It would give me peace of mind if it's a lower risk this second time around.

2006-10-28 07:17:00 · 10 answers · asked by lissachck 3

Hi, my name is Stephanie. I'm 22 and a new mom to a 2 month old boy. His name is Mason Scott. If there are any other mommies on here that have Myspace and would like to add me as a friend, feel free to do so. Here is my address for my Myspace page:

http://www.myspace.com/sassyamethyst

2006-10-28 06:02:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'll do this quick, my kid(17)spreading her wings, trying the drinking and stuff. she had a halloween get together(under 10 people) the drinking was supervised, one rule for outof town kids was they couldnt leave after drinking so everyone spent the night with blankets sacked out on the floor. one of the kids was my girls boyfriend and his buddy. the rest were female. my point of view, everyone woke up safe and sound. my mother found out and went off on me, she dosent think my girl should be drinking or having boys sleep over. mom is now not speaking to me. was i comfortable with this....not really, in a perfect world she wouldnt be drinking or having a boyfriend.but i'd rather it be in front of me then behind my back. did i screw up or what??? help

2006-10-28 05:22:01 · 14 answers · asked by thepainter 4

I read several articles warning that human over population will be the end of our existance on the planet.. our growth is consuming farm land for housing.. polluting the skies and water and soil.. that in 100 years life expectancy will be ENFORCED (shortened by death to older individuals) to reduce the numbers... that in 50 years there may be a "every man for himself" way of killing off others...

so.. how many kids is too many??? becuase if we dont act now.. the future for every kid we have is going to be bleak....

2006-10-28 04:11:44 · 14 answers · asked by CF_ 7

2006-10-27 23:46:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

what about the men who want to raise the children they helped conceive? Why do people say men have absolutely no say in the matter when it takes two to make a child? Isn't that kind of heartless?

2006-10-27 22:21:08 · 13 answers · asked by sister_godzilla 6

he wants me to get pregnant but im not yet ready although im 24.we had unprotected sex but i have my regular period before. at first i started to take oral contraceptive at the 5th day of my period which is but stop it after 2 weeks and i had bleed for 3 days and got my period 2 weeks after.now im not taking oral contraceptive but soon after we had unprotected sex what i do is i took 4 pills of my oral contraceptive and another 4 pill after 12 hours bec. my oral contraceptive according to my research can be use as emergency contraceptive. i dont have active sex life so what will i do is rather than taking oral contraceptive everyday i took emergency contraceptive after we had sex.now i got my period on october 8 and last october 24-26 id bled.im now got my period 2times a month. is there a possibility that i could be pregnant?no other sign of pregnancy but i feel pain in my lower abdomen.is it advisable to take emergency pill as contraception?i think it mess up my period.

2006-10-27 20:48:34 · 9 answers · asked by krungkrung 1

We are tryin to get pregnant and then i seen that blood a few nights ago and dont know what to think. Im going to make an app for the OBGYN Monday because they are not open on weekends So should i take it easy and buy a test or just wait it out and make it worth the OBGYN visit? answer s needed!!!!!

2006-10-27 20:16:27 · 9 answers · asked by chillywater18 1

My sister in law just found out she is pregnant (our due dates should be a few days apart) she wants to tell my brother in law in a cute way. It is her 1st child, his 3rd (he is divoreced) ANy Ideas? She was thinking a poem, but neither of us are good at that & I can not find one.

2006-10-27 19:27:36 · 12 answers · asked by notAminiVANmama 6

My husband and I have been married for 4 years. I'm 24 and my husband is 32. We have no children yet but we do want to start a family. We have waited because I wanted to finish college first. I will graduate with my bachelors degree in May.

My husband and I were thinking about starting a family soon. If I got pregnant today I would still graduate college 2 months before the baby was born.

We are having a hard time becasue my family won't butt out. My mom is constantly telling me I am too young and we should wait a few more years before starting a family. She thinks I should be well established in my career first.

I don't know what to do. I don't want to have to hear it from my mom or family if I get pregnant but then again my husband really wants a baby. He wants a baby while he is still in his early 30's. I'm neutral. Honestly what would you do?? Would you wait? Is it going to be harder to start a career if I have a baby?

2006-10-27 18:49:53 · 37 answers · asked by Sunjin 1

2006-10-27 17:47:24 · 4 answers · asked by sanbranchranch 1

Would it change if he/she had a job and were no longer in school?

2006-10-27 16:04:31 · 31 answers · asked by Maggie 1

ok my last name is House, and i am wanting to name my first son which is due in 4 months Titus. I havent came up with a middle name yet but does any or everyone think that Titus House is a messed up name or original? Be respectful we are talking about my future son

2006-10-27 16:04:12 · 20 answers · asked by tim_house2003 3

That you'd just rather hear finger nails on a chalkboard & than have to watch?
I'm asking because mine is getting to the age where he's starting to watch tv & just wondering what I should let him watch & not let him watch.

2006-10-27 16:01:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My insurance company provides coverage for a tube-reversal to be done, would it be worth it?

2006-10-27 15:48:02 · 9 answers · asked by neverwillb2004 1

Yesterday, my husband and I were told we were having a boy! Okay, so now we need a name.... here is the main problem, I want something that is a "normal" name, my husband wants something unique. The middle name will be Mitchell because that is a family tradition. Any ideas on a first name?

2006-10-27 15:16:59 · 34 answers · asked by katherinernilson 2

Well I went to the dr. today for other reasons and at the end they drew blood to run some test and I asked for them to do another test a pregency test since I was late.But I think I'm just late because they had to take me off of my Birth Control(for medical reasons) Well I wouldn't really mind If I was pregnant, I do want a baby. However right now I am on some medications for couple months to a year that would not be good for a baby if I was to become pregnant. Should I be worried If I am pregnant or not? And How long does it take for the dr. to call back for the results? Do they even call if it was negitive or when it was positive?And If I were pregnant (if you were in my shoes) (and no abortion is not an option) would you continue with the meds you are on which would be bad for the baby.....or stop taking it when it can mean your own life is in danger?

2006-10-27 14:24:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

She my friend's husband cheated on her a few years back with a homewrecker named lindsey. She dosen't know about it. She knows about the affair but i recently found out the girls name and that was it. I think she shouldn't name her baby that for that reason and that cause it is not really a pretty name after all. Should i tell her? or what?

2006-10-27 14:16:28 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

we want to have a baby boy my wifes menstrual period started on the 26/10/2006 and will end on the 30/10/2006,want to know if its possible to know when to meet her for us to get a boy.

2006-10-27 11:47:11 · 4 answers · asked by ajani569 1

my girlfriend and I have decided that we would like to have 2 kids but also want to get married sooner rather than later, I want kids by the time I'm 25 and as for her sooner is better, she said that 18 or older which makes sense...

so my question is "at what age before 25 is it good to have kids?"

thanks,
Mitch

2006-10-27 10:43:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please answer these questions:
1.How many kids do you have?
2.What are their ages?
3.What are the genders?
4.Are you currently pregnant, if so how far along?
5.Do you have any multiple births?
6.How old were you when you have your first child?
7.What are their names?
My answers:
1.2 kids, 1 on the way
2.Age 3
3.Girls
4.Yes, due 3-24-07
5.Yes, twins
6.30 y/o
7.Twins:Kaitlyn Paige and Elizabeth Morgan, The one on the way: Alexandra Grace

2006-10-27 10:13:49 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

My uterus, according to my doctor is where it should be but my tummy isn't big and sticking out like a 7 1/2month pregnant womans normally looks. It looks like I'm pregnant just more like 5-6 months? Does the baby have room? And he does move a lot, but latlely just rolling and flipping around type feelings not the kicking he was doing a few weeks ago? Is all this normal?? 1st pregnancy

2006-10-27 09:59:59 · 18 answers · asked by Melissa t 2

2006-10-27 09:53:14 · 12 answers · asked by gigerninfo 2

2006-10-27 09:47:11 · 15 answers · asked by trishscotth 1

2006-10-27 09:31:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son and I were invited to a birthday party for a child in his music class. We only see them during this class once a week and have known them for about a month. I don't want to hurt the mom's feeling by not going - she is new in the area and doesn't have much family in this country - but I don't want to spend much on a child I hardly know.

2006-10-27 09:26:18 · 27 answers · asked by AlongthePemi 6

I understand that the baby is better than a pump at emptying your breasts, and I have tried everything to getting my supply higher. My labor was horrible everything went wrong and after my milk supply never fully came in. I was given a prescription for a hospital grade breast pump at 5 days post partum and was told to pump after every feeding every two hours. My baby seems hungry alot and cries so my hubby supplements after feedings with formula. she wont take the bottle from me which breaks my heart when my hubby is at work and she cries. After taking mothers milk tea and a prescription of reglan to increase my milk supply i have broken into an allergic reaction and have had hives for over two weeks that drive me crazy. I have had my hubby give her the bottle and just pumped to see what I could get and usually its no more than 2 to 3 ounces total. My baby is 6 wks and 10lbs and will take 4 ounces from a bottle. I worry so much.

2006-10-27 09:23:30 · 6 answers · asked by 343535445 2